jmathen

@jmathen (112)

India • Age 45

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How many diabetics do you know?

chrislotz @chrislotz (8136) • Canada 29 Jan 08

Are you a diabetic? It seems to me more and more people these days are. I know more people that are diabetics than not. Is it the food we are eating now adays that is making people become diabetics? Or is it the additives they put...

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jmathen I am not a diabetic. However, both my mother and husband are. I think a person becomes diabetics due to several reasons such as hereditary, food, lack of exercise etc. Whatever the reason might be, once you have become diabetic it is your responsibility to...

29 Jan 08

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Are you Moody when you wake up?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 29 Jan 08

In my case it depends on the circumstances. When I'm looking forward to do something i really want to do, I don't really mind. But if for instance i get woken up too early by a silly phonecall (like a telemarketer etc.), or...

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jmathen I dont really get moody when I wake up. I am usually in a pleasant mood and a smile on my face. However, I do not like to do any chores right after i freshen up. I need a cup of tea and the newspaper to read. Just need to be relaxed for atleast an hour. Then...

29 Jan 08

how long do you think that a good relationship will last?

mscongeniality @mscongeniality (110) • Canada 29 Jan 08

how long do you think that a good relationship will last.... coz i've seen my parents so in love with each other when i am still a child. seeing them so happy together makes me idealize their relationship and wished that i can...

love

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jmathen Relationships that may seem happy and good outside might not always be the perfect relationship in reality ! Sometimes parents might appear happy and understandable eventhough they might be facing some clashes within their relationships. There are parents who...

29 Jan 08

do satisfy with your appearance and weight?????

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 8 Oct 07

do you look at you self postively or not? are you satisfied with you appearance or not? now days we live in a material world were its all about your appearnce so much that it bacame an essencial thing...as if no one would accept...

appearance

weight

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jmathen When you look at the mirror and you like what you see and you are proud of your appearance, then that is what is important. To feel confident about life, first we have to feel good about ourselves. On the same hand, you have to make sure that your weight is...

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Should a live in relationship be encouraged in India?

desertking1981 @desertking1981 (455) • India 28 Jun 07

Live in relationship is a type of arrangement between a man and women who live together without getting marriage , for a particular period, in order to find out whether they are compatible in all respects or not . In case they...

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jmathen I think it is good to encourage live in relationship. It gives a chance to know the person whom you want to spend the rest of your life. If you find you both are not compatible, you can say good bye and move on...In india, i think it is better than jumping...

28 Jun 07

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husbands comes home late

mitchacoy @mitchacoy (251) • Philippines 27 Jun 07

If you have a husband who usually goes out at night, will you try to contact him through his cellphone? Maybe by texting? will you ask him where he is? and if he gets angry at you because of your questions, is it right? And if he...

husbaands

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jmathen My family doesnt really go out that often ! once in a while he gets together with his friends for a drink, thats all... If he goes out and he is late, i will definitely call him and let me know where he is... I dont think any man should get angry for their...

28 Jun 07

why do you want to get married?

monicazhang @monicazhang (802) • China 28 Jun 07

I am twenty eight years old now.For many people,its ok to be single at my age.But my parents worried a lot,maybe they thought its sth 'losing face' and give me a lot of pressure.Every spring festival,I go to my hometown to see my...

perssureconfused

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jmathen Getting married is not a must. There is a lot of people who are not married and enjoy remaining single. Well, I am a married person and been married for the last two years... I have to say, just because people are asking you when you are getting married, you...

28 Jun 07

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Do u share everything with ur husband or will keep secretes or think b4 saying?

madhuraks @madhuraks (425) • Kuwait 27 Jun 07

1] I hv heard that some womans will think b4 sharing to their husband.They will sort out things which one to tell & which one not to tell. 2] Some r scared to talk to their husband thinking that what will b his reactions. 3]...

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jmathen I like to share everything with my husband. I dont really think before i tell him something. Sometimes it might be something that would even iritate him but I wont keep it from him ! The fun of our conversation is being able to talk about everything withoout...

27 Jun 07

Marriage: Can You Be Married Too Many Times?

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 26 Jun 07

I have a friend who is on her third marriage and this one looks like it won't last either. I want to tell her that maybe she should try just being single for a while. She has pretty much always been married, but none of these...

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jmathen I have been married twice. My first marriage lasted for five years. Now I am married for two years and so far, living happily ! There is no need to get married several times. If things are not working out even after you are married twice, i think the person...

26 Jun 07

wrong to ignore friend who's trying to sell me insurance?

squaretile @squaretile (3778) • Singapore 26 Jun 07

I feel kinda bad now. My friend, whom I haven't really talked to in like 10 years, got my number from another friend, and called me to sell me insurance. Ok so my friend is an independent 'financial advisor', but you know...

