lotusmine

@lotusmine (33)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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When do you go to bed always?

freerr @freerr (666) • China 3 Apr 09

I came from a country, the people always go to bed in 10:00 PM evening. But now ,I find many people don't go to bed too early. I like the midnight, it is silent without any trouble, I like to think something or do some work at...

midnight

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lotusmine To be honest,i don't like to go to bed late. But i really did for some time,about one year for job. At that time,i always went to bed at 12:00PM-1:00AM.It became a habit to me, but i know that would be terrible.Surely i deeply awared of that it's pretty bad...

10 Apr 09

did you ever give money to street beggar?

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 26 Feb 09

I ever gave money to street beggar before.she looked like pregnant for five or six monthes.she wrote "i couldn't find my husband in this city,i need money for going back home" i felt sorry with her and just want to give her a...

beggar

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lotusmine I got the same experience.Once i passed by a bridge,and saw a young boy who was about 17 years old.He wrote"i want to go home,i need 6 yuan to take a bus" I think i could help him,just only 6 yuan.then i put out all of money from my packet and gave him.I...

28 Feb 09

we are spiritual being!

maryadrew @maryadrew (42) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

do you believe in that? man is composed of body,soul and spirit. the one who go to eternity is not our body but our soul and spirit... are you ready for that? be sure to prepare the spiritual state of life waiting for us...

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lotusmine Is there only nothingness after death? i know this kind of question puzzled the inner heart of human being.Some of them deny soul,as they do not believe something which haven't seem with their own eyes.But it does not represent soul is non-existent thing. I...

26 Feb 09

Are you happy with your current life? Why?

rakesh284 @rakesh284 (1472) • India 21 Feb 09

It sometimes happens that we think god really cruel with us. In such situations we think that it is our bad luck. It happens with everyone at point of time. If you have a problem free life then you must be very lucky person. And...

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lotusmine Hi,Rakesh,i am not satisfied with my current life. I have no idea what the reason is.Usually,i will think a lot of my life.Such as the past and the future.I think too much.My friend suggested me that i should decide to be happy.Shall I?I don't think i can not...

24 Feb 09

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Single and Happy!!

ljordan @ptty_noel (190) • Uruguay 22 Feb 09

Persons often find me being hard to believe and often ask me if i'm lonely and how can I lve without a man. I think that we as women don't need a man to mank us happy. Once we have other friends, places to go and shopping to do...

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lotusmine Hey,there! I am single as well.i do not think that i can not live withou a man.We got a lot of friends around us.Surely we can share everything with each other,but not just men can do.Someone who broke up with her mate would lose hope,even gave herself up...

24 Feb 09

what do you look for in a friend

katb28 @katb28 (225) 22 Feb 09

if you had to choose 3 qualities in a friend what would they be, i think mine would be kind, loyal , and a good sense of humor how about yours

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lotusmine Hi,Katb,i agree with your point about looking for in a friend.But for me,i would like to choose truthfulness,,understanding,creditableness.

24 Feb 09

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Feeling bored at mylot, did you experienced this also..?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 16 Feb 09

As I open up this site now, I read some nice and interesting topic and readable topics. I just don't understand myself, I don't like answering some of those good discussions...I was wondering why..Yes I read it all but as if I got...

bored

no interests

tired

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lotusmine I don't agree with you.There are a lot of interesting topics here to share.i love them,but i don't have enough time to sign in. But i really enjoy it.Just try yourself to find something you like,i'm sure you will discover the glitter belongs to you.

17 Feb 09

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who is the one person that you can turn?

shawnk20 @shawnk20 (38) • United States 12 Feb 09

who is the one person that you can turn to when it feels like the world is at it's end. well the one and only person i feel like i can talk to about anything would be my sister. i can always turn to my sister to give me advise...

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lotusmine My dear friend, your didcussion recalled me a lot.Who is that preson i can turn to? This one should be very faithful to you.This is my first time to think about this type of question.I won't share with my family,as i do not want them worry about me. Friend is...

17 Feb 09

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Are you satisfied with your weight?

impexp @impexp (246) • China 23 Jan 09

3 years ago I was pretty satisfied with my weight.I was slim and never thought of being a fat woman.However after married,my weight increased straightly like the rocket.It is difficult to buy clothes in the department store cause...

