mathildachelsea

@mathildachelsea (37)

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why do parents compare their to kids to others?

Judy890 @Judy890 (1644) • United States 19 Nov 11

You know how there's those parents who compare you to other kids, when I was 8 my parents always made me feel worthless they always mentioned how I couldnt do anything and how other kids can play instruments or that this child is...

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mathildachelsea I'm fortunate that I seldom been compared by my parents to others.It's too rude to hear comparisons because it makes us be little and insecure. I guess parents who do this are those parents who are also insecure of themselves. They should be open to reality...

19 Nov 11

Is the Devil smarter than God????

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 18 Nov 11

First, let me say that the devil doesn't really exist except in the minds of people to give them someone to blame for their bad choices. Religion has many stories that are really no more than stories. Under further investigation,...

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mathildachelsea Definitely not, God created all of us including the devil. It just that the devil wants to surpass God. He tempt people to do evil things but in the end goodness still wins over bad. If someone would believe that devil is smarter than God then he must be a...

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How do you enjoy your life?

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

I enjoy my life any ways..Like to have family around,friends,talking any funny things and other.. Going out ,like going somewhere else in mall,shops and eating..How about you there..?

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mathildachelsea I enjoy life by spending time with my family and friends. I also travel to new places and discover different culture and people. I find ways to do things that are not part of the usual routine anymore so I'll not get bored. In other words---I love adventures...

18 Nov 11

ABS-CBN or GMA?

neelia_lyn @neelia_lyn (2003) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

Among the many channels, especially if you are a cable subscriber, there are always two which are most watched and which are considered rival networks - they are the ABS-CBN and GMA. I am used to watching ABS-CBN because the...

channels

gma

tv shows

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mathildachelsea I watched more GMA programs especially when it comes to updates of the latest news. I'm also entertained at night watching soap operas aired in ABS. I would rather choose both channels because I'm actually watching their programs. I'm the kind of person who...

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Is it alright to have doubts about your relationship after 20 yrs

LoriAn @LoriAn (120) • United States 17 Nov 11

I have been with this guy now for 19 or 20 yrs now and I still have these doubts about whether there suppose to be more for me if he is actually my mate for now expecting a fifth child these doubts still come to my mind.When will...

secure in relationships after 20 yrs

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mathildachelsea I guess you are in a situation right now that you feel stagnant in your relationship. You doubt because you might not have the same feeling you have to your husband since you started your relationship.Try to evaluate your relationship with your husband.It...

18 Nov 11

We all have questions to ask.

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 18 Nov 11

Yes,true.And even in our mind we have questions to ask from our self,personal,family,career,work,and others .Like spiritual questions,and physical. We have a lt of questions to share like in here ,we can ask about anything..We...

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mathildachelsea Life is mysterious. There are a lot of unanswered questions in this world that's why we try to ask to clarify on things.People varies from their experiences so they have different insights when asked to some questions.We asked often because we need to be...

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Can facebook ruin your life sometimes?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 17 Nov 11

I heard some people comments about your prospective employer might check on your facebook page to determine whether to hire you. School board has vivid example of vetting facebook on certain young teachers' profile page to...

facebook

landlord

tenant

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mathildachelsea I believe so. This is the reason why you should not divulge everything in face book. Naturally, it's a social network so it gives the authority of people to check a part of your personal information. I would suggest that you only approve persons you know and...

18 Nov 11

why can't we pleased other people???

lizmystic @lizmystic (1) 18 Nov 11

most of the time we always try to be as perfect as possible and be the best among the rest of our peers. in order to caught attention and appreciation in the environment we are living.but instead we do not get the reward in doing...

cami

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mathildachelsea By the way, what's your reason in pleasing them? Just try to live the way you want and not because you want to please people. Life would be miserable if you only think what people may say. You should take control of your life so you'll be happy. Trying to be...

18 Nov 11

how do you look for a new job

hotsummer @hotsummer (13882) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

someone offered me a job. but i don't know if this one is real job or not. as this is just an online job. and i would need to process some payments and handle the money. hopefully although i don't need to use my own capital, that...

job

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mathildachelsea It's a big world out there. There are many opportunities and many wants to grab it. And you are one of them who wants to have an extra income. It would be good for you to know jobs online that has been tried already by your friends. After all,we don't want to...

