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dragoncrystal @crysontherocks77 (1273) • United States 8 Jul 09

I was curious as to what you guys or gals thought about the fact that the Jackson family spoke at the memorial and what you thought about Michael Jackson's daughter speaking out. If I'm not mistaken that like the first time we've...

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hartnsoul The daughter is merely paying respects and sharing how she knew her father who just passed. Yes MJ is an icon, a big star, but we tend to miss the fact that he's human just like the rest of us. More importantly he is a father. I'm glad to hear his daughter...

8 Jul 09

thhoon72 @thhoon72 (1009) • Singapore 7 Jul 09

If you are on a very tight budget and you got to skip 1 of the meals everyday for a week. Which meal (breakfast or lunch or dinner) would you choose to skip and why??? For me, I will choose to skip lunch. I won't skip breakfast...

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hartnsoul For me, I'd rather skip lunch as well. Because if you have had a hearty breakfast you should be squared-out till lunch time. Plus the fact that you can have early dinner with family. SInce you are eating a full meal for dinner you cannot sleep right away ,...

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TheRealDawn @dawnald (85137) • Shingle Springs, California 8 Jul 09

I come home from counseling, which I went to alone yesterday. Husband did not grace us with his presence. So I told the counselor what I was going to tell him about the conversation. So I toughen up my spine, get firm in my head,...

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hartnsoul I can understand how you felt during that situation. Sometimes we muster enough strength in planning the right words to say to our husband but somehow at the time when we are about to talk to them, it seems so difficult to utter the words. Writing can help. If...

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HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 4 Jul 09

hmmm weird I mean I just offered a friend a help on certain job but to my surprise got rejected I know I can do the job well since I have been doing it for months already and my friend needs 35 person to work on this...

help

life

offer

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hartnsoul I cant say I completely understand how you feel in this situation. I have always offered help to my friends and luckily they have always gladly accepted. Putting myself in your position, if I do get rejected by a friend for offering help, at first I would...

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renukachohan @renukachohan (187) • India 4 Jul 09

I am amazed at the number of discussions held on the sublect of mother inlaw's etc. Is it so difficult to get along . I bet even if the inlaws are good there will be a tiff . Why is itso. We are also soon going to become a mother...

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hartnsoul I think, In law issues often arise when you and your spouse are not in the same page. Say for example, you notice your mother-in-law to be demanding and always criticizing the way you hande the family and your husband does not do anything about it, it becomes...

4 Jul 09

LeavaoDe @LeavaoDe (349) • United States 4 Jul 09

Good evening my fellow myLotters, I was recently asked if I would ever consider adoption. My response was considered selfish and I don't know why. Maybe you all can help me to better understand it. My answer was I guess two...

adoption

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hartnsoul Adoption is quite a sensitive topic. Reading your post, I don't feel your response was selfish. You were simply articulating the pros and cons of adoption. If your able to bear your own bloodline, its a blessing. But if biologically you cannot, adoption would...

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Ritchelle @Ritchelle (3790) • Philippines 28 Jun 09

so what do you have to say to that? they say we utter almost the same no. of words per day. it's just that men tend to be more articulate (short word users ) than women. hmmm....

men amore articulate

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hartnsoul I haven's seen that episode from discovery channel but it sure is funny to know. Its quite obvious that even if women tend to nag, men have one word responses to equal the litany. hehe.

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acie_21 @acie_21 (5633) • Philippines 3 Jul 09

me?i am thrifty, i save often!i dont buy things w/c are not important to me.but i spend much when me and my husband eat in a restaurant .i also spend money if i want to buy dresses if i need to go in certain occasions.how about...

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hartnsoul we're the same age, like you I don't spend much on unnecessary things coz I would like to save for the rainy days. Especially that I have a daughter. But when it comes to food, I splurge. Grocery or restaurant. I guess getting nourishment is better than...

3 Jul 09

acie_21 @acie_21 (5633) • Philippines 3 Jul 09

me?i am thrifty, i save often!i dont buy things w/c are not important to me.but i spend much when me and my husband eat in a restaurant .i also spend money if i want to buy dresses if i need to go in certain occasions.how about...

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hartnsoul we're the same age, like you I don't spend much on unnecessary things coz I would like to save for the rainy days. Especially that I have a daughter. But when it comes to food, I splurge. Grocery or restaurant. I guess getting nourishment is better than...

