helenying

@helenying (120)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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does your mom trust you.

khithi17 @khithi17 (762) • Philippines 22 Jul 07

my mom trust me when it comes to budgeting my money. because she knows that im not a spender. i dont buy expensive things so much and i sometimes save my money. but in going home late at night. she doesn't trust me at all. when im...

parenting

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helenying I think your mother just worried you. In her eyes, you are always the child. My mother trust me all time. She think I am a good daughter and I am making all effort to be that. I am saving money as possible as I can. Also I don't ask for trouble outside. But...

22 Jul 07

Do you think if you were her, you would marry the man soon?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 17 Jul 07

My best friend told me the man she was seeing these days wanted to marry her soon , at least he would give her the wedding ring. The thing is that they have only seen each other for four months, though they practically meet every...

getting married after 4 months dating

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helenying If I were her, I would not do that. I think marry is not easy thing and cann't be decided so hurried. Two people should understand each other well, and have enough prepars. Otherwise they cann't got married so quick. There are so many trifles after gotting...

17 Jul 07

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Which one do you choose ?

wonderful1 @wonderful1 (2075) • China 13 Jul 07

Which one would get your vote is it food with good looking or is it food with great taste. Some people say that "You eat with your eyes?". Some people like me says "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". I will choose the food...

cooking

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helenying It's hard to say that. If I know what the thing is and I don't like it, I will not eat it, however its taste good. But if I don't know, and the taste is very good, I think I will eat. Many people will do like me. There is a saying: eating it, without knowing...

13 Jul 07

Do you like going to a mall?

happymom1 @happymom1 (1179) • United States 5 Jul 07

I am just asking this because i like going to a mall just for fun. I will have my window shopping or just sight seing. There are lots of nice stores also inside the mall and some amusement things. You can also go to a mall because...

mall

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helenying I am a bit like going to the mall. Things in the mall are fashionable and look good both in style and quality. So I like seeing that. Also the environment in the mall is wonderful, you can enjoy yourself. But it really tired to sailing about in the mall. For...

5 Jul 07

Where do you sit inside a classroom? In front or at the back?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 15 Jun 07

I always like sitting at the back. I don't like the feeling of being watched. If I can't hear my professor, I would raise my hand and request to make the voice louder. Where do you like to sit? In front or at the back?

classroom

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helenying Hehe, I also sit at the back of the classroom. When I was a senior student, I sat in the front of the classroom for I was not tall and the seat was fixed. In my college, my roomats and I always sit at the back. In that way, we can more comfortable. I think...

3 Jul 07

Can you skip any meal of the day?

1qazxsw2 @1qazxsw2 (512) • Singapore 1 Jul 07

I am a small eater and normally I will skip my lunch..I will never skip breakfast because I am always hungry during breakfast. Lunch is a meal I can go without. I will try to eat a little over tea if I become hungry in the day. As...

skipping meal

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helenying When I was free in a day, I will skip my breakfast. For I am not willing to prepar it. But when I have classes or I should go work, I will have all meals in a day, except that I have no time to have it. Compare to lunch and supper, I skip my breakfast more. I...

1 Jul 07

Do you like to sleep with the window open?

arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 29 Jun 07

I do. Even in winter I like to have at least a bit open. Of course with the heating on it's not a very good idea, but I really need to have that fresh air coming trough. It was easier back home since it was never that cold that...

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helenying When I am along, I hardly open the window when I sleep. Because I am worried about the safety. Though it is not well for no fresh air. If it is safe enough, I would rather to open the window. Now it's hot in my living city, I must open window at night. For I...

29 Jun 07

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Do you think you will love one person forever?

angela2006 @angela2006 (1845) • China 25 Jun 07

how long could we love a person in our life? Does everlasting relationship exist? If somebody tells you, “ I'll love you for ever,” will you believe it? I don't think there's any reason not to. we are ready to believe such...

love forever

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helenying I believe forever love. I think we should have the belif. Though it cann't be all true. When we fall in love with someone, we are thinking to love him/her for ever. At that moment, we believe we can love each other in all life. Maybe we can make it true. Maybe...

25 Jun 07

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How is the summer heat where you live?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 25 Jun 07

Boston is in the middle of a heat wave! Today was the first day and we're expecting 3 more days of 90 degree weather. Now I like summer but I definitely don't like heat waves. Not only does the temperature rise but the humidity...

heat

summer

temperature

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helenying You are more lucky than me. I am living in China. The summer is very hot. But now I have no AC in my living room, just a fanner. You can imange how hot it is. I don't hate summer but I really hate the hot weather. It makes me feel uncomfortable. I'd rather...

25 Jun 07

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Do you like songs, musics?

shoebbnglr000 @shoebbnglr000 (152) • India 25 Jun 07

I like songs and musics. I like melodious songs or musics most. What about you? Which type you are wishing to hear? Please give your discussions and opinion about the musics and songs you like...

music

songs

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helenying Well, I like music, too. And I like sing songs also. Though I am not a good singer. Which songs I like, what kind of music I love, I cann't tell in detail. It all depends its rhythm. Maybe you will say that is strang. Sometimes when I listen a song for many...

25 Jun 07

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Take risks or play safe?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 24 Jun 07

We always make tough decisions in our life. Some of them would change our lives forever. When an opportunity to double everything you have, but you need to give up everything you have, would you take it and risk all you've got?...

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helenying You cann't reach the sky unless you leave the ground. It is so right. If you want to get something, you should give up some other things. That's true. But for me, I'd rather play safe. Taking risks is not suit to me. I am lack of the confidence and courage to...

24 Jun 07

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what did u feel when u first talked to a girl....???

majorsree @majorsree (575) • India 24 Jun 07

share the experiences of ur first meeting with a beautiful girl...

girlfriend

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helenying Of course first I feel comfortable. And I am happy and a bit envy. If she has good inner quailty like her good looking. I will be gald to meet her. But if not, I will just talk to her once. And by the way, I am a girl. hahaha

24 Jun 07

Would you enter a relationship with a guy/gal just for his LOOKS?

seksiconnie @seksiconnie (1173) • Philippines 23 Jun 07

I'd rather have a serious relationship with someone I love and care for. There's a big difference between love and physical attraction. 82% - If he's an jerk, you'll just get tired of his good looks. 18% - I'd be proud to walk...

dating

realtionships

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helenying Well, I never enter a relationgship with a gur just for his look. For my introversion, I will not start a conversation activly with a stranger, however he looks. So I have no chance to do that. hehe Good looks is really attractive. But connotation is more...

23 Jun 07

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what is the right age to get married?

jinggay46 @jinggay46 (263) • Philippines 23 Jun 07

Is there a "right" age to get married? I don't think that just bec you are in the late twenties or early thirties, you are supposed to get married already. Marriage is a sacred and should not be forced on somebody. What do you...

age

marriage

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helenying I don't think there is a "right" age to get married. When you reach the legal age, when you get ready on both material and mental, you can just go to married. Whatever age you are in , you can do it if you think you have got prepare for it. If not, you'd...

23 Jun 07