optimisticgrl23

@optimisticgrl23 (397)

United States • Age 35

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Would you go against your parent for marrying someone you love?

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 13 Aug 09

Would you go against the wish of your parents to marry someone whom you love, even if they treat not to talk with you if you marry? Many of us face such situations, what is that goes on your mind in such times of trials?

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optimisticgrl23 I would make as much effort as possible for my family to see the person the way that I see him and hope that they could settle their differences or at least tolerate each other if it meant making me happy. If there was no possible way to work it out then I...

13 Aug 09

Are there any shows you're ready to start watching again?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 12 Aug 09

Here within the next few weeks, the fall lineup will be starting on television. There are quite a few shows that will be beginning their new seasons. I can't wait for them to start. I'm intrigued. I'm waiting for: The...

new seasons

television

watching

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optimisticgrl23 I am a sucker for teen dramas and can not wait for One Tree Hill and Gossip Girl to come back. I also really enjoy Biggest Loser and Brothers and Sisters. Although my mom and I do not live in the same house, we both watch Brothers and Sisters together and then...

13 Aug 09

Is it harmful to play really loud music in a car?

sunstar402 @sunstar402 (676) • India 19 Jul 09

Hello All, Driving a car is always been my pleasure. i really like to drive my maruti swift car on highways. but whenever i play music in my car my dad and my doctor friends always says that it is not good to play loud music in...

car

loud music

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optimisticgrl23 I also love to play my music loud when a great song comes on. Nothing beats jamming to some great music during a long drive. I imagine playing the music loud all the time might give serious wear and tear on your car speakers but I don't think it would be...

19 Jul 09

What do you like to do in a rainy day?

colydf @colydf (913) • China 18 Jul 09

For me, I would like to do nothing in a rainy day. Not go out, just stay at home, watching TV, or listening to the music, or just sleep on the bed, it makes me quiet and comfortable when it rains heavily outside. What about you?

rain

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optimisticgrl23 Call me a kid at heart but on rainy days I would love nothing more than to just go outside and play in the rain. Life is short and you have to take time to laugh every day and to me nothing beats running around in the rain and splashing into puddles.

18 Jul 09

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Do you prefer Laptop or Desktop Computer?

Rootmere @Rootmere (133) • United States 18 Jul 09

I prefer laptop because of the availability. But desktops are so stable and easy and comfortable. I don't play enough computer games to need that though, laptop is my choice. What's yours?

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optimisticgrl23 I think that both have their own benefits. I prefer working on my desktop when I can because it seems to run faster for me and does not lose my internet signal. Laptops are nice because when I travel, I can take it with me and it works great. They do bother...

18 Jul 09

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Can't sleep because my neighbor cutting grass early in the morning

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 18 Jul 09

Today is weekend, and I suppose get up really late, and not suppose to be up early in the morning. Around 8:30 A.M. in the morning, the outside noise just keep on buzzing. My next door neighbor pushing his lawn mower cutting the...

cutting grass

neighbor

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optimisticgrl23 My neighbor does the exact same thing. Our family likes to sleep in on Sundays and he is always out there at about 8:30 cutting his grass. My room is on that side of the house so it always wakes me up and everyone else can hear it too. This went on for a while...

18 Jul 09

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Coke products or Pepsi?

dreamangel01 @dreamangel01 (187) • United States 17 Jul 09

I am a coke product fan myself.

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optimisticgrl23 I prefer Pepsi over Coke because Coke seems more syrupy to me. My mom swears that she can not taste the difference between Coke and Pepsi but I think that I am not alone in saying that they taste completely different and I could easily pick them apart.

18 Jul 09

Why do so many people not want a relationship anymore?

dreamangel01 @dreamangel01 (187) • United States 17 Jul 09

Are relationships so hard and miserable that people just don't want them anymore?

relationships

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optimisticgrl23 Coming from someone who is not in a relationship I would have to say I enjoy the single life for what it is, not what it isn't. For me, relationships just add stress when you are around that person. You always have to be on guard and don't want to embarrass...

17 Jul 09

Does anybody know what will happen to MJ's concert at O2 arena in London?

henryjoe @henryjoe (249) • Malaysia 17 Jul 09

Is a suprise and sad to hear MJ pass away before his final show at O2 concert.Does anyone know what will happen to the 50 scheduled concert?

concert

pop star

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optimisticgrl23 I heard that the scheduled shows will still be held but it will obviously be a very different format than what was originally expected. It is going to be some kind of tribute show about his work over the years. I am not sure who all is signed on but I know...

17 Jul 09

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Would you rather be Beautiful or Smart?

