lorelen_12

@lorelen_12 (47)

Philippines • Age 61

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When was the last time you cried your heart out?what did you do?

007Bond1974 @007Bond1974 (881) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

In my case it was when i felt i was helpless...no job no money stricken of debt...i felt abandoned...those where hard times...i cant even ask for help from my own family as they are in a difficult situation as well... i cried my...

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lorelen_12 Hello, 007Bond, i cried hard as if i also want to die, when my husband left us, he died last July 9, 2005. That was the very hurting and the very difficult situation that happens in our lives. But God is so good, HE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR US! He is the great...

20 Feb 07

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Drinking ,I have been drinking for 25yrs.

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 16 Feb 07

Yes I have and I am not ashame. I have been bless I never hurt anyone, I have got in alot of accidents but I am still alive, God has truly been with me. so after I have been through what I have been through It is time for me to...

drinking

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lorelen_12 hello, mariascott, i respond to your topic to relate my late husbands experienced. He's a change smoker and a drankard. He's a seaman, and always drunk there because of a homesick and very cold place. Unfortunately he died of a cardiac arrest, he's heart...

17 Feb 07

Can u ever forget ur first love???

nishamohan10 @nishamohan10 (190) • India 11 Dec 06

According to me, our first love is is the only love a person can never ever erase from his/her heart, everything abt him/her will be in our minds however hard we try to forget. Only he/she has a special place in our...

first love

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lorelen_12 Hello nishamohan, yes i can't forget my first love, my late husband is my first and last love, until now eventhough he is in the other life now, my love and affection long for him. He had a very special place in my heart.

17 Feb 07

First Love Never Dies

mvenezuela @mvenezuela (141) • Philippines 16 Feb 07

Do you believe in "First Love Never Dies"? How could we say that first love never dies..? This saying is such a very unconditional phrase...! i dont exactly believe in this..cause its you who well decide whether your first...

first love is forever

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lorelen_12 Hello mvenezuela, "YES" i believe in "First Love Never Dies", i had only one boyfriend in my life, our relationships lasts for 5 years as boyfriend and girlfriend, until we decided to get married, we live as husband and wife for long 19 years, we have 2 sons...

17 Feb 07

Are you married to your first Love???

Jleivang @Jleivang (374) • India 9 Feb 07

I heard that first love is never a success though it is the most special one. So, are you still with your first love? Are you married to him/her???? Please share your experiences.

first love

marriage

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lorelen_12 Hello Jleivang, i am married to my first love. I have only one boyfriend in my teenage life, our relationship lasts for 5 years until we decided to get married. We live happily as husband and wife, we have 2 sons. Our marraige was almost perfect that we trust...

17 Feb 07

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What is the biggest problem you encounter in your relationship?

vangie79 @vangie79 (198) • Philippines 16 Feb 07

Share your biggest problem you encounter in your relationship and how did you resolve it?

relationships

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lorelen_12 hello vangie, the most biggest problem i encountered in our relationship is when my husband died. I dont know what to do that time. So many worries come into my mind. I hold on to God, he is the best friend who comforted me and listen to all my questions.

17 Feb 07

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No Smoking Please!

lvap0628 @lvap0628 (731) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

How do you get somebody to quit smoking? I've been asking my husband to please stop smoking or at least minimize it, but to no avail. It started as an every after meal thing (to lose that filled-belly feeling, he said), but now he...

health

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lorelen_12 I can share your problem coz i had experience that problem, too. my husband died of a cardiac arrest, because he is a change smoker, i kept on telling him to stop smoking but it is very hard for him to stop it. Convince your husband before its too late. If you...

15 Feb 07

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ARE YOU HAPPILY SINGLE OR HAPPILY MARRIED?

bonheat65 @boneheart69 (693) • Philippines 15 Nov 06

ME..neither

family

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lorelen_12 I am happily married, almost perfect, my husband is a caring, thoughtful and loving man. But unfortunately he died at the age of 41, so young to leave us. I have 2 sons that give all the meaning in my life to move on. Even that my husband leave us, i conclude...

15 Feb 07

Is being "single" such a bad thing?

browneyedgiri68 @browneyedgiri68 (104) • United States 14 Feb 07

Is there something wrong with being single and enjoying it? It seems that there is alot of emphasis on being a "couple" all the time. Especially on Valentine's Day. Are single people just bitter people who have given up on finding...

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lorelen_12 There are some person who are really mean to single for life. That is there vocation, single blessedness, they are happy being that. I have some friends who are like that, they are bless and happy. If insecurities make them settle down then that would lead to...

15 Feb 07

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Is it ok to marry someone with a different religion?

kutchi @kutchi (12320) • Pakistan 6 Feb 07

hey guys give your views

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lorelen_12 Hello, kutchi, For me, yes it is ok to marry with different religion, we have just one God, we believe in one God. As long as you both agree on your arrangement, if you both will go to the same church or will part everytime you go to church, the important is...

15 Feb 07

Would you re-marry again if your spouse dies?

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 14 Feb 07

This haven't crossed my mind since I am not married yet but my aunt kept on telling a story about this. My cousin recently bought a house and the former owner was a nice family. I'm not sure how did they knew about their story but...

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lorelen_12 Hello, hottie I am a widow for almost 2 years now, my husband died last July 9, 2005. Til now im single, but i will relate my life to your story. For me it is very early to re-marry for only a couple of month that his wife died, but it is his decision to...

15 Feb 07

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WHAT are the secrets of a PERFECT relationship...?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 12 Feb 07

i was thinking on the secrets of perfect relationship be it your wife or lover. i could just think of four 1. it’s important to have a woman who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, 2. it’s important to have a woman who...

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lorelen_12 i add to my first response earlier: 1. Constant communication. 2. Be a good listener and understand the situation. 3. Be thoughtful, caring and loving.

12 Feb 07

WHAT are the secrets of a PERFECT relationship...?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 12 Feb 07

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lorelen_12 For me the secrets of a perfect relationships are: 1. You must know what is his/her like and dislikes. 2. You must know what he/she feels now. 3. You must be honest and faithful to him/her. 4. You must respect ones self and love will follow, cause if you...

12 Feb 07

Long Distance Relationships.......Do u believe?

rahuldmhatre @rahuldmhatre (736) • India 11 Feb 07

So i was wondering, what do you guys think of long-distance relationships. Would you get involved in one? Have you had one, was it a success? These are my answers: 1. Would you get involved? No..never..waste of time and money...

long distance relationships

love

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lorelen_12 I have had one, i have experience a long distance relationship like in an online romance. We chat twice a day, and we fall in love, unknowingly he is a married man. I want to "let him go" but its very hard to do it, cause I love him so much now. But i am...

12 Feb 07