lighten

@lighten (30)

Malaysia • Age 54

Joined myLot 17 years ago

right now, neither before nor later

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Some one please help me with my blog header!

rebelmel @rebelmel (1386) • United States 19 Mar 10

Hello! I currently have a blog and I am trying to change my layout and header. I use blogger, and they automatically shrink the image that you are using as a header to something to the tune of 768 pixels. My header is...

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lighten can i have a look at your coding...

20 Mar 10

Does Love Matter In such Cases Like This??

Archie0 @Archie0 (5654) 22 Mar 09

Will you love a person who is older than you for atleast 15 to 20 years?? Will you fall in love with a person who does not look good, does not have a good posture, figure or physique?? Will you love a person who can hardly...

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life

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lighten Hi Archie0, Nice one indeed, and are you doing the same? I have falled in love with a woman who is almost the same age as my mom. Nothing is wrong there, just that, it didn't work out because she still have a bit of love for her husband. Yes, I agree with...

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Which is which

karbuks @karbuks (270) • Philippines 22 Mar 09

which do you prefer: brain or beauty? what makes a man ask for your number?

beauty

brain

relationship

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lighten Frankly, I prefer heart rather than brain or beauty, but most will go for beauty and that is why they ask for your number.

22 Mar 09

worked on a sunday?????????//

parthu28 @parthu28 (498) • India 22 Mar 09

today was i Sunday but the whole day today i was in my office.sinec 11 in the morning to 6.30 in the evening i was sitting in my office doing my work..but somehow i enjoyed doing my work... have you ever worked on a...

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lighten I'm working full time monday till friday, but somehow, I still have to come to work on saturday and sunday. Not to complain or anything, but I enjoyed my work no matter what day it is. Hope will goes to you, when you have to work almost 7 days a week. ;)

22 Mar 09

Why most girls like shopping while boys don't ?

jassics @jassics (205) • India 21 Mar 09

Most of the time when i go for shopping or for any purpose in the market i see quantity of female section is more than male . and most shops are also based on gals interest like suits, jwellery, shoes, makeup accessories...

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lighten That is normal, girls like shopping, that's their nature. By the way, shopping is part of their therapy, it makes them happy, either they manage to buy it or not.

22 Mar 09

When a trust is broken, how do you put the pieces back together?

chopchop @chopchop (16) • Philippines 21 Mar 09

There are times when I curse myself for being so deeply in love. I have always been this conservative lady, who dreamed of marrying the first guy I fell in love with. Of course it didn't happen. Why? Because he ruined my trust...

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lighten Hi chopchop, Yes, when the trust has been broken it is hard, extremely hard to restore it back. But, in thise world, those kind of things are common, especially in a relationship. Anyway, it is all depends on oneself. If you think that particular relationship...

22 Mar 09

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Love means you never have to say you're sorry?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 18 Mar 09

What does it mean anyway? It seems to me that the more in love you are and the more intense your love and emotions are, the more you may need to say you're sorry. And what's so bad about saying you're sorry? Once upon a time...

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lighten Hi Zandi, That was well documented but 'Love means you never have to say you're sorry' is just an analogy of what love can do to us human. When we love someone, to give forgiveness is so easy that asking sorry seems unnecessary anymore.

18 Mar 09

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myLot “Stimulus Package” coming soon!

myLot! @myLot (127) • Kansas City, Missouri 11 Mar 09

Hey myLot members – feeling down about the present economic situation? Looking for a new way to bring in some extra dough? myLot is ready to help! Coming soon to myLot is a whole new way for you to increase your earnings AND have...

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lighten Interesting indeed but still I can't get any since I'm in Malaysia :(

12 Mar 09

Do you still love your lover if he have hurt your feeling?

hanah87 @hanah87 (1835) • Malaysia 11 Mar 09

Have you been argue/being cheated by your lover?Do you still love him/her?

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lighten Hi Hanah, Yes, a lot, but I still love her. Love, the strange but truth about it.