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jmathen She is calling you to sell an insurance and you dont want one since you already have an insurance.Well, does she know that you are not interested in having one more insurance??? since you didnt tell her that, she will keep on trying to reach you ! Think of...

26 Jun 07

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Do you like to travel with your husband or better alone?

soleya @soleya (1100) • Latvia 26 Jun 07

Just arrived from my trip to France. We went with my husband and it was such an amazing trip. We were renting a car and traveling around the cities situated on the sea. The best city is Monte Carlo! I just loved it. And I also...

monte carlo

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jmathen I dont know why some people hate travelling with their partners. I love to go places with my husband. For me, it is an experience of fun and romance together. I have to say, being in a romantic place all alone is not so much fun for me. Of course, there are...

26 Jun 07

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Do you trust marriages through matrimonial sites?

rakhii @rakhii (1302) • India 26 Jun 07

My parents are looking for a proposal for me. So we are nowadays searching through matrimonial sites. Is joining these sites worth or not? Should we trust on proposals that we get through the matrimonial sites?

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jmathen You cannot say all the proposals given on matrimonial sites are not trustworthy. Some of them are genuine. But you must be very careful in inquiring about the details. The information given on the site can be used as a lead to know the facts. In other words,...

26 Jun 07

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When one door closes...three more open - right?

GnosticGoddess @GnosticGoddess (5626) • United States 26 Jun 07

When one door closes...three more open??? Well I certianly hope that's true! I put my two week notice in last night at Wal-Mart. My last day is July 5th. I'm excited about leaving that company finally but I don't have another...

life

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jmathen Dont worry, things will definitely turn out for the good. You feel excited of leaving your present company, which means you are not at all happy with it! Whether you found a new job or not, there is a no point of continuing in a job which does not give you...

26 Jun 07

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My friend wants his ex back

Jessem @Jessem (372) • Mauritius 26 Jun 07

A friend said to me that when he sees his ex girlfriend with somebody else, this really hurts him. He said to me that he can no longer stand this plight and i dont know what to tell him so as to console him. He knows that he was...

ex gf

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jmathen If your friend is feeling so strong for his ex-girlfriend, I think he should take a chance to talk to her. What if his ex is not feeling the same way as he is??? I dont think it will hurt to have a friendly talk with her. Tell her how he feels. Otherwise i do...

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Do your husband calls u if he is coming home late for 1hr?

madhuraks @madhuraks (425) • Kuwait 25 Jun 07

My husband calls me if he is going to b late for half an hour also.He knows i will b alone & waiting for him so he informs me if he is coming late. Do ur husband calls u if he is late? Or he will make u wait till he comes?

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jmathen My husband always calls me if he is going to be late even for a half an hour. He knows that i will be waiting for him at home,and he doesnt want me to get worried. Even if he is on a long trip, he calls me in between. I just want to make sure that everything...

26 Jun 07

Is it good to stay in a relationship because of the children?

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 26 Jun 07

I know a lot of people that stay in their marriage or relationship because of their children. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? I know it is good for children to have two parents but if they are not showing their children what it...

children

parenting

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jmathen It would be nice for the children to have both the parents together. But what if the parents are not having a healthy relationship? Wouldn't that effect the manner the children is growing up? We all learn our first lessons about life from our home, from our...

26 Jun 07

Would you perfer someone younger or someone older as a partner?

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 26 Jun 07

I watched that show last night where the guy has 20 year old women and 40 year old women and it got me thinking. Myself I perfer a man older then I am because I like the maturity. Now that doesn't mean that all older people are...

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jmathen I would prefer an older man. I would like to have someone in my life who is mature than me ! I am not saying that everyone who is older are definitely mature but I have to say the majority is. When the guy is younger than me, he will look at the world in a...

26 Jun 07

Today is my Second Anniversary. . .

Aurone @Aurone (4755) • United States 24 Jun 07

Just wanted to know how long people had been married out there? And what did you do for your last anniversary?

anniversary

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jmathen First of all, Happy Anniversary!!! My husband and i have been married for two years, last week was our second anniversary.For our first one, we went away for a weekend at a romantic place at luxury resort. This year did not go for much. We just went out and...

25 Jun 07

Truth

emdee @mdvarghese (1789) • Bangalore, India 25 Jun 07

Did you always like to tell the truth ?

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jmathen I guess everyone would like to tell the truth always. Unfortunately, we cannot always tell the truth, can we????? Sometimes, under certain circumstances, we might have to lie once in a while. I believe, some lies will not cause any harm and moreover, it might...

25 Jun 07