polilablowe

@polilablowe (21)

Singapore • Age 43

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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How can I tell him?

Madona1 @Madona1 (2096) • Gibraltar 15 Apr 12

Two months ago, one of my new colleagues asked me if I was single or married. I lied to him that I was married (indeed I have separated for 6 months.). The reason was simple as I was not ready to publish my separation yet....

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polilablowe You should tell him the truth if you are interested in furthering the relationship with him. That would be the foundation of your relationship if he still feels the same way as 2mos ago. You should also be ready to accept it if he has moved on and dated other...

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Extreme Couponing--Not a possibility here in the Philippines

anne25penn @anne25penn (3305) • Philippines 15 Apr 12

I was watching this show on TLC last night about people in the US who spend almost nothing when they buy their groceries. They use discount coupons that they clip or cut from magazines or even box tops. Some would even order these...

couponing

discounts

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polilablowe Yes, you are right. It is a bit sad when you think about it. It all depends on the environment that you live in. In the States, they can use coupons as they do get their groceries on supermarkets and groceries. Unlike in the Philippines, where we more often...

16 Apr 12

favorite games

krizzy @krizzy (237) • Philippines 15 Apr 12

I love video games since I was a kid..my older brother influenced me..they say that video games can make you stupid like you will lose your interest in studying, but I guess it depends on how you discipline yourself..games...

ps2

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polilablowe Im not really a fan of video games growing up. Im more on the active play outdoor type of games.

16 Apr 12

Why some people rather ask for money, instead of try to earn their own?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 7 Apr 12

Seriously, I saw it and being asked for money many times whenever I was in these gas stations, or at downtown areas shopping with my friends. On other day, my co - workers and I walk this oriental restaurant, a lady brings her...

earning

money

work

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polilablowe When I am approached by people asking for money, i try to check the situation. If I can see that they could still be capable of doing work to earn money i do not give in. I usually give food if they say they are hungry. But not money as I do not know where...

7 Apr 12

...finally! Trip is over and I won't deal with these people any longer.

jeanneyvonne @jeanneyvonne (5500) • Philippines 7 Apr 12

I am now in a trip with my family in another country (Japan). The trip involved also the collegues of my father and some of their fmailies who opted to join. I was really excited since I was very interested in Japnese culture, its...

disucssion

opinion

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polilablowe I think, instead of focusing on them on the duration of the trip, you can try to focus more on your interest on the Japanese culture. They may just be excited on the trip as well and in turn they cannot help but look like they are goofing around.

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giving back and getting back is that true?

gracepadirog @gracepadirog (201) • Philippines 7 Apr 12

hi mylot readers, giving back and getting back is true?for me yes, giving your spare time, your talents, your spare goods to those who are lest fortunate without counting the cost is very nice and good,because if you do these...

best response

giving

help others

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polilablowe I agree with you. What you will give, you will definitely get back. What you sow is what you will be reaping. So I always try to put myself on the other shoes so that I can feel exactly what they will be feeling when I do something to them or something like...

7 Apr 12

Need some ideas

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 5 Apr 12

This week is spring break and the kids are getting bored. We still have three days left. Of course, Sunday is going to be Easter so we will be hunting Easter eggs and spending some time with my mother and sister. However, in the...

activities

kids

spring break

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polilablowe There are a lot of bonding activities that do not cost that much. If you live near the beach, you can just go there and bring food like a picnic. You can also visit museums and other historical places in your place.

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I love holidays!

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 4 Apr 12

This week is the Holy Week and tomorrow is Maundy Thursday. As a Catholic country, we will be remembering the sacrifice and rising of Christ that's why we'll have no work tomorrow and on Friday. We will also be going home early...

holidays

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polilablowe Good for you. I also loved holidays but working on an environment where you are sorrounded by different people with different culture and beliefs, i do not get to enjoy holidays that much.

4 Apr 12

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Do you work overtime even without pay?

Harold_ks @Harold_ks (1673) 3 Apr 12

Do you extend beyond your official working hours to finish your work even without overtime pay? Me I often do that since my work demands me extra time to finish tasks and other stuffs related to it. I don't mind giving my extra...

overtime without pay

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polilablowe I do not go on overtime without pay. I believe that as an employee, if my work requires me to go on overtime, i will. As an employer, my employer should compensate me for what i have worked for.

4 Apr 12

Cup cake decorating, so much fun.

joystick @joystick (1675) 3 Apr 12

I was at a friends the other night and she was decorating a few buns/ cup cakes, I had so much fun.I had never used a pipe bag before and I will say it is not as easy as it looked.I said to my friend oh you have been busy cooking...

buns

cup cakes

pipe bag

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polilablowe This is one of my frustration. First is to be able to bake a cake or cupcake. Then decorate it afterwards. I feel that it would be fun. Hopefully, i can get to do that in the future.

