As I don’t see any interesting discussion to respond at present and not in a

By Bala
@balasri (26549)
India
December 17, 2009 1:07am CST
mood to create a new one either I just started to give the BR to the unresolved responses. To my surprise I found out that I have been very lazy that a few responses of even twelve months old were waiting there to be resolved. As I was giving the Best responses to some of the really best ones I could see that those friends are no more here in Mylot. They are very smart and witty and those discussions are quite interesting and intelligent to the core. I start resolving their discussions giving the BR to the best ones knowing that they may not be seeing them. But I feel like doing it as a tribute to the wonderful time we had together. If they are here in MYlot again in some other name I would like to get a hint of their new identities.
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@zandi458 (27948)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 09
Many are no longer active here. There is no problem in awarding them the br as they might reappear here one day.
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@kalav56 (11497)
• India
17 Dec 09
It is a long time since I responded to any of your discussions too Zandi.Of course I was also not logging in for quite some time.But even otherwise I have not sighted too many of your topics.Or did I miss them?How are you?
@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
Yes.I don't see any problem in respecting them whether they are in or out.
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
17 Dec 09
In case you miss me, I am very much here and have been hopefully recovering my inundation. And to let you know, also that I do not mind BRs either. So, think before you do. Seriously, I think this is a beautiful post which we can mark as a tribute to our old friends who do not come here anymore. Some have come with different user names of which we know and also do not know. I remember about our friends Ressie, Roz who came under different names but for brief period. And I miss Theresa, Vik, Worthy, Ronald, Chris, Lordwarwizard, charms, Tammy, Nakshatra, Aidonia, Liran to name a few. I wish everyone and also the ones whom I am forgetting here, very good life. Now, I am getting emotional. I better get back to resolve mine.
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@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
This is an emotional discussion meant to be a tribute to my great friends especially Transdisc,dfn and Goodie. I love you for understanding the undertone of my discussion Mimpi. PS.I will never miss you.
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
17 Dec 09
I haven't seen Transdisc for a while now. I just hope he is fine. That reminds me one of my good friends here, has been very enough to share her email Id with her close friends just in case she can't log in and we cannot keep in touch! I really appreciate her. That goes to show the true essence of mylot.
@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
You do not mind but always deserve the BRs for the wonderful responses like this.
@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
It is kinda sad to look back at old discussions and responses only to find out that the people who contributed much to the discussion have moved on from myLotting. Others just have ultimately forgotten about this place. Others have been quite busy with their real lives that they dont have time for myLotting anymore. There are also those who just have given up myLotting altogether because of some reason or other. Ive been feeling kinda lazy doing any online things. Just the task of opening my computer is a bit of a struggle. That's because Im kinda seeing work when I see my computer. I have lots of paper work to finish before the start of the holiday break, and the procrastinator in me is flashing signals not to open the computer. Well, I cant really keep out of the internet cause there are lots of reasons to pop in. Im just skirting around the work programs like Microsoft Word and Excel.LOL Goodluck in finding old myLot friends.^_^
@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
I appreciate that and I need your wishes very badly in finding my old pals here.
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@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
Ill keep that in mind for my Christmas wishes.
@kalav56 (11497)
• India
17 Dec 09
Though this discussion is primarily for people with changed user names I am just responding to this.Wish you luck to get back the old friends!
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@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
It is my great friends like you and Mimpi only make me forget what I have missed here.Thanks for that.
@kalav56 (11497)
• India
17 Dec 09
I am also very thankful for the friends I have got from this forum.We should all say "three cheers to mylot.com Hipip hurray!"to mylot.
@littleowl (7157)
19 Dec 09
Hi Bala, that is so nice of you to do that, as you say it is a tribute to them if they have left but a gesture thst is they are not forgotten either it is lovel. As for me I am still the same old LoLo and love to answer your discussions anyway, hugs
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@balasri (26549)
• India
19 Dec 09
Thanks a lot my Little Owl.You are always one of my sweet little darlings here.Hugs.
@kiran8 (15323)
• Mangalore, India
18 Dec 09
Hi balasri, Me very much here LOL - I too do that occassionally , to go through old discussions, not necessarily started by me alone. I find some very interesting discussions and answer them, and find that even others answering them, giving them a new lease of life ....All the best and have a great day
@balasri (26549)
• India
18 Dec 09
Hi Kiran.Thanks for dropping in.Great day to your too.
• India
18 Dec 09
Oh yes, though I was not very good friends with any of the people who are missing here but I know what you mean. Its been four years for me too and I remember the days when most pages of mylot was full of good meaningful informative discussions. it was such a pleasure to interchange our views with them and enrich ourselves in the process AND if I may say, there was a lot less acrimonious discussions and trolls here! But I believe that everything moves on and so does mylot and new members have joined with some very good ones.
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@balasri (26549)
• India
18 Dec 09
Thanks for understanding what I have said.I miss a lot of great mylotters here.
