paulybg

@paulybg (126)

China • Age 45

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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help me

achiecuy @achiecuy (2) 9 Oct 10

if we are in distress to whom should we turn for help,no strings attached. wheter friends,lovers or relatives ?

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paulybg I would like turn to my best friends. For they know me much bettet than anyone else and are always good listener.

10 Oct 10

How can a person not be selfish?

Gorillafootprints925 @Gorillafootprints925 (3586) • United States 8 Oct 10

Is there a way to not be selfish? Are you not selfish? Explain yourself. I'm selfish. I do things for myself, and even for others because I feel good doing them. I feel good doing them. I feel good doing them. You see, I used...

self

selfish

selfishness

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paulybg I think everyone in the world are selfish, or they would not be able to live in the earth. If not, people would not after for some bright future, and world would not be as bright as now.

8 Oct 10

what is the most money you have made on here?????????? be honest

computergeek @computergeek (79) • United States 8 Oct 10

i was just wondering.

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paulybg I join this website about three months ago and I do not think this website would really bring you much money, but it may be helpful for improving my English.

8 Oct 10

Killing Your Own Baby

Toni @toniganzon (72539) • Philippines 8 Oct 10

A few weeks ago news broke out that a pregnant woman traveling from Qatar gave birth in the lavatory of the airplane without anybody knowing it. She left the baby in the trashbin and just simply left without anybody noticing a...

life

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paulybg I could not understand how a mother could do such kind of thing to her own child. Even if she do not want the baby and the baby still have the right to live, she still has many other ways to leave the baby instead of killing it. I have a baby who is just...

8 Oct 10

Gender Equality? --or Gender Inequality? Are Male and Female Equal?

Secret @IntrovertShy (2780) • Marikina, Philippines 8 Oct 10

Are male and female equal? --in terms of s_x, work, salary pay and so on. What is the role of each female in our human society? Though some people say that male and female are equal, there are some people who discriminate female...

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paulybg I think they are equal and they are just specilised at different areas. Since the area they good at are different, they should never be same with each other, but they are equal.

8 Oct 10

What will you do when you're lovelorn?

yeyelee @yeyelee (370) • China 8 Oct 10

Being lovelorn is painful and it's so afflictive to overcome the bad mood,you may lose confidence about life and do something dangerous.I have deep feelings about such a thing now.I choose to talk with my friends,and they could...

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paulybg Yeah, it is very painable. I remembered when I was lovelorn during the university, I find my best friends and come out to have a lot of drink. I get very drunk that day. Anyway, you need always believe that you would have a bright future. Tomorrow is another...

8 Oct 10

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who is your closest person in your family?

hushi22 @hushi22 (4927) 8 Oct 10

i say my mom is my closest person in my family because she's the best person to talk to with plans, relationships, and everything. she knows where to stand and she has always good advices. =)

family

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paulybg I also think my mum is my closest person in the family. She is always a good lister and very supportive to me.

8 Oct 10

in what age is a boy should be walking or standing?

swordfish2010 @swordfish2010 (109) • Indonesia 17 Sep 10

I have a 10 month old son that just only able to stand about 2 second and somehow he sit again... do you think in what age that a boy can do walking and standing perfectly...

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paulybg my son start walking when he is about 12 months old. When he was 10 months old, he would always take your hand with one of his hand and walk here and there to practice. I think you do not need to worry about that, he would be able to walk by himself in a...

8 Oct 10

Do You Like To Personally Wrap Your Gifts?

emgee595 @emgee595 (334) • Philippines 8 Oct 10

Christmas, the season of sharing, loving and gift-giving, is just around the corner. Anytime soon we will be busy shopping for gifts for our loved ones, friends and family. There are those who had fun and derive happiness while...

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paulybg I also would like to wrap the gift personally. I think that means we send the gift very serious and that also makes the gift special.

8 Oct 10

who will you pick??

regicidetrese @regicidetrese (62) • Philippines 8 Oct 10

if your a girl who will you choose, a good looking guy without a job Or a guy who's not so good-looking but has a very stable job??

career

love

pick one

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paulybg I think it is much better for you to get along with both before you make the final decision. Do not have a job now could not mean he would never have a good job, maybe his ability is very good and would not like to have a job at present. And more important,...

