myiesha

@myiesha (96)

Singapore • Age 46

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Are you still keeping a notebook or a notepad ?

torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 19 Oct 10

Despite the fact that we already had computers and cellphone to our convenience, some of us still love to scribble notes for diary, calendar of events, reminders and those sort of things. I keep a small notebook myself where I...

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myiesha Yes, I always have a small notebook wherever I go to jot down things. I especially need this as I am forgetful.

20 Oct 10

don't you hate people call after you fall asleep?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 18 Aug 10

I understood that some people didn't do it on purpose. They might simply got a wrong number, and I just a little bit jumpy due to I was too tired last night. Around 11:30 P.M. night time. I already in my bed, and I am asleep. All...

asleep

call

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myiesha Keep the phone off if you don't want to be disturb. best way to avoid phone calls

19 Aug 10

cutting my familys hair, happy or cheap memories?

gnomeland @gnomeland (421) 16 Aug 10

i started cutting my husbands hair a few years ago to save a few pounds. he in turn cuts my youngest sons hair (we use clippers and scissors). although a bit nervous at first i surprised myself how easy and convinient this has...

childhood memories

dad

family haircuts

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myiesha Same here I cut hubby's hair to save a few dollars. It was his idea which I hesitantly oblige as he was very particular with his haircut. Most of the time, we would argue and end up laughing if the haircut is a little off. I also cut my daughter's hair. It's...

17 Aug 10

Thank you...

mai200725 @mai200725 (77) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

Do you say "Thank you" when some do you a favor, appreciates you or in any other occassions as needed? Do you think theres really a need to say this words?

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myiesha Definitely yes, it's one form of expressing your gratitude. Saying thank you, sorry and excuse me, these are all common courtesy that we shouldn't neglect.

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would you rather start a discussion or respond to one?

keshia2007r @keshia2007r (2880) • United States 16 Aug 10

ok, posting a pouplar discussion can get very exhausting because you have to respond back to every 50 something discussion comments. I'm in the process right now responding to about 5 discussions i started and my poor fingers are...

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myiesha Right now I'm just responding to discussions because I couldn't think of an interesting topic to start with.

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If your lover had another affair does it mean they love you no more?

czanwell_30 @czanwell_30 (717) • Philippines 11 Aug 10

If ever you knew that your lover was having an affair what would you think? Does he still love you or not? Please give examples and good description about this. My husband got an affair before, and I thought he doesn't love me...

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myiesha That's very sad czanwell, how can you still say that you're husband loves you so much if he keeps cheating on you? He doesn't respect your love and marriage. I know someone who does this to his wife, cheat on his wife and still treat his wife like he's the...

17 Aug 10

love at first sight?

phat_navy @phat_navy (58) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

I have nothing against people who thinks that love at first sight is really true. Our experiences are totally different from one another. I have reached my age and up to this time i have not been convinced of the idea that this is...

love

people

relationships

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myiesha When I first saw hubby I said to my friends "That guy, we would have something special together", I didn't really know why I said that up until now. Was it love at first sight? I don't think so. Like you, hubby and I believe that love develops over time....

17 Aug 10

Anger Management 101

ip5217 @ip5217 (1655) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

I am so pissed right now. There's the someone whom I shouldn't even be mindful about in the first place, he is no one. He is not even my husband nor my boyfriend that can totally make a difference in my life. However, what he is...

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myiesha When I'm angry or really stressed out and I don't want to face it head-on, to avoid conflict/fight and make it worst what I do is take papers (a bunch of it) and strip it into small pieces as much as can. I vent my anger on stripping the papers. It may sound a...

17 Aug 10

Do you say "Thank You!"?

trishasantos @trishasantos (1296) • Philippines 15 Aug 10

Do you say "Thank you!" to people who serves you(like when you buy something)? Do you teach it to your kids? I bought some food a few minutes ago and when I finally got the food, I told her "Thank you!" and she gave me a smile....

kindness

parents

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myiesha Yes I do say "Thank you" and teach this to my daughter as well. It's common courtesy and to be appreciated makes the other person feels good.

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perfect age to get marry

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 16 Aug 10

hi everyone..... i am in a dilemma. so need your help, please.... now, i am 31 and well established so my parents are searching a bride for me as i have no girl friend from past. they are thinking to arrange my marriage in next...

age

marry

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myiesha I think, your question shouldn't be the perfect age to get marry. You should be asking yourself if you are ready for marriage and for the responsibility that comes along with it. If you feel that you're not ready yet for lifelong commitment then discuss this...