@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
18 Dec 09
BR giving is a great pasttime for those who need to find something to do while other parts of the sites aren't working, or just when we run out of things to discuss, respond or comment on. I also noticed quite a bit of people are MIA. I remember the username of the first one I've heard of just leaving...
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@balasri (26549)
• India
18 Dec 09
Thanks a lot for the wonderful response.I am able to learn a thing or two from this.
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@Hatley (164232)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Dec 09
hi balasri I know that feeling as I had to do some of mine that were a year old and gave best responses not really knowing if they were still here, but I hoped they were and maybe under a new name too. But I see so many people now saying that they do not see any interesting discussions and it amazes me as I can browse and always find something I like, so maybe you all do not read the whole discussion and just dismiss it after a few sentences. I mean we exist in a new fast food , fast everything mind set. also as I look at my discussions I again wonder are mine and others like me that uninteresting that so many say they cannot find any interesting discussions.I have seen this now by so many people for a whole month. does not any one ever browse to find discussions that appeal to you? I know I do.
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@balasri (26549)
• India
18 Dec 09
Well it is not every time that I do not find any interesting discussion.May be I have not tried hard to scour for them.But one cannot deny that there is a ebbs and flows of good discussions here.And moreover what is god for one person may not be attractive to another one.So it is a matter of opinion.And thanks for the wonderful response.I appreciate it very much.
@dawnald (84075)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 09
I've been lazy too. I promised myself that every time I started a new discussion, I'd go and resolve an old one, but I havent' exactly stuck to that. PS I don't give BRs to people I know are gone. I'd rather give them to somebody who is still here.
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@balasri (26549)
• India
18 Dec 09
Yes I can understand.We have been very busy with the other activities of Mylot that the unresolved discussions keep piling up. Allotting a little time for resolving the discussions whenever we enter the Mylot site would be the best solution.
• United States
17 Dec 09
I am not finding any interesting discussions to respond to today either. That is why I found the title of your discussion so interesting. Why do you think all these mylot friends of yours have left? I just finished commenting on another discussion that was discussing the same topic, "no interesting discussions on mylot". I see that you have over 9,000 posts, so to me you are an experienced myloter. So, please tell me what kinds of topics and discussions are interesting to you. This will help me in posting future discussions.
@balasri (26549)
• India
18 Dec 09
Any discussion apart from what is your favourite color,your favourite movie,Pepsi or coke.cat or dog kind of discussions are always interesting to everyone.Is it not so?
@riyasam (16570)
• India
17 Dec 09
i too have some unresolved discussions,maybe i was not as lazy but ,yes,some of my then mylotters are no longer active now but still i feel like you and i do echo youur sentiments.
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@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
I know that all my best friends will agree with my view of giving the BR to the worthy discussions as a tribute to our old friends discussion whether they are still here or not.Thanks for agreeing with me.
17 Dec 09
Hi bala, Its a shame that many of our mylot friends has gone on to some other sites and many of my friends has gone but I keep in contact with them on other social sites as there are many reason why they left as well, I myself will be here because I enjoy myself here on mylot for as long as mlot is around. Tamara
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@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
You are right Tamara.The pain of missing such a wonderful people is duly compensated by the great friends like you.Thanks for being my friend.
@paula27661 (15898)
• Australia
17 Dec 09
I too wonder where a lot of the old members I have not seen around here for ages have got to. I think that if a response deserves a BR is should be awarded regardless of whether the user is still a member here or not. I think it is a lovely idea to award the BR as a tribute for the wonderful work these people have produced while they were here that has enriched the site and made it what it is today!
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@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
Thanks you very much for the nice words and understanding Paula.Those beautiful people certainly deserve the tribute.
@biggerb (2028)
• India
17 Dec 09
I am glad you woke to give BR to the ones you had'nt done.Most often I find there is nothing interesting to respond.I have almost withdrawn from mylotting.Hats off to you for being so conisitent.I find youthere almost every day come what may.I wish they institute a grand prize for people like you, you surely will win it hands down.
@kalav56 (11497)
• India
17 Dec 09
biggerb ! I have found wonderful friends here with whom I can happily chat without any inhibitions.THat is why I too would persist with this forum.
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@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
Dear Kala.This BiggerB is no one else but my sister in law.The elder sister of my wife.Stick to her and make her also stick to Mylot and become consistent like us.
@balasri (26549)
• India
17 Dec 09
Hi BiggerB! Meet Kala,One of my best friends here.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
18 Dec 09
That is the same here with me. I need to go in and do some more best responses for my discussions also. I have not been lazy about it though. I have just been really busy with my online work.
@balasri (26549)
• India
18 Dec 09
I am not really lazy either.I too am a busy person lazy to do the BR work.
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
18 Dec 09
I am lazy in doing mylotting in general, never mind BR work.