My Next Door Neighbor ...

That is a tough situation to be in so I would just say take caution whatever you decide to do. Do you know his girlfriend well or talk to her? Maybe you should talk to her.

are you friends with his girlfriend? if so tell her.

Bust his chops everytime he opens his mouth. He likes to use the Bible so turn it around on him and point out the things that he is doing wrong.

nothing you can do abuot ppl like that because they think they are rightous and it will only cause probs the only eye opener you can offer "indirectley" is tell on him cheaters will always fail in life

Hey my niegbor does not like when I honk my horn at my kids

That's a tough one. I know what I would do lol. I believe in God, have my own beliefs, and hate having that stuff crammed down my throat. Where I live, everyone's conversation turns into the same thing you described, trip to the grocery store, whatever. A trip to the garbage drop off yielded me the info that (this guys opinion now NOT mine) a certain race of people are caused by an incestuous relationship between Eve and one of her sons, or something like that. It's really pathetic. I usually just walk off from them now, don't even bother with the courteous uh huh uh huhs. Now if I had that happening everyday to me, and I knew for a fact the person was being a hypocrite, I'd call them on it. I'd throw it right back in their face and question them what God thinks of their behavior. But, the only problem, this guy may not be wrapped to tight, so you'll want to be careful about it. He sounds like he knows what he's doing is wrong, but is finding his scriptures and what not to twist into his own meanings to justify his behavior. Might be better off just avoiding him, don't want him to have a meltdown lol. 2 arguments you will never win with someone, Religion & Politics.

does his gf know about all that he actually does? if not i would say u better inform her about whats happening around her and that the guy is tricking her. do this only if ur close enough to the lady..if not its better to avoid this guy..

I would call him out on it and ask him why he does it, does he have touretts or something?

If I was in that situation and his girlfriend was a friend of mine then I would tell her.Far as him I would say something to him as to why is he being a hypocrite? If you want to say something to his girlfriend thats really up to you, some people get offended.If it was me I would talk to him.

Always laugh jestingly whenever he quotes!!! That should tell him something...

I would have to say that reacting to this - would depend on how well you know them and/or are you close to them enough to feel comfortable to talk to either of them!!!! Sounds like he may have a much deeper issue within himself to be doing what he's doing in such a strange manner!!! I would definitely exercise caution with this situation!!!!

I guess you could try ignoring him? Maybe he thinks by doing that he will save himself? Doesn't sound like he should be preaching to anyone but himself!

From reading your posts I can see that you spoke with the girlfriend and she listened. I surmise that she already had some doubts,so she did not get defensive with you. His Bible thumping and quoting is only camouflage for who he really is. If I am not mistaken Jesus said that even the devil can quote scripture for his own purposes. Unfortunately, your neighbor only helps make a strong argument for all of the people who say that the church or the belief is full of hypocrites. Of course it is better to be in a church with the hypocrites than in Hell with them. I would like to know how he justified living with his girlfriend if he is so well versed Biblically, as that is called fornication. He gives other spiritual people a bad name.

if u realize she is does not walk on the talk its a message for u that how bad does other feel when when told someone to act like that and u not

I know people like that, but quite frankly, it's none of my busines. What they do before their God is between them and their God. I'm only responsible for my own personal actions - not theirs. So, if it were me, I would keep my judgements and opinions to myself and let him live his own life however he wants to. Maybe you'll see him in heaven on day or maybe you won't. Ha!

I absolutely have no patience for hypocricy. I would quote one of the ten commandments any time he says something to me--Thou shall not covet thy neighbors house, thou shall not covet they neighbors wife----you get my drift. And then tell say-May God bless you. Enough times of hearing that, he'll get the picture. Good luck!!

When he starts quoting scripture to you, tell him he should practice what he preaches.

I guess I would just smile and walk by...

if u know the gf, u should tell her everything. if you dont, the next time he tries to quote you from the bible, tell him off (by asking him outright about the cheating around stuff, ask him what the bible quote on adultery!) i believe he will get the message loud and clear!

It would all depend on your comfort level. How well do you know the guy?? If he talks to you about the Bible, scripture and all that, and you KNOW that he is doing these things, then why not bring that up? I'm not sure HOW exactly would be the best way to go about it...but, if you know him well enough, I would say something about living life as an example. He is not being a good example of what he supposedly believes. That, in and of itself, is not a good show of what someone who believes in and professes the Bible. Something is just not right with that picture.