3 Jul 09

xio shi @simonelee (2715) • China 3 Jul 09

A tought came out in my mind and start wondering why men loves their automobile rather than their Girl Friend? Why is it that they courted their lady for months or years and when they got the answer "yes" they treated them not...

life

people

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hartnsoul I guess the only explanation there is they dont really love the lady in question. These are egocentric people who court women to show off as trophies. They spend more time with their cars because the cars don't talk back and comment on their iniquities.

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preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 3 Jul 09

This happens very often. It happened to me also hehehehe

classteacher

infatuation

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hartnsoul This happened to a friend of mine. We were in high school and we had a teacher who was very pretty. It was funny because my friend was not very active in class and h hates history or anything related to it. He said he gets bored with it. But since the teacher...

3 Jul 09

allenbucks @allenbucks (289) • Philippines 23 Jun 09

For me, I usually drink about 1-2 cups of coffee a day. Of course, I drink coffee at morning. And when I am hungry in the evening and I have nothing to eat, just zip a cup of coffee or if I have something to finish late at night...

coffee

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hartnsoul On very busy days I usually have 3-5 cups of coffee. But on weekends I consume 2. I start my day with a cup of coffee. It seems addictive but I cant work properly without it. I go about doing my usual work then there's the after lunch feeling of...

3 Jul 09

Zhizho @Zhizho (1350) • Indonesia 27 Jun 09

Reading to children is good thing.I like read fairy tale or story book to my children.I carry my boy to book store often even he still young,he was one years old.I hope he like reading when he can read later.How abou you,do you...

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hartnsoul I believe that reading is important. I like reading to my daughter books and magazines because it develops in her an imagination that money cant buy. We also become closer because it allows us to spend more time together despite my busy schedule at work.

2 Jul 09

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 1 Jul 09

well i can't tell you my birthday and i don't know any single celebrity who has the same birthdate with mine. i don't care though. what i care is that i shouldn't allow any years wasted and should have done things productively and...

birthday

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hartnsoul When my birthday comes, I just look back to all the years that has passed and assess my current situation. Im not fond of having a party every year so I just have a quiet dinner with family and meet old friends.

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laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 1 Jul 09

It's 7 o'clock and I've just begun doing laundry. I prefer this time of day because I sundry my laundry. It's economical at the same time it makes laundry smell good, not to mention that the sun kills the germs. What about you?...

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hartnsoul On the weekends, I normally start early around 6:30 a.m. I sundry our clothes after spinning it one time in the dryer. Yes i agree its economical and with the load that I wash, I finish fast and have room to have breakfast with my daughter while the clothes...

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theptcnetworks @theptcnetworks (575) • Pitcairn 1 Jul 09

Hi everybody! If there were really a time-machine, and you were given the chance to use it for one-time only, at what time or event do you want to go back to? I just want to hear answers from a lot of people here coz one time,...

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hartnsoul If there was a time machine, i'd like to go back to the time when i was filling out my college applications. Funny how I had a dream about it just last night. If I had started being independent in college I would have made better choices in life. I don't...

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ladym33 @ladym33 (10978) • United States 28 May 09

Do you buy used books, either on line or in person?

used books

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hartnsoul Yes I do buy used books in person. Haven't been purchasing things online lately since I don't have a credit card. I believe that books are investments. They bear knowledge of the fundamental kinds. Even non fiction books are great since the stories are...

29 Jun 09

Raven1 @Raven1 (577) • Australia 23 May 09

I'm always surprised how many people believe that 'frugal' means living like a pauper and never spending anything. This is NOT being frugal. It's being a miser. The point of being frugal is considering what you spend your money...

frugal living

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hartnsoul Hi Raven, I'm glad to read your post. I have friends who complain about not having enough to pay the bills yet they have expensive clothes, shoes, etc. Being frugal is indeed being a wise spender. Behavior is the key. Understanding the difference between...

29 Jun 09

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 29 Jun 09

If you felt like all the love had gone from your marriage would you keep quiet or would you just call it the end of the day with your marriage?

love

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hartnsoul A marriage would not be successful without this situation. Permit me to say that when this feeling sets in, it somehow makes one re-think of the various reasons and possibilities of 'what might have been' if you have not gotten married in the first place....

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mcat19 @mcat19 (1357) • United States 29 Jun 09

My roommate's mom is dying. She has stopped eating, taking meds, doing exercise or anything that could make her better. She had abdominal surgery for a burst abscess and now has a colostomy bag. She isn't in pain; she has just...

saddness

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hartnsoul That is indeed a very hard situation. I will include her mom and her family in my prayers. I may not know them but I believe that the Lord is working within them. God bless.

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