hiddenwing

@hiddenwing (3719)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Setting Up Goals

srjac0902 @srjac0902 (1170) • Italy 30 Dec 11

Setting up of goal is very essential to life if we seek for physical and mental health. A life without any direction is a symptom of personality disorder. The human greatness lies in setting up his goals and choosing the right...

wise planning

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hiddenwing It is good to set up goals. However, you'll need to persevere if you want the business to succeed. One who has a strong mind will set a long-term target to pursue.while, one who is weak inner heart will has large amount of aims, and often changes it. We should...

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So I decided to start a new Blog

beki710 @beki710 (949) 28 Dec 11

I have started blogs before but have never kept them going I get too busy or distracted. But this one is going to be part of my New Year's Resolutions to keep going! I've decided that I don't want it to be a blog just about me...

new years resolutions

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hiddenwing I think it is a good idea. You may also upload some movies or free book for people to download. Sometimes, the books are more interesting than the films, but most people don't know about it. Your blog might encourage people to read more books or more films.

29 Dec 11

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Will you still love me...even if you can not love me ?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39142) • Philippines 21 Apr 11

Few love stories are forbidden...with different reasons. Few lovers were able to struggle and fight for their love to come true. Love has no religion/race /color/ tradition /culture/ beliefs/caste/social status/education/age...

love me always

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hiddenwing I am sort of coward for love. When there is some difficulty, I would like to let it go. My boyfriend and I are like some pathetic couples in shakespeare's novel. His mother sort of considered his son as his lover. Thus, she would rather die be together with...

22 Apr 11

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what can you do before meeting your professor

tomlee @tomlee (8) • South Korea 24 Mar 11

tomorrow afternoon, my professor will meet me on the internet. it's the first time we meet, but i haven't prepare myself well, i even didn't read the papers about our research field much, and i am really nervous now. what can i...

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hiddenwing No matter how busy you are, you must spend sometimes on the papers. Then, you will prepare well for the meeting. You must say something great to impress him. If he will be interested in your topic, that is great.

24 Mar 11

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We could all learn something about other cultures

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85135) • Shingle Springs, California 17 Mar 11

So I learned something today. I had a conversation with a fellow moderator over on a chat site about why she muted some guy who called her mom. I thought she had overreacted, but she thought she had acted correctly. Here's...

other cultures

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hiddenwing Well, it sounds very reasonable. Sometimes, people may understand there must be something different when they are surprised. For example, Korean nod when they give the regard to others. When I was in south Korea, I never noded. They didn't think I was rude...

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Respect in the workplace

staria @staria (2780) • Philippines 18 Mar 11

In a career, there are the leaders and followers. A good leader should be a good servant as well and bring out the best from his followers. Though there are those who just tends to manipulate his followers and do not see the...

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hiddenwing I would rather have the later too. If they are just be afraid of me, they will take their respect away when I am not in the position. I always treat people well and they respect me. However, some people don't respect you even though you are very kind to them....

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will you take back someone who cheated on u?

babyfaceyo29 @babyfaceyo29 (47) • United States 2 Jul 10

When people start a new relationship there is always the fear of getting hurt, but the worst of all is getting cheated on.I have been in several relationships and certain enough I have been cheated on.To find out that the person...

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hiddenwing Theoretically, a fox can change grey but never good. It is hard for people to change. Like you said, they cheated you one time. It is possible that they cheated you again. I am a soft-hearted person, however. I know it is not right to forgive the cheater,...

3 Jul 10

Do you think a gentleman still exists in this world or not anymore ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 7 Mar 10

I Always heard this word from the news or from some girl's month "good guys are hard to find !"It makes me comes up with a question : are there still something called gentleman in this world?"And "Is gentleman came out naturally...

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hiddenwing Actully, there are not so many genlemen in this world. People become more selfish since money is really important..Sometimes, they have to sacrifice others' welfare so as to make themselves live better... Some men don't give in when they fight with a woman....

7 Mar 10

discussion counter

benny128 @benny128 (3615) 27 Dec 09

not sure what my fellow mylotters think of this one, but personally I would love to see a counter so it shows how many times your discussion has been viewed by a unique visitor, think it would be quite helpful in helping...

discussion counter

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hiddenwing I couldn't agree with you more, but we didn't know it in mylot. However, we did know how many responses we could get...That made sense at a point too! Have a great evening!

27 Dec 09

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Do you think that fear is our greatest enemy?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 30 Nov 09

Bertrand once said that fear is one of the main sources of cruelty and to conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross said, "Fear and guilt are the only enemies of man" and of course, most famously of all,...

enemy

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hiddenwing I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I'd say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of pain, fear of rejection. Roosevelt was qutie right, we have nothing to fear but fear itself... so, let us brave to face anything...

30 Nov 09

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Do You Thank Those That Hurt You OR Something Else?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 20 Nov 09

It is a fact that all of us have got hurt, some of which are intentionally or unintentionally: contempt, intimidation, backbiting, disguise, betrayal, cheat, departure, confrontation, abandonment. For those who had hurt you, who...

thank those who hurt you

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hiddenwing Forgetting things is always a good habit... It was but yesterday, someone just hurts me...Maybe it was not a big deal, still I would like to dump him and tried to move on with my life. However, I didn't really feel great and I couldn't sleep last night. So,...

20 Nov 09

If the 2012 tell the truth ,what are u going to do at the end of the world???

Shooyao @Shooyao (156) • China 14 Nov 09

I and my friends saw the movie “2012" yesterday.The movie give me a big shock. As we all know ,that 3000years ago maya civilization predict the last day of this real world is 21st ,12,2012.The director show the pictures to...

2012

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hiddenwing I watched the movie yesterday too! It gave me a big shock than the movie, the day after tomorrow! You know, something sort of happened like "the day after tomorrow." Thinking about the snow damage, the earthquake, the flood, I am really scaring that something...

15 Nov 09

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Mylot's "competition" . . .

merlinsorca @merlinsorca (1118) • United States 1 Nov 09

During my internet searches, I have found a few other websites that are similar to mylot, where you have to write things to earn money . . . I won't name them, but I have to say that I am not impressed with the other...

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hiddenwing Mylot is the only hot forum that I can find! I guess other forums are not that hot. There are people's discussions all around all the time here. That's why I love mylot!

1 Nov 09

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The Relationship Between Dreams and Our Real Life?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 29 Oct 09

Sometimes, when I am trying to do something and then I feel that I have done such a thing before. Yes, it seems that I have met such a situation before although I haven’t done it. Generally speaking, our dreams may show that...

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hiddenwing So, you are a morning person too! The dreams begin just after midnight... I had a good dream yesterday and it would come true I have always had lots of dreams. It doesn't matter whether they come true in real life..If all of them do come ture, I promise I...

29 Oct 09

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