lotsalove

@lotsalove (57)

Philippines • Age 55

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Would you leave your family for a job offer abroad?

lotsalove @lotsalove (57) • Philippines 29 Jul 08

Sometimes, we are offered a juicy job offer abroad, and it would really help our family finances, but then it also means we would have to leave the family behind , some kids, our partner. Would you grab the offer or ditch it?

out of the country

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Guinea Pigs

sunshine4 @sunshine4 (8703) • United States 29 Jul 08

Anyone have a guinea pig as a pet? I hope I am not going to regret this decision, but my daughter really wants a guinea pig. I told her if she saves enough money, she can buy one. I took her to the pet store today and she found...

guinea pigs

pets

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lotsalove I used to have one as a teenager and at first I really loved the idea but being a student and all and having to feed it daily, give it clean drinking water, and cleaning the cage regularly, it became a burdensome chore. And, when time came for it to be mated,...

29 Jul 08

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Men,would you tell a cuckolded husband that his wife is cheating on him?

lotsalove @lotsalove (57) • Philippines 17 Jul 08

Its a reality in my neighborhood, the wife of a man working abroad is two-timing her husband and doing so the last 6 years with her husband's most trusted friend and neighbor. I learned yesterday that the relative of the husband...

cuckolded husband

What are the things or attitude you don't like about your partner or friend?

lyzabelle @lyzabelle (1668) • Philippines 17 Jul 08

Let's say you have a friend, girlfriend,boyfriend,wife,husband,brother,sister,parents or even neighbor. They have a certain attitude that irritates or annoyed you and you want them to change. What is it? And do you have the...

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lotsalove It's my husband's jealousy. he gets raving mad when a male friend happens to leave a message even if it's a business call. I have had to reject a few job offers that would require me to train away from home for 2 to 6 months. So I've been out of work for the...

17 Jul 08

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My Girlfriend decline my marriage proposal!...

Odamashin @Odamashin (434) • Philippines 16 Jul 08

Have you been refused/declined by someone?..or have you refused/declined someone's proposal? How does it feel? What will you do if your girlfriend refused to marry you?

love

marriage proposal

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lotsalove I have a male friend who was declined too and he was raving mad, you see, he has the looks( Tom Cruise), the smarts (honor student) and the killer job (top lawyer) so even if the girlfriend said she felt she was still quite young and needed more time, he...

17 Jul 08

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Questions to Royalty.

justdeidra @justdeidra (1) • Trinidad And Tobago 10 Jul 08

How would you dress if you were invited to the Whitehouse or to see the Queen of England? In your best is my guess. Why then do we as a Royal Priesthood whose Father is the King of kings and the Lord of lords dress anyhow? How...

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lotsalove This topic was covered some 8 years ago by a missionary to China and other Asian countries. He said that in some countries, what is considered to be holy garments or at least holy-looking garments meant the opposite in another country. He gave the example of...

10 Jul 08

If you are going to die,will you tell your family?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 10 Jul 08

Life can be so short and unpredictable. We never know what will happen to you even the next second. So if you are given a chance to know you are going to die,will you tell your family? What will you tell them? If this is in my...

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lotsalove I wouldn't at first. I'll just get my life in order. Do what I can to secure their future without my presence. Rebuild broken relationships, forgive enemies, reconcile with people and tell my loved ones how much I love them. I'd settle all my accounts with the...

10 Jul 08

What would you REALLY do if you had a billion dollars?

ocean4 @ocean4 (236) • Canada 10 Jul 08

The human race seems to be just about getting richer and sppending that money on themselves. When there are people in the world begging for a dollar there are other people who spend millions on stuff they dont even need. Im asking...

what would you do with a million dollars human rac

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lotsalove If I had that kind of money in my country then that would be multiplied 45 times over so I'd be crazy rich. Honestly I wouldn't know how to deal with that kind of money and giving them out to charity is no guarantee that the money would actually reach the...

10 Jul 08

I'm working on reducing how much food I throw in the garbage, what about you?

