john19762

@john19762 (66)

China • Age 47

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Honesty

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co-sleeping with babies

JanMags @JanMags (724) • Philippines 9 Aug 07

i just wrote a piece for my blog about co-sleeping with babies. actually it was more like a long question. in my country, parents almost always sleep beside their babies. i have read though that the US Consumer and Product Safety...

babies sleeping

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john19762 I agree with you.There are also many benifits for infant sleep with parents although it may cause baby death.the only thing should do is parents should notice their baby is too yough to protect himself/herself.And some ways to agains parents put their body on...

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Do you believe in God

alokkarn @alokkarn (123) • India 4 Jul 07

There are three sets of views in this world -- one group says God, the creator, all powerful exists and is the source and destination of all things. The other group says there is nothing like that. A third group says nothing can...

agnostics all welcome

atheists

theists

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john19762 In my opinion,There must be someone create this world.whether we call him God or not, he is there.So I believe God.

4 Jul 07

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When do you stop Holding that Grudge?

eva_diva @eva_diva (287) • Philippines 20 Jun 07

He made me feel so secure before. We laughed at each other's jokes, made fun of of each other's features and exchanged heartfelt interests and voiced our opinions. We danced in the rain, played hide and seek and we decided not to...

drugs

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john19762 In my opinion.Love is giving but not taking.Talk with your brother and try to give more love to him.Find out the reason of the problem between you and your brother.Find the reason first from yourself but not from him.I hope you can become better.

20 Jun 07

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Private or public school?

magica @magica (3707) • Bulgaria 14 Jun 07

What kind of school you will choose for your child and what are your criterias? Do you think that the private education is worthy and what are the advantages?

education

life

school

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john19762 In my view,The criterias shoul be what kind of teacher but not school.If the teachers in public school have the ability to teach well and kindful.I will not send my child to private school.Child should grow up in an enviroment the same as most children but not...

15 Jun 07

Having only one child

Cassy1976 @Cassy1976 (796) • Australia 12 Jun 07

I have one child and that is all that we want, financially we are comfortable with the one child and we can send her to the private schools that we want and give her what she needs, now why do so many people think I am so bad for...

private schools

parenting

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john19762 Just Like one coin has two sides.One child may feel lonely but she will get more love from parents.So if you can deal with this thing carefully.I think she become a happy and good girl.and hope you will happy too.Thanks.

12 Jun 07

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Will you choose money over love?

msvenzon @msvenzon (424) • Philippines 8 Jun 07

If there comes a time that you are faced with a decision to choose between money/riches over the person you love, what will you choose?

love

money

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john19762 In my view,Wether you feel happy is the most important thing when you making a decision about this.Money can not give me more happyness than my wife.So I would rather choose the person I love.Thanks.Wish you can choose right.

8 Jun 07

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Are you a smoker or non-smoker?

eachen2002 @eachen2002 (889) • United States 6 Jun 07

With so much controversary about smoking.I still see people doing it.I hate selling them at work and I was told that I would have to get a doctor's note not to sell them.

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john19762 I agree with you.Smoke not only harm the smoker himself but also do harm to everyone around such as his children or spouse.So Hope everyone doen not smke any more.

6 Jun 07

monday morning blahs, do you get them?

helpmehelpyou @helpmehelpyou (534) • Canada 4 Jun 07

some mondays i wake up chipper and ready to go. this morning nope. blame it on the rain

chipper

monday

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john19762 I will not blame monday because everday we will suffering some pains and enjoy some pleasers.Working also can provide us some successful feelings.playing also can give us some unhappy feelings.So enjoy everyday.Thanks.

4 Jun 07

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Help, my kid is ruining my marriage!

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 3 Jun 07

Whenever my little girl gets into a bad mood or starts with the usual kid antics, inevitably it puts a lot of strain on both me and my husband. It's been really tough coping with the tantrum stage. And, then my husband gets...

parenting

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john19762 Just think about If you were your daughter,What do you want from your parents.It is love,In my view.Baby just like water,And parents like ink.what kind of people she will become decided by you and your husband.So just have an conversation with you husband.hope...

3 Jun 07

Do you treat your kids equally?

Neriz69 @Neriz69 (1093) • Philippines 24 May 07

I have four kids and I love them all. but I don't think I can treat them equally. What I mean is that although they all came from me and have 100% of my genes in all four of them, I still have to consider the fact that they are...

kids

personalities

treatment

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john19762 My child is only 11 months old.However,I want say something here,too.In chinese,KONGZI is the greatest educationist.He has the same oppinion as yours.but it is difficult do that well.

25 May 07

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What's the most cluttered area or room of your house?

Swtrose @Swtrose (3385) • Canada 20 May 07

I would have to say that ours is the closets. We are always straining them up. What's the most cluttered area or room of your house?

cluttered

house

mess

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john19762 The bed is the most cluttered area in my room.Sometimes I am too lazy to clean up it .I always think that will also be cluttered tommorow moring so why clean up it?Maybe I shoud change this mind.Thanks.

20 May 07

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do you want to get old... or die young?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 17 May 07

What a weird question isn't it?! Heehee! Anyways, I just want to let you know that I can read people's minds. In fact, I'm reading yours right now and I know your answer for this question... It's "GET OLD" Yipee! I'm...

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john19762 In fact,geting old is the desire of all the living animals or plants or human beings.It is a nature of this world.So enjoy your life.Do not even think suicide.God bless you.

17 May 07

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smart babies

tictactams @tictactams (135) • Australia 8 May 07

i have a 12 weeks old son since he was 2 days old he has smiled and rolls over two weeks old giggles and five weeks old he pulls him self up standing tries to crawl now at 12 weeks he goes in his walker and makes it move nearly...

my smart baby

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john19762 That is unbelieveble.Is he your really son?If this is true ,I think he will be the most clever boy in this world.Try to give him the best education and tell him be honesty.Thanks.

8 May 07

Beauty or Brain? what will you prefer?

katzkii @katzkii (140) • Philippines 27 Apr 07

I preferred BRAIN, because when you have a wisdom and knowledge you can easily find things that will make yourself on the top, I mean, you can do something that will change your life.If you are intelligent enough to make you...

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john19762 Both Money and good outlooking are desired by people.However,only a few people could own them both.In my opinion,A positive attitude is the most thing you should have.If you have an positive attitude you will happy in most time.and you can success in your...

27 Apr 07

how fast can you read????

nimz143 @nimz143 (277) 25 Apr 07

how fast can you read.... 50 words...100 words per minute or more.... or r you a slow reader??

reading

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john19762 I am a slow reader because I am near sight.And if i read faster i will feel tired.And i think if we want grasp the main idea of the author, we should read carefully.thanks.

25 Apr 07

Love is blind - is that true?

Ellie @ellie26 (4139) • Malaysia 25 Apr 07

What is your opinion about younger girl who liked real older guys or vice versa? Do you think this type of relationship healthy? If so, what if it happens to one of your family members? As for me, it kind of weird but as long as...

age gap

blind love

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john19762 If you really falling in love,you will not notice how old he/she is.He/she will be a perfect person in your eyes.The outlooking of your girl/boy friend will be the most beautiful.However,sometimes you will disopointed for he/she did something hurt you.At that...

25 Apr 07

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