phjal2808

@phjal2808 (29)

Philippines • Age 44

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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How do you feel when others trust you with their passwords?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 6 Dec 07

Honored? Flattered? Fearful? What? I don't know. You tell me. :P Recently, I have a dear friend at myLot who trusted me with her password. In a way, I feel good because she trusts me enough not to abuse her trust. In the...

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phjal2808 My boyfriend trust me with his password. I feel honored and confident knowing that he trust me with his parsonal info. He let me check his emails, do some transaction online in behalf of him. But I don't abused it. I make sure that he has an idea as to when I...

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Did you know how we celebrate Christmas?

beauty_ph @beauty_ph (2749) • Philippines 6 Dec 07

A celebration which starts at midnight of Dec15 or dawn of Dec16 with the so called SIMBANG GABI or MISA DE GALLO. In English: Evening mass or Rooster's mass(dawn masses). This is a tradition practiced in the Philippines. Most...

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phjal2808 I agree with you. This is how we Filipinos celebrate Christmas. Don't forget that families take this time to gather and have their reunion. You can really feel the sprit of Christmas when you visit our country. To all the Filipinos all over the world, I hope...

6 Dec 07

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What are the top 5 things on your wish to have Christmas List?

milfea @milfea (519) • Philippines 5 Dec 07

This Christmas, there is one big thing I want to have, and that is to secure all the reagents that I need to finish my research methodology so I can start working on my manuscript. And the other 4 are the following: 1. Girly...

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phjal2808 1. good health for my family 2. a phone call from my boyfriend who is not spending Christmas in our place. 3. a nice pair of sandals. 4. victoria's secret. 5. to be able to buy the materials for my craft project

6 Dec 07

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I need advice. My daughter doesn't do her school work.

shrtncute @shrtncute (6) • United States 6 Dec 07

I just got a call from my daughters teacher today and she told me that my daughter does not finish her work in school. When she is sopposed to be working she is daydreaming. So she sends the work home and it it added to the hour...

mother

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phjal2808 She wants to draw your attention. Try spending time with her doing her homework. Make the atmosphere during the session light. Don't scold her if he didn't get it the first time around. Try motivating her by some reward after a good work. Aside from that is...

6 Dec 07

What do you think about marriage?

mirrorzy @mirrorzy (71) • China 29 Nov 07

Nowadays relationships are so weak to break down, and the divorce rate is quite high. Do you still think marriage is a faithful choice, or do you prefer to live with the loved one without marriage, especially for dinkers? For me,...

dink

marriage

relationship

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phjal2808 I still view marriage as a sacred union of two souls. I still want to get married someday. I still believe there are still a few men out there who are willing to settle down with one woman whom they will share their life with and give their unconditional love...

5 Dec 07

Late talking children

StereoDiva @StereoDiva (2143) • Canada 24 Nov 07

I'm a mom of a two young boys. One of them is almost 2.5 and has only two true words. Mom and Dad. I'm just wondering if there are any other parents on here who struggle to help their children with a language delay.

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phjal2808 My niece was also a late talker. Try getting help from a speech pathologist or speech therapist, if you are sure that your boys have no hearing defect. hope it helps.

30 Nov 07

What are your top 3 break-up rules?

MarieJ23 @MarieJ23 (1040) • United States 13 Oct 07

Do you have any break-up rule? Can you share to us here the top 3 in your list? Ok...here are the top 3 in my list. 1. Never, ever call him first. 2. Go to a spa or salon and pampered yourself. 3. Cry if you need to,...

past

relationship

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phjal2808 1. Cry, cry and cry. You have the right to because you are in pain. But make sure that after you wallow in pain, you pick up your self from the ground and start anew. 2. Remove anything that could remind you of him,in your room in your house, in your office...

28 Nov 07

Does graduation mean end with education?

purple99 @purple99 (165) • China 14 Aug 07

When it comes to education,the majority of people believe that education is a lifetime study.An increasing number of people are beginning to realize that education is not complete with graduation.What do you think about it?

education

graduation

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phjal2808 Our stay in this world is a lifelong cycle of learning. We doesn't stop learning when we received our diploma. In fact the more we should achieve discovering new things. We can learn in our new job itself. It's where you put theories in applications. Or if you...