PearlGrace @PearlGrace (3171) • United States 6 Jul 08

Hey there. Lately, the costs of groceries are just through the roof! Now, I have to admit, I've been a person that would toss out leftovers if I thought we wouldn't eat them. And, I did not think about the expense of...

cost of groceries

throwing out leftovers

wasting food

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lotsalove The last two weeks, I've changed a whole lot of my grocery habits. A community official talked me into saving up my grocery bags as they are now being recycled to make hollow blocks, so the plastic bags are taken care of. The leftovers, we put into ceramic...

8 Jul 08

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Do You Look Young For Your Age?

sunkissed @sunkissed (4330) • United States 28 May 08

Do You look younger than you really are?. Nobody really believe me when I tell them that I am 56 years old. The other day My granddaughter who is 10 and I went to get some wings to eat.The guy that was working there was sitting...

age

look younger

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lotsalove Good for you, ma'am. You've managed to look great even in your fifties! I've always looked older than my 38 years but Im okay with it. I simply keep myself fit and think young and dress appropriately for my age and status ( im married). And yet, people still...

8 Jul 08

does anyone care about their appearance anymore?

srpkinja @srpkinja (375) • Canada 7 Jul 08

i went downtown today to look for a job and i dressed up really nice. i wore a little lue dress and gold ballerina shoes. i thought it was cute. but... as i was looking around and i couldnt help but spot so many people looking...

appearance

clothes

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lotsalove I've read through your response and you do come across as smart and sensible. I agree that people should give a little more thought to what they wear. Appearance should not take a backseat to comfort; if everyone can find comfy clothes that looks great on them...

8 Jul 08

do mothers/wife get tired of doing the same thing everyday

bangwin29 @bangwin29 (147) • Philippines 8 Jul 08

i'm a mother and a wife and i think doing the same thing everyday for my love ones will not stop me from doing it again and again. Household stuffs, waking up early, groceries and more and thinking that even if i do the same...

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lotsalove Of course, we do get tired of the same things day in and day out. What I do is vary my routine or stop altogether and go out for a pizza. The last thing I would like to be is grouchy around my kids because I had a lousey, boring day. So i add pizzazz to my day...

8 Jul 08

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Do u dare to rise ur hand and speak ur ideas in a meeting?

dinhquanghuy @dinhquanghuy (647) • Vietnam 8 Jul 08

In a meeting ,I see no one rise hands to show their opinions because they fear of wrong answers .Do u dare to rise ur hand in a meeting ?

rise ur hand

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lotsalove I would if I am confident about what I am about to say and that wwhat I am about to say will benefit the rest of the group, or reflect the sentiments of the group. I've found out through experience that speaking up makes the whole discussion wrap up quickly...

8 Jul 08

What to put for references when applying for job?

StarCatcher06 @StarCatcher06 (52) • New Zealand 7 Jul 08

I'm applying for a part-time job at the local cinema for some extra money and I don't think they require some experience but still, I have none. On the application form they ask for at least 2 references and well, the only job...

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lotsalove You dont have to put employers as your refereces specially if you have none! It wouldn't make sense to the one reading your resume, would it? No experience and yet you have employer references. Ask permission form former teachers, pastor, a family friend who...

7 Jul 08

Is it right for me to change a job?

jty2005 @jty2005 (17) • Morocco 7 Jul 08

I'm working for Youngor-sunrise as a QA after graduated from school.Everyday i have to face the same people from another company which our bulk fabric were sold to and have to solve the problem they found. I think it's very...

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lotsalove Find the reasons for your discontent, if it's just boredom, try to see the redeeming qualities of your job. Otherwise, if you think you need to to shift gears and look for a more challenging job, shop around for a while and see if you have the qualities that...

7 Jul 08

HIgh Blood Pressure

dixie1 @dixie1 (1330) • United States 7 Jul 08

Hi, Other than avoiding salt, what are the best things to keep you blood pressure low?

advice

high blood pressure

keeping blood pressure low

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lotsalove Eat at least 2 servings of raw food daily. Raw, meaning never gone through any kind of heat or cooking. Fresh fruits and raw veggies fit the bill. Also add to that, cutting back on sweeteners, high cholesterol food, red meat and alcohol. A minimum of exercise...

7 Jul 08

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