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lotusmine Hi,impexp,i think you should aware that lose weight is not a one day or two thing. it will take a lot. Such like perseverance,persistence and optimistic attitude. Once i tried to lose weight as well. But i failed coz i was overanxious for quick...

24 Jan 09

Do you Keep learnging now?

Nana2009 @Nana2009 (16) • United States 6 Jan 09

When I was a child, I am happy because I am so curious about everything so I learned new things everyday. However, as I grow up, I find I am so lazy now and I don't like to learn new things. Sometimes I feel I konw nothing. Guys...

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lotusmine Sure i will keep learning. Life is but a span,but the more you learn,the less things you will know If you really want to catch up with the international developing step,should keep learning,and be curious about something around you. Well,sometimes it's very...

8 Jan 09

Forgive your ENEMY....POssible in real life ??

uditpanda @uditpanda (1023) • India 1 Jan 09

There is a saying , You can be called generous if you can forgive your enemy. I find it hard to do so in my real life. I just cannot get over my emotions & can't tame my anger. Can you do it ? Is it possible on your part to...

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lotusmine Usually,it's easy to say more than action. But i will forgive my enmey in my real life. Why not? i remember some words from mother Teresa,If you are successful,you will win some faults friends and true enemies.succeed,anyway. I believe that there is a destiny....

2 Jan 09

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Whom do you share your secrets with?

sunilpatel @sunilpatel (150) • India 28 Dec 08

Mother, father or friends? I am sure most of you would be saying Boy friend or girl friend but apart fropm that who else you think is more approachable? For me its my mother coz she knows me very well.

girl friend

secrets

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lotusmine I seldom share my secrets with my parents.Just do not want them to worry about me,i prefer suffering by myself to others who love me.But we talk a lot,something in life or in working.For the person i will share my secrets with is someone i trust.No matter...

29 Dec 08

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I have a job interview lined up. Any tips?

Sillychick @Sillychick (3275) • United States 21 Dec 08

I am going back to work after almost 2 1/2 years at home with my son. I have my first interview coming up soon. I am nervous because it's been so long. Can anyone offer me tips or encouragement to help me not be so nervous?...

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lotusmine When i got an interview,i felt pretty nervous.But when the interviewer asked me question,i calmed down suddently.Coz i told meself at that moment:Now you have two choics: First,you can answer the questions fluently and naturally,to show them what you real to...

22 Dec 08

Are You an Orange Juice Drinker?

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 20 Dec 08

I went shopping with my sister the other day and she said she had to get some orange juice. She said she like to drink orange juice in the morning with her breakfast. I drink coffee in the mornings and I drink it with my...

orange juice

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lotusmine I am an real Orange Juice Drinker.Here i mean the orange fruit juice. i like to drink it each meal,whenever breakfast or dinner.OJ is my favorite,even i went our with friends,i would be the unique one to drink orange juice,of course they all drink beer.i think...

21 Dec 08

Are you tired of doing the same things every day?

vermouth0304 @vermouth0304 (56) • China 24 Nov 08

There are too many things duplicate in our life. Every day we get up at the same time, eat same breakfast, walk on the same street. We take the same buses, arrive at school or office at the same time, do almost same works say...

buses

tired

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lotusmine I can not agree any more. Sometimes they are really redundant and wasting.But if i got something what is worthy to do,i would enjoy it and forget what is so-called repetition.So it depends on what i am doing.i would like to change my life style and it just...

11 Dec 08

Now, I doubt if there really is "Friends Forever".

lloydbelleza @lloydbelleza (1227) • Philippines 8 Dec 08

I am so sorry if at this point I am doubting of it. I used to believe that friends are forever. And there are really people that you can keep forever. Now, I doubt. The very best friend that I consider has in a way neglected me....

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lotusmine lloydbelleza,sorry to heard that the change of your friend. When i was a little girl,i believed strongly that friends are forever and it was easy to keep it. But the older i am getting,the more belief i am losing. Certainly there are some close friends arround...

11 Dec 08

A Tradition (death in the neighborhood).

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 7 Dec 08

My neighbors son was killed in a car accident. It is a tradition here to help the family out by taking things that are useful during this time of grief. Things like food for the family and friends that are visiting the relative....

lend a helping hand

towels

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lotusmine I still remember that difficult time of my grandpa and grandma passed away together. The whole family fell into a great sadness.Each one of us had no idea what tradition we should follow.Even if i was heartbroken,there was a warm came up my mind.Because the...

10 Dec 08

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