28 Nov 07

Do you like spending money on yourself?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 27 Nov 07

Sometimes I feel very guilty even spending one dollar on myself. I don't know when I last had my hair dye done or a nice hair trim. And, forget about a manicure or pedicure. Sometimes I feel guilty just buying nail polish, as if...

spend money on yourself

treat yourself to

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phjal2808 Before my father died my responsibilities at home was not that big deal. But after he passed away, I took over as the breadwinner. I hardly recall when was the last time I bought something for myself, be it a pair of jeans or a blouse, anything... I even...

27 Nov 07

Keeping the Maiden Name in Marriage?

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 13 Nov 07

I am aware that it has become popular over the last several decades for the woman to retain her maiden name upon marrying. Before you start calling me a dinosaur, I would just like to say that in the era I grew up in we looked...

keeping the maiden name in marriage

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phjal2808 Under civil law, it's mandatory for a married woman to take on their husband's surnames. She has 3 options: 1. her first name & her husbands surname 2. her 1st name & maiden surname hyphenated with her husband's surname or 3. her husband's first name &...

26 Nov 07

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How can I escape from my wife?

sheenshaukat @sheenshaukat (2617) • Pakistan 16 Nov 07

She is looking to me with strange eyes. I am working on my computer. What is she thinking. I don’t know. She wants to talk with me. But I could not be hunted as I am online and could not give her a little time. She is looking like...

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phjal2808 Maybe all she wanted was to get your attention, to take your eyes away from your computer and focus on some important matters like your wife and your relationship. Sometimes when the people we have in our life is always by our side, we have the tendency to...

23 Nov 07

What is your favorite movie quote?

armywifey @armywifey (882) • United States 22 Dec 06

I have a few... "You know I was sitting here contemplating....eating my muffin.....and i had what an alcoholic calls....a moment of clarity" Samuel Jackson, pulp fiction "If I'm not back in 5 minutes....wait longer" Ace...

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phjal2808 "Life is like a box of chocolate. You never know what you gonna get." - Forest Gump another one from Evan Almighty: "How do you change the world? One Act of Random Kindness at a time" from Spiderman: "With great powers comes great responsibilities"

23 Nov 07

Are you going to mail or call someone ever who once have hurt you so much?

subha12 @subha12 (18440) • India 23 Nov 07

Lets there was someone once very good friend to you. there is some misunderstanding and that person hurts you very much. then both of you has a bad fight and u decide to never be in toich in life. You start hating that person. As...

call

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phjal2808 I am a firm believer that time heals all wounds. If both of you are ready to face each other, God will find a way for your paths to cross. Just be open to give forgiveness to that person who was once you treat as friends when that time comes.

23 Nov 07

What is that one thing inside your bag u believe u never do without everyday??

singlemommyforever @singlemommyforever (97) • Philippines 12 Nov 07

Hi friends...just want to know what is that one thing or a product that you think you can never do without in everyday?? For me Lotion...ahh... how about you?

girl

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phjal2808 there are three things that must be in my bag no matter what. 1. lip balm, 2. face powder (either loose or compact) 3. oil blotting film. "oiliness is next to ugliness.(lol)

23 Nov 07

is it painful to be single?

Moliliuzu @Moliliuzu (140) • China 23 Nov 07

I am 22years old.I am single.These days,some guys took pity on me just because I do not have a boyfriend!I wonder,is love neccessary in one's youth life?I think finding the lover is not the most important things I should do now.I...

painful

single

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phjal2808 It's hard to stay single in this world especially when people expect you to be with somebody special like a boyfriend. You are still young so just enjoy single hood. It's not about having no choice. It's about making intelligent choices. But keep your heart...

23 Nov 07

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Superstious

nkhanna @nkhanna (922) • India 23 Nov 07

hi everyone. one of my neighbour is very supersitious.once while she was going to hospital to meet her brother,she saw a cat crossing the road,whixch is considered to be a bad omen if you cross the road.She tried to stop the car...

life

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phjal2808 Up to this day, we Filipinos still cling to the numerous supertitions that we have. Even if it sound ridiculous and have no scientific basis. Maybe because of the attitude "there's-nothing-to-lose-if-we-comply". Some of the superstitions that I know relates to...

23 Nov 07

Diet Pills..

singlemommyforever @singlemommyforever (97) • Philippines 9 Nov 07

im weighing 70kilos..and i want to be thin ..any suggestions???

diet pills

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phjal2808 i've tried Zen de Shou. It's proven to be effective on the first week of taking the capsules.

23 Nov 07