Azaerus @Azaerus (820) • Philippines 17 Jul 09

Beauty and smart are rarely seen together,I know few people who are really beautiful but not smart and I also know people who are smart but lacks beauty... Being beautiful gives alot of advantage in a persons life,especially...

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optimisticgrl23 I would definitely choose to be smart rather than beautiful because looks fade over time but you can always be intelligent. If you only use your looks to get ahead, chances are that you will never be taken seriously when you have a suggestion or idea because...

17 Jul 09

How many hours do you spend your time connecting to internet

shinta @shinta (22) • Indonesia 25 Jun 08

How many hours do you usually spend your time connecting to the internet. Usually i spend about 7-8 hours per day between monday-friday, while im at the office.

internet

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optimisticgrl23 I am connected to the internet at all times during the day. When I wake up in the morning I log on and leave my email open so that I can hear when I receive new messages. I work from home running my own business so responding to emails is urgent. I stay online...

25 Jun 08

When you sleep, light's on or light's off??

andyel2023 @andyel2023 (218) • Philippines 15 Jun 08

I really sleep with light's off eversince.. Light really disturb s me from sleeping.. it really goes beyond my eyelids and it forces me to wake up.. But know what, sometimes..i sleep with light's on...(^_^).. because i feel scared...

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optimisticgrl23 I can not stand to sleep with any kind of light. When I was younger it was not that much of a problem but now my eyes are so sensitive to light that I had to invest in an eye mask to wear at night. It cuts out all light and I sleep much better. The only time...

19 Jun 08

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do you get along better with people who are older than you,or younger?

zhoushuzhen @zhoushuzhen (284) • China 18 Jun 08

i think it depends on the person's mental age.but usual younger people tend to be drawn to me and my attention and company,for whatever reason.older people like that i'm outspoken and will say what's on my mind in tune to a...

friend

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optimisticgrl23 I am a nineteen year old, soon to be twenty, who has been told on more than one occasion that I am very mature for my age. Some how I was never into the high school drama and was always more interested in real world topics. I do not consider myself a genius...

19 Jun 08

What a afternoon I had today

Shaunee @Shaun72 (15959) • Palatka, Florida 19 Jun 08

My electricity went out right at 1 pm. It was thundering and lighting pretty heard. I unplugged my computer and my tv and I was hoping the lights would come on. I read a book from 1 pm untill 5 pm. Luckily I could see in here...

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optimisticgrl23 You definitely have the right attitude about the unfortunate circumstances. You should be thankful that you and your home were unharmed. On the bright side, you got to have some relaxing and peaceful quite time enjoying a good book.

19 Jun 08

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Do you go for fashion or comfortability?

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 13 Jun 08

when ever i go out to shop i would always look for stuff that are fashionable and at the same time comfy. especially in buying a pair of shoes and tops. it a no no for me getting out of the house and uncomfortable with what i am...

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optimisticgrl23 For me I guess it depends on the occasion. If I am just going out to run errands or go out with my friends than I always choose comfort but if I am attending a big party or event than fashion will always trump comfort because I want to look my best.

19 Jun 08

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The Other Women!!!

pixiedustforyou2008 @pixiedustforyou2008 (2422) • United States 18 Jun 08

Well I been dating this guy for 5 months and than we got married.. Well the first two months i was dating he ended up calling this girl baby well asked him about and he said that his phone mistakenly out there... HOW THE HELL DOES...

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optimisticgrl23 You definitely need to talk to him about it. If there are problems between you two now, it needs to be resolved so that they do not get worse as time goes on. He needs to know that you are upset by it and how he handles the situation will be a great way of...

18 Jun 08

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overused wordsss

resiliency @resiliency (17) • Philippines 18 Jun 08

what are the most overused word/s among your age group? how do you feel when you hear this word again and again.?

overuse

overused word

word

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optimisticgrl23 I agree with like but another word that gets me is awesome. That word actually used to mean that something was pretty spectacular and amazing but now that it is used to describe everything, it has lost the meaning that it once possessed.

18 Jun 08

How do I save even more?

AxranraRose82 @AxranraRose82 (1120) • United States 18 Jun 08

I don't like to spend a lot of money. Scratch that. I LOVE to spend money. I just have this nagging voice in my head that politely yet annoyingly knocks when I think about spending and asks me if I REALLY need whatever it is that...

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optimisticgrl23 If you have things laying around the house that you do not use, like an extra relationship book, look into selling it on Craigslist.org. You might not get top dollar for your stuff but some money is more than what you are getting by keeping it in your house....

18 Jun 08

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