8 Oct 10

Is it possible to love more than one?

zionsphere @zionsphere (673) • United States 8 Oct 10

I think it is possible. But I think it also depends on what kind of love you are talking about. I think when it comes to love for our friends and families it is very normal to love more than one person. As far as romantic love...

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paulybg I think you may love more than one, but you would always have only one guy you love most. Just sometimes we could not realise who is the one we love most. Just my opinion.

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do you believe in ghosts?

KiblyKat @KiblyKat (187) • Singapore 7 Oct 10

many of my relatives have encounters and have seen or heard ghosts. it freaks me out as we are neighbours and he has many stories to share. The way he tells it to people does not seem like he is joking, with a serious look on his...

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paulybg I do not believe in ghost. I think the so called ghost are some coincidence happened in our life, and these coincidence are quite unbelieveable, and we could not explain them so just make up some ghost story. Some other ghost stories are maybe make up by...

7 Oct 10

An I D E A - can change your life....

busybee10 @busybee10 (3186) • India 7 Oct 10

Life is such a wonderful one that we get so many ideas. Some are useless and some are useful. [b]Any idea has given you a change in life.. Please share it....[/b] Share your thoughts....

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paulybg I get one sentence in a movie named Jurassic Park, the sentence is "Life will find a way". This is very helpful for me. Whenever I come across some difficuties, I would think about this sentence and try my best to find a solution.

7 Oct 10

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are ever thought about suicide?

iamkoz0074u @iamkoz0074u (124) • India 3 Oct 10

hello friends before some days one of my neighbor committed suicide because of love failure. i dont know why people doing like this? i am really shocked about this news because he was very young an wealthy but he is gone...they...

life

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paulybg I also could not understand such person who commit sucide due to love failure. They should continue to find some other one they love and more important, they still have other responsibility need to take in their life. I think maybe they are too depressed...

7 Oct 10

will you look down on people who tried to kill themselves?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

A topic was being discussed over lunch today with my officemates, and well We have discussed about a certain local celebrity who has slashed her wrist because she was deeply hurt or depressed over a breakup... A guy officemate...

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paulybg I would not look down upon them, but I am always puzzled why they would choose that way. I think they should have some other way to improve their situation. In fact, I am also in great crisis, but I still try my best to face them, though i have not find any...

7 Oct 10

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Prefer to be a listener or a speaker?

sauravshrm @sauravshrm (239) • India 6 Sep 10

Hi friends, can someone tell me that they Prefer to be a listener or a speaker? I prefer to be speaker what about you.

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paulybg I prefer to be a listener. That only because I am not as talktive enough.

6 Sep 10

What is the IDEAL number of KIDS for you?

incus99 @incus99 (1083) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

I know that the government and the church is actively campaigning to reduce population explosion.. In our country, the Philippines, the average Filipino family has 6 members, meaning there is an average of 4 kid per family... For...

family

ideal number

kids

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paulybg I hope I would have one son and one daughter. Only one child is too lonely for the child. But if have too many child the living quality would be much worse.

27 Aug 10

family!

ynahh1 @ynahh1 (454) 27 Aug 10

How far can you go for your family?How much sacrifice can you make to save your family relationship?I have been witness how to collapse my own family,i realize how hard to raise a kid without his father.No matter how you did its...

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paulybg I have the same feeling that no matter how hard I have done, I still could not fully fulfill the responsibility I need to take for the family. In order to raise my son in the city, i need to work hard and may need to have some long business trip. And more...

27 Aug 10

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who is better friends dogs or cat

pkushwaha @pkushwaha (223) • India 26 Aug 10

I have a dogi its name is goldi , i love him too much & care , he feel to secure but i think who is better dog or cat both is animal why some person is like to dog than the cat , i think dog is very senceicer very claver.plaese...

animal

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secure

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paulybg There is no doubt that dog is a much better friend than cat. For dog would always be loyal to you, while cat may leave you for many reasons, like delicious food, comfortable place to live, etc.

27 Aug 10

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