joelle3800

@joelle3800 (20)

United States • Age 32

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Is it necessary to make unkind assumptions in comments?

Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jan 10

I just read a comment that made the poster really upset, the comment went if the poster could not afford a vet bill he'should not have a dog. Now on the face of it that might make sense, but the poster was trying to explain when...

being rude does hurt

kindness never hurts

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joelle3800 No it is not. People are so wrapped up in their own lives that they end up forgetting that other peopel are alive and have thoughts and feelings too. What that man was saying is that if you cant afford something, you shouldnt have it. But what about cars? You...

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Do you borrow things? and how responsible you are with it?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39140) • Philippines 11 Jan 10

Hello dear friend/mylotters,mere bhai/s,sister/s, It's not bad to borrow things from friends,neighbors,and other people,as long as we know how to return it in time. I wonder why people were so irresponsible when borrowing...

irresponsible borrower

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joelle3800 I try not to have to borrow things from other people .I hated it in school when people asked if they could borrow a pencil, and then I would never see it again, and the very next day the same person would ask me for another pencil. Then again, they would not...

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Do You Go Out When The Weather Is Bad?

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 9 Jan 10

Many people all over the world it seems and not just here in the US are undergoing unusually cold, frigid and/or snowy weather...the exception being maybe Australia. Here where I live for instance we've been in a pretty deep...

staying home or going out

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joelle3800 Nope, I dont. I know it probably isnt really as bad as it seems outside, but it just seems so cold outside, I stay inside all winter. I am hoping that I will be able to motivate myself outside so that I can start exercising. I think that the hardest part is...

11 Jan 10

Eeny, meen, miney,mo, which way should I go?

Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 8 Jan 10

i have noticed some users say they rate everyone, some say they do not even bother, some say that they hit all positives. Others ask why bother? I do remember what mylot admins told me when I had complained about my ten star being...

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joelle3800 I dont know really. But I dont think that you should rate badly unless the topic is completely off topic, rude, or inappropriate. Otherwise, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, so there can't be any reason to rate badly unless they are actually doing...

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good morning. How do you have your morning coffee...

Ambitiouslyleiah @Ambitiouslyleiah (591) • United States 11 Jan 10

How do you have your morning coffee or tea? I don't mean cream and sugar... I mean do you sit on the couch and watch t.v or sit on your porch and get some morning fresh air? Some people just grab it and are out the door on their...

coffee

morning

waking up

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joelle3800 When I have coffee, I usually stare off into blank space, and just think about how good my coffee is. I put a ton of sugar and cream in it, so its very sweet, like candy, but not too sweet either. It just has so much energy in that little cup, I love it so...

11 Jan 10

My Ex has Cancelled Mediation!

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 11 Jan 10

We have been separated for two months. I have started a few disccussions since then regarding my ex's behaviour. WE had organised mediation through Centacare. Mediation is not compulsory, but many, many people use this option to...

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joelle3800 I wish I knew. Bu adly, I really dont. I guess you'll probably just have to wait it out and see what happens. Maybe you could try to contact him and see hats going on, but if the situation is very strained, it may be better to leave him alon, and start talking...

11 Jan 10

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pick your favourite so-called innovations in cricket

stardustcdsd @stardustcdsd (1856) • India 11 Jan 10

hi friends.in the last few years some changes were brought into cricket which were supposed to change the face of cricket and they are indeed doing just that. well lets play a game. i will list a few of the...

innovations

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joelle3800 Sadly, I have nevr played cricket, and have never watched a game! I honestly thought that the game stopped years ago, but I am glad that it has not. One day, I will go to a cricket game and then play a few with my family. It looks like a lot of fun, kind of...

11 Jan 10

Inactive Friends

mlhuff12 @mlhuff12 (797) • United States 11 Jan 10

I had recently came back to mylot from quite a long time of not visiting the site. I had came upon a discussion where one mylotter found that she was deleted as a friend because she was no longer active. So I decided to check my...

active

friends

inactive

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joelle3800 Well, I think that maybe it should depend on why you are friend with them and how long they have been gone. I think that if they have been inactive for over six months, its probably time to call it quits. Besides, if you don't even talk to them ever, it might...