18 Nov 11

How do you teach your kids?

mtrguanlao @mtrguanlao (5522) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

My baby daughter is going to school by next school year and so I'm teaching her some basics like the alphabets and numbers. She is very much the opposite of her brother. I remember when I'm teaching my son before,his concentration...

how do you teach kids

learning from parents

teaching kids

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mathildachelsea Naturally, a kid has short attention span. I guess you need to post pictures of numbers, alphabets in their study room or in their room and teach them more often. The often they got to see those figures then it would be familiar to them and easy to retain. Try...

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Expectation - only thing creates problems in life?

lovedude @lovedude (4447) • India 18 Nov 11

Expectation is only feelings makes us to desire something.. and it doesn't happen we feel sad.. if we don't expect alot, half of our problems will be solved..

expectation

life

problems

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mathildachelsea Sometimes, its good to have an expectation so you will double your effort to work for your goal. It is in a way gives you a sense of direction. The problem comes when you are not doing anything as expected or if you've expected too much beyond of what you can...

18 Nov 11

how often do you think of your childhood friend

hotsummer @hotsummer (13882) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

i often look back when i met my friend in high school. i don't see him any more. and makes me feel sad that i don't get to see a good person like him any more. he has been such a blessing to me. he has been like a gift from heaven...

childhood friend

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mathildachelsea There are times in your life that you wish to go back in the past. And the only thing that memories live is through people you have known and marked in your heart. This is actually true in your situation. I know times have changed but you can always look back...

18 Nov 11

How do you deal with people who are always pessimistic?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 17 Nov 11

There are people who just do not appreciate all the good things they have. One of my friends belong to this group of people. Even though she has a very high paid and easy job, she always manages to find things to complain. As a...

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mathildachelsea This kind of people I don't want to be with. It makes me more depressed and lonely.In your case, I know how it feels to be with her. You just can't leave him alone complaining because you are her as a good friend and ought to listen to her. I guess your...

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Working Online Mom, Superwoman and Family Provider

inlovewithmyself @inlovewithmyself (59) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

I consider myself a superwoman.Know why? I give my office work and have to work online to take care of my family. I choose this because I want to have more time for my family while earning at home. Workers online who rendered...

earn money online

online works

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mathildachelsea I envy you superwoman...I hope I can get jobs online but actually i don't know how. I just joined this site lately but I'm not quite sure if I can get something from this. I'm also a mother of 2 and unemployed because I'm busy taking care of my babies. How I...

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Have you ever influenced or felt your influence on others?

venkateshk @venkateshk (88) • India 17 Nov 11

Hello, Many great people have been sources of inspiration to mankind. Have you ever influenced others in a positive way? Have you ever felt or seen your influence take effect on others? To my dismay, I have not really come...

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mathildachelsea I don't actually see the effect of influencing others through my words right away. I believe I have influenced others the way they decide and act indirectly or in a little way as possible. Actually, the way you are- being honest and humble can already...

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I love my family

nonoyyh @nonoyyh (40) 17 Nov 11

My family consists of father, mother, elder brother, younger brother and me. I love all of them very much. My parents take very good care of me. My elder brother is do good to me. My younger brother is naughty but except this he...

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mathildachelsea Our family is our shield to our harsh reality. I'm happy to hear that your blessed with a happy family. You will be then envied by some because not everybody has a family like yours. Try to be as loving and obedient child to your parents. It's a way of giving...

18 Nov 11

Are you surprised in the Slightest About Ashton and Demi Getting Divorced?

ladym33 @ladym33 (10978) • United States 17 Nov 11

I was hoping they could make it but with Ashton getting more and more popular and busier I am not surprised the marriage is breaking up. Are you surprised? Do you believe that he cheated? I am not even a little surprised and I...

demi and ashton

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mathildachelsea Nope i'm not surprised at all. They are in Hollywood. They get married to whoever, whenever and anytime they want and divorced after few years, days or minutes. I already have some apprehensions before that the relationship of the two will not last because of...

18 Nov 11