hendl747

@hendl747 (21)

United States • Age 73

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Self care at home for Kidney stone

satyabs15 @satyabs15 (119) • United States 16 Sep 09

Hi mylotmembers, I want to know home remedies for kidney stone and also want to know what are the food items to avoid what we have to consume more.. I know one thing that the affected person should drink water and to avoid...

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hendl747 Drink cranberry juice. I have even heard this from medical doctors. I don't know what it is in the juice, but somehow it helps with kidney stones. The best of luck!

17 Sep 09

How's ur diet working for you?

Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 4 Sep 09

Howdy Folks! How's everyone doing? As for me, been doing just fine. Been kind of busy trying to follow an old saying which goes something like this. "Get control of your mind and ur body will follow". So basically speaking, I'm...

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hendl747 great discussion! The French diet is a stylish way to lose weight. You eat like the French do; lots of quality, not lots of quantity. You actually taste your food = not gulp it down. And you end the night with one lucious chocolate - remember I said only One!...

5 Sep 09

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Should you tell your spouse/boyfriend, would you tell?

ravinskye @ravinskye (8237) • United States 4 Sep 09

Ok, I would like opinions on this. Lets say your relationship is bad, your are fighting a lot and not happy. So one night you hang out with a guy you used to like before you got married and end up sleeping with him and his friend...

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hendl747 I don't think this is hypothetical; it reminds me of the 'I have a friend . .. ' discussions. In any event - what will the girlfriend do? tell ur boyfriend? ask the guy with whom you slept what he thinks will happen. If the answer is she won't tell anyone,...

5 Sep 09

Do you adjust your watch a few minutes earlier?

beeduzhe @beeduzhe (138) • China 1 Sep 09

My father has a habit,he always making his watch 5 minutes earlier than the normal time.He has kept this habit for a very long time.When I was young I don't quite understand why and as I grow up I get to know it's very...

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hendl747 I used to do this, for quite a long time. It helped me be on time a lot. BUT - you can fool yourself, as I did, by keeping in mind that it is 5 min. faster, so you subtract 5 min. to come up with the real time. You keep that in mind instead, and this method...

2 Sep 09

Wife Splashed Husband and Girlfriend with Acid

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 18 Aug 09

Would you go to this extend if you found your husband "f@$#" another woman in your bedroom .. I wonder what would have gone tru in the mind of this wife when she did this .. For me .. i guess i might not go to the extend, as...

betrayal

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hendl747 No, I wouldn't throw acid on him; I wouldn't waste one more second of my valuable time on this planet with this *&%$$*( or his little friend. Pack my bags and be gone. but - if this woman was married, I would call the husband and let him know. He deserves to...

31 Aug 09

Why would a woman remain in an abusive relationship??

jellymonty @jellymonty (2352) 31 Aug 09

That's beyond me really. I don't understand it at all why some women think being abused physically and verbally is a way of life. I am a bit upset today because my cousin happens to be today's headline in the local newspaper....

abusive relationships women tolerating violent men

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hendl747 I used to work with battered women, I am an attorney. REasons? Low self-esteem, which is reinforced by the batterer - she thinks this is all she can get. She saw this growing up, and think all men hit all women. Lack of money. Even a batterer most likely...

31 Aug 09

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What other movies are like American History X?

breakaway @breakaway (14) • United States 12 Nov 07

I really liked American History X. It was brutal, but it had a good message. The movie, Redemption, about Stan "Tookie" Williams, one of the founders of the Crips gang, was also similar to it, with the main person denouncing their...

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hendl747 I also love this movie. Another movie which has similar themes is "The Believer". Ryan Quisling plays the lead, and he is as excellent in this film as Norton was in the movie we are discussing. "The Believer" is based on a true story. In the movie, a young...

29 Aug 09

Do you bear a grudge easily?

gracefuldove @gracefuldove (1668) • Malaysia 29 Aug 09

I used to. I was most unforgiving then. I dislike people who put me down. Where I work formerly, they were a dime a dozen, in nooks and corners, trying to do you in! These days, I have mellowed down. I have received the Lord Jesus...

grudges

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hendl747 I also respond differently now. What made me change is that I gave up judging others. This occurred one day when I was working. I am an attorney, and was at an office of a federal agency I deal with on behalf of my clients. I was looking at a client's file,...

29 Aug 09

When they consider interenet addictiive

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 29 Aug 09

I was wondering when people consider internet addictive? Is there after so many hours a day, is it when you are at the computer for hours at a time without a break, is it if you use the internet every day even though you go on it...

internet addiction

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hendl747 I think that if a person feels a compulsion to use the internet, a compulsion which feels "irresistable", then the person may be addicted. This occurs not when the person actually has to use the internet, as judged by someone who is not addicted; for example,...

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