11 Mar 09

who will you choose the one you love or the one who loves you???

ryaj21 @ryaj21 (208) • Philippines 10 Mar 09

well ive been in that situation even now im confused of who will i choose the one who loves me or the one i love..i want to be secured i want to choose the right girl for me..pls help me decide..thanks guys for helping me i know...

love

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lighten Hi ryaj, If you chose the one you love, what happen when you don't love her anymore and what happen if she don't love you at all. If you chose the one who loves you even though you don't love her at first but you can always learn to love her. The one you love...

10 Mar 09

Who Would You Rather Be?

margaux08 @margaux08 (1094) • Philippines 28 Feb 09

Would you rather be with someone who left another to love you?...or Would you rather be with someone who's willing to leave you because you're in love with someone else?

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lighten In this case, you ain't getting any. The first one, might leave you too someone, the second one is gone once she knew you are with someone else if you have that someone else. But, if I have to choose, I'll choose the second one, it not easy to find someone...

9 Mar 09

When do you know that you are love...

Amigo523 @Amigo523 (121) • India 9 Mar 09

This is a great feeling ..i have experienced it yet but im search of her... I have some confusions when one knows that he/she is in love..

love

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lighten No one knows for sure actually, except when that someone make you feel you miss him/her so badly, when that someone make your life more meaningful, livelier, and just by seeing and being with him/her make you feel so happy. And at certain times, you put...

9 Mar 09

how does it feel????????

parthu28 @parthu28 (498) • India 9 Mar 09

how does it feel if the only person youi ever truly loved and wanted to be with turns you down saying that person doesnt love you n want just to be friends with you........and later you end up knowing that he or she loves you...

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lighten Hmmmmm... interesting, since i experienced it too. Anyway, life must go on no matter what. Love is a very strange thing indeed. In my case, even after knowing the truth, I just carry on with my life and wish her all the best in her life. You see in life, not...

9 Mar 09

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I feel sad right now. What should I do?

elysium @elysium (169) • United States 8 Mar 09

My boyfriend got into a car accident after a truck ran passed a red light. He is in a coma right now. I feel really depressed right now and can not stop crying. I keep telling myself that he will come out of the coma, but whenever...

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lighten Sorry to hear about that elysium, my prays for him for speedy recovery. Anyway, you should stop crying and try you best to always be there for him. Talk to him eventhough he's in that state, and never lose hope.

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how to find the right woman for you???

ryaj21 @ryaj21 (208) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

is it by standard or just by looking at her face???or by feelings or just by fun??this is not for me this for the guys out there who still searching for the right one...lets help them...

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lighten There are many ways, ever heard of saying 'love of the first sight'. But the truth is love is just an emotion, where it can be build actually. We can love someone and hate someone, but 'true love' is something that rarely happened. If by the first look but...

9 Mar 09

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Do you like it when people ask your age?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 8 Mar 09

How old are you? 28. Father with 2 sons: Oh gosh, you are in the prime of your life. So young, just like a baby. I hate it when people comment on my age this way. 28 is certainly not young in my opinion. I feel...

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lighten Nope, never been a problem. Not only age, even status too. Age has never been a problem to me either.

9 Mar 09

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Would you care about your partner's dark past?

nilouette @nilouette (632) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

And would you accept him/her for who he/she is after finding the whole truth?

dark past

secret

truth

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lighten sometimes in this case, better not knowing or don't care about that. What happened in the past cannot be changed either. Just concentrate with what you have now, the relationship with he/she, and it even worth your time.

9 Mar 09

In finding your perfect mate, which do you prefer more? Beauty or Brains?

iloveorange05 @iloveorange05 (127) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

In finding my perfect mate, i prefer Brains, because brains can be a beauty to everyone, while Beauty has no sense at all without Brains.. How about you MyLotters? which do you prefer more in finding your perfect mate? Beauty...

finding your soulmate

relationships

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lighten Beauty or brains come later after heart. Heart makes beauty shines endlessly and since brains can be feed later on. Have a nice day to you too...

9 Mar 09

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is it enough for you?

vheilugto @vheilugto (149) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

is it enough for you to say i love you or show to your partner that your care? how can be contented for what we are doiing just to show that we love and care for them?

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lighten Not that easy actually, to some just by saying 'i love you' is more than enough, but some need more than that. Even to some, both doesn't seem to make any sense. Woman eh.. :)

9 Mar 09