11 Jan 10

Does your area have a law against using your cell phone while driving?

jesssp @jesssp (2712) • Canada 8 Jan 10

Do you obey it? Does anyone else? Our area adopted the law and it started at the beginning of January. So far people do not seem to take it very seriously. Maybe that will change come February when the police can start writing...

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joelle3800 think hat they are considering making it illegal to drive while using your cell phone, but they obviously haven't yet. There are so many people talking on their cell phones wile driving, it is insane. You can go down the street without seeing someon driving a...

9 Jan 10

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Did you have ID cards in high school?

olisaur @olisaur (1922) • United States 8 Jan 10

My high school did- I think I still have one in my wallet. We had ID cards with our school photo and student ID numbers with bar codes on them. They were used to get into School events like sports games and dances, and they...

card

high school

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joelle3800 I have never had to have an ID card. The only time that I wanted to get one was when I decided I wanted my own bank account, so that way I could access all my money when ever I wanted. I needed an ID to open the account, but not to do anything else, like go to...

9 Jan 10

Get Rich Quickly

andryan7legends @andryan7legends (1297) • Indonesia 8 Jan 10

Can we get rich quickly with all of these stuffs? I just so bore because I just can get a few dollar per month. I just know a few site that can give me more than $10/month. Can everyone help me to get more dollar, even I can't get...

earn money online

more money

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joelle3800 Well, it can't help you get rich quickly, but there are all kinds of survey sites. I know that some of them work, but havent really been able to find any. I have made about $2 off of them, but not much more, if anything. I really wish there were a legit way to...

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Are we scared to help a dying man?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 8 Jan 10

Today, one most gruesome incident has left me shocked. A cop was attacked, knifed, the convoy of minister who happened to pass by stayed safe, photos are being shot, the whole incident was being filmed but no one, NO ONE came for...

courage

humanity

scared

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joelle3800 would be scared, but I would also know that it is my duty to help a dying man, and to try to do everything in my power to either sho him comfort in his last minutes, or do my best to try and save him from death. Of course it is always different when you are...

9 Jan 10

Have you ever been slap on your face by someone?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 8 Jan 10

It is always insulting by someone if you have been slap over your face by that person.It is even more hurtful if that bperson was one of your family members or love one.We watch things like that in the movies all the times but...

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joelle3800 i hni kthat slapping someone in the face is an incredible insult, but there are times when it is the only way for a woman to vent her anger. I do thin, that there are times when it is not acceptable, like in front of your children, or slapping your children....

9 Jan 10

What causes the rise in Globesity?

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 8 Jan 10

Those who think about the World as a global village are right, global obesity can only prove the point. Obesity’s spread beyond wealthy western nations and is expanding to China... The world is growing smaller but people are...

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joelle3800 I think that the cause in the rise of "globesity" is the change in the type of work that peopel do. If you think about it, it was only a little only a century ago when everyone in the world had to walk or ride i na horse carrige or buggy to get anywhere. If...

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Doctor will be indicted

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 8 Jan 10

I just read that they're seeking to indict Michael Jackson's doctor.He's gonna get charge with involuntary manslaughter.I think he should also get his license revoked.He probably didn't mean to kill him,but he still made a very...

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joelle3800 I really am not sure. I think that it depends on the case. If he perscribed all of the drugs a certian way, and then they find that Michael Jackson wasn't taking them by his orderes, then the doctor wasn't doing anything wrong. But if he prescribed too many...

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which season do you love ? Or hate?

free_man @free_man (7330) • United States 8 Jan 10

I hate the winter months. It has been 3-4 degrees here for over a week and it is just plain cold. Froze our water a week ago and having to haul water just to do normal everyday activities. Do you save your milk jugs water jugs,...

i hate the snow

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joelle3800 I hate winter too. I used to love it when I lived in New Hampshire, but honestly, when your in the South, and there isn't even any snow, there isn;t any point to being cold. The winter makes me want to move down to the equator, its miserable. And too, my...

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