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Is It Hard to say I LOVE YOU????

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 14 Aug 10

Who knows the reasons we have for not saying I LOVE YOU? Perhaps, it's no more than we haven't said it in so long that it feels funny. Unseen hurt can develop in us all when we avoid this. We all need to hear I LOVE YOU!! We all...

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myiesha That's sad, not ever hearing I love you. If that's the case, then I think it's probably time to ask upfront. Don't you think so?

16 Aug 10

I miss my mommy

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 16 Aug 10

When I was growing up my mother was always at home with my siblings and myself. However, after my father passed away she had to start working to ensure that we had a roof over our heads and things that are important like...

attachment

business travel

missing mom

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myiesha I'm very close with my mom, she's practically my bestfriend or like the big sister that I never had. But it wasn't like that before because I was a Daddy's girl, we only got closer when my father passed away.

16 Aug 10

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What is with WOMEN and SHOPPING ?

incus99 @incus99 (1083) • Philippines 16 Aug 10

Here is a social fact: "Men will buy anything at 200 when its really worth 100 for something he needs, while women will buy anything half the price for something she doesn't need." I observe women to love shopping more than...

men

shopping

women

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myiesha Personally speaking I love to shop not just for myself but for the whole family as well. Shopping is one form of relaxation for me, maybe for women in general.

16 Aug 10

Significance of engagement rings...

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 16 Aug 10

it feels so sweet when your love proposes for a marriage, his feeling of commitment is confirm, he is decided to spend his life with that person. This is the time also to decide for a woman if she would accept the proposal. In...

rings

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myiesha My thoughts exactly. Expensive engangement ring doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.

16 Aug 10

What is Love?

jackymcraph @jackymcraph (54) • Philippines 16 Aug 10

So many questions go unanswered in one's life-time. Unending search for answer to questions is what characterizes life in general. Love, looks like the most commonly used word in human relations but for the two decades since i...

human relations

love

what is love

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myiesha For me, love is simply finding comfort with each other no matter how ugly things turn out.

16 Aug 10

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How do you say I LOVE YOU in a very SWEET manner?

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1919) • Philippines 15 Aug 10

It is music to our ears when we hear I love you from your significant other. If it is matched by the some sweetness of how your partner say it makes it really romantic. Saying "I love you" a lot of times is not really a good idea....

being sweet

i love you

sacred phrase

saying i love you in a sweet way

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myiesha I love you should be said not in sweetest manner but in the most sincere way. I say it only when I mean it. I may have hurt hubby or made him feel bad on certain occassions when I don't answer back his "i love you". That maybe a little harsh of me but I...

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Are you willing to pay bigger taxes for better government services

Andyvil @Andyvil (793) • Philippines 15 Aug 10

This crossed my mind. I wonder if we filipinos are willing to pay bigger taxes for better services from the government. Services concerning not only public services such as roads, police and fire protection but such as health care...

benefits

philippines

taxes

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myiesha Paying bigger taxes doesn't guarantee a better government services. For that to happen there should be a total revamp of the government system. As we all know, corruption is very rampant in the Philippines that even from the lowest position in the government...

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Do we really have to follow our parents to decide for ourselves?

audsalas @prettyauds (257) • Philippines 14 Aug 10

I knew a few people,who didn't accepted nor believes in their parents guidance,but still manages to end up with a good life. I also knew a few who follows their parents guidance (even if its not with their free will) and end up...

family

freewill

life

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myiesha When I was single, I make my own decisions but I take in consideration of my mother's opinion. Whatever the outcome of my decisions would be, I only have myself to blame. It's my life, my choice, my decision and I'll take responsibility for it. But now that...

16 Aug 10

Is It Hard to say I LOVE YOU????

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 14 Aug 10

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myiesha Not saying the word "I love you" every time doesn't mean you neglect them. Expressing love is not just by words alone. It should be felt as well, more than words.

15 Aug 10

how do we say sorry?

akopoaysi @akopoaysi (739) • Philippines 14 Aug 10

if you had a big fight with our partner, how do you say it? do you forgive and forget? do you count all the mistakes that your partner done? when you said that you forgive your partner already, do you really forgave him? or you...

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myiesha Yes, we should learn from every mistakes thus we become wiser. happy day and mylotting.

15 Aug 10