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Holy Week what does it mean?

gracepadirog @gracepadirog (201) • Philippines 3 Apr 12

hi mylot readers,Holy Week what does it mean,for me base on my knowledge and understanding, this is the time to remember the passion of Jesus Christ,his suffering from scourging and crucifixion on the cross to free us from...

lenten season

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polilablowe Holy weeks is a time to reflect for me and my family. We usually go on a pilgrimage and do lots of reflecting activities. We visit 14churches on Holy Thursday and Wake up early on easter sunday. We also do not eat pork and beef for our fasting.

4 Apr 12

We should have had a wedding....

celticeagle @celticeagle (186886) • Boise, Idaho 3 Apr 12

My ex husband came to talk to me several months after I had left him due to his drug use. He looked horrible. I think he had been up for days. I had missed him and we went for a drive and talked. He told me during the conversation...

drug use

wedding

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polilablowe I think getting a real wedding is every girls dream. Its mine too. My husband and me are only married by civil ceremony. We planned to get married on a church last year on our 5th year weedding anniversary but we just had a baby a few months before that so the...

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live-in or marriage first?

girlthing62989 @girlthing62989 (103) • Philippines 3 Apr 12

Hey people, which do you prefer, living together before marriage or marriage before living together? As for me, I prefer to live with my boyfriend before marriage because in this way, we could get to know each other more better....

love

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polilablowe I would love to get married first before living in together. At least that was what I had hoped to happen. But the circumstances on which my husband and me were in did not allow that to happen. So we had to live on the same roof for about 6mos first before we...

3 Apr 12

Do you go to cinema and watch movie alone?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 1 Apr 12

Do you go to cinema and watch movie alone? Its been like two years now since I last watch movie in cinema and its because I have a gf to accompany me. Now that I'm free for two years I don't watch movie in cinema anymore. I feel...

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polilablowe No i dont. Even when i am single, i do not go to the cinemas alone. It saddens me to go inside on my own. I usually go out with friends. I can go to the mall alone though.

2 Apr 12

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Carrying cash....

maezee @maezee (41985) • United States 1 Apr 12

How many of you carry cash on a regular basis? I never do, and that's why I guess I'm starting this discussion... I went to the casino with my friend on Friday night - had a blast - I brought $100 to spend on gambling (I know,...

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polilablowe i only carry cash enough for my meal for the day at work. same thing during weekends. i think its scary to carry more cash and you tend to buy more stuff that you could not remember where you spend where.

2 Apr 12

Should children under 18 be allowed to join and use Facebook?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94909) • United States 1 Apr 12

The age limit to use Facebook is only 13, did you know that? I find that the age limit is so young. I think the age limit should be raised to at least 16 years old even though if it's raised up I am sure many will still open an...

age limit

facebook

website

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polilablowe As you have pointed out, one can lie about their age and still manage to open up a facebook account if they want to. I think it would be best if parents open facebooks accounts of their children and explain to them the pros and cons of using social networking...

2 Apr 12

will you survive as a call center agent?

arianne_mae_2012 @arianne_mae_2012 (243) 1 Apr 12

hi mylotters! Nowadays, call center jobs are more indemand in working industry now, but somehow there are some choosen people who has the capability to stay long at that type of work, because of its graveyard shift, which means...

call center

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polilablowe I think it all depends on how you cope up. If you can easily adjust to the lifesyle needed for you to work on a call center, then you can easily managed and work on it for years.

2 Apr 12

How does a girl feel when she visits her boyfriend's family?

cheneper @cheneper (131) • Thailand 1 Apr 12

I feel so awkward whenever i go to my boyfriend's place. I don't feel comfortable; I feel shy to face his family every time i go for visit. We've been together for ten months but still uncomfortable. They are kind to me but they...

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polilablowe it is ok to feel uncomforable at first. you just started the relationship. some even took years before they feel at home with their partners families. unless you have been friends before you got together, you will need to do some effort to get to know them and...

2 Apr 12

Men stare at other girls even while with girlfriends.

cheneper @cheneper (131) • Thailand 31 Mar 12

Is it normal for men to look at other pretty girls even if they are with their girlfriends? is it not a cheat? Every time my boyfriend and I go out, and if we see a gorgeous lady, i check his eyes if he would look and follow by...

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polilablowe I asked my husband the same thing before and here is what he told me. He said that he has eyes to see. He would not be able to look especially when we are walking on opposite directions. He said that, i should get mad when he looked again on the girl or follow...

31 Mar 12

Who snores? How do you stop snoring?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94909) • United States 31 Mar 12

My boyfriend is a huge snorer- it actually runs in his family and he just snores all the time when he sleeps and he knows it too. He's shy to sleep in public like when he travels cause he knows he will snore SO loud it would...

snore

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polilablowe My husband snores too. At first, i had a hard time sleeping. But when i read about it, it helps when you let them sleep on their side rather that sleep on the normal position. Sleeping on their side helps their breathing. Hope this helps.

31 Mar 12

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