What are the "DON'TS" in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship?

@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
April 6, 2010 11:10am CST
Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship has "Do's and Don'ts" but I just want to focus on "Dont's". What are the things that shouldn't be done or things that can be considered as sins in a relationship. It can be major or minor, as long as you think that it's belong to the "Dont's" in a relationship. I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
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15 responses
@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
6 Apr 10
Ok, everyone knows I am pretty synical at this point in my life. With that said, my personal advice is Don't bother having a boyfriend/girlfriend as a romantic partner. Do have friends.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Hi! I respect your opinion. You have reasons behind it. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
6 Apr 10
Don't ever compare the love of your life with anyone else. Don't fool around behind her back. Don't loose your temper in front of her. Don't ever lie to her. And most important. Never make a fool of her feelings. This will get you into serious trouble. TATA.
@cloud31 (5809)
6 Apr 10
that's my angel...
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hi saph! I agree with all you have said but I just want to comment on the first one. Maybe if the comparison resulted to compliments for the love of your life, then it can be a "DO", what do you think? Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
6 Apr 10
IJ, are we going to take him out tonight?? Or should we wait a bit?? TATA.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 10
Do not lie, do not be possessive, do not regulate, and most importantly, do not sully your girlfriend.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi indahfth! Yes, respect should be maintained in a relationship. We should treat our boyfriend/girlfriend a precious one. Thank you for responding. Happy myLotting!
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Don't fool your girlfriend, be honest and worthy of her trust. Don't make promises, girls are hopeful. And they always remember that. Don't ever flirt someone when you're with her. Avoid staring other girls when she's around, even if she's not. Don't break rules that both of you had already agreed. It will cause an argument. And the best thing... Don't do unto your girlfriend what you don't want her to do unto you. (Golden Rule!) Well, these are all base on my views. I hope you learned from it.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Hi anne! Yes I'm aware of those things and I really avoid them coz I am very faithful and I love her very much. Your views are absolutely correct. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Thanks too. I just wish the best to both of you!
@cloud31 (5809)
6 Apr 10
Don't lie , never lie i should say lol or you will be dump..Don't yell on me if I can't get your words or I will bring you back to your mom ..Don't ever let me find out your exchanging message to somebody,lol or I will confiscate your mobile phone and punch a password to your pc..lol and last but not the least don't stop me to stay in myLot or I will let you stay in the couch whole night then you cannot disturb me doing mylot...lol.. Happy myLotting!!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
6 Apr 10
No sweetie, the couch is a luxury. Rahter consider the litte welcome mat at the frontdoor. TATA.
@cloud31 (5809)
6 Apr 10
sounds better
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hi IJ! Of course I will follow all you have said. Lol! I will never lie, I will never yell on you, i will never exchange messages to other girls without your permission, and of course I won't stop you from myLotting, maybe I will just stop those ones who keeps on buzzing on you. Lol! Thank you for your response. I really find them very nice. Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
In a relationship is it healthy to have a list of do's and dont's? Okay here will be a list of what I think are DONT's in a relationship: 1. Do not flirt with your partner's friends whether you're in front of your partner or not 2. Do not fantasize other women 3. Do not look at other girls (in your case) whenever you're with your partner 4. Avoid talking about the past or recent relationship that you've had that would build up insecurities of your partner 5. Don't let your partner feel that you don't value or prioritize her 6. Don't humiliate your partner in front of anybody here are some dont;s i hope it will help. have a good one!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi mavie! I am following all of those things except number 4. I have forced to talked about my past relationship since she wanted me too. I'm honest to her so I have mentioned it. Good thing that she accepted it and she didn't get mad at me. Well she really didn't have to worry because I am very faithful and loyal to her, as she is my only one. Thank you for your advises, it's a good list. Thank's for sharing it! Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
I never been in a relationship. But as I observed from the movie I watched and from my friends relationship I gather these. First of all do not cheat. You only have one relationship at one time. Second do tell the truth. If you are feeling happy share your happiness, if you are sad do not pretend. Your partner must know the truth so that he or she can help you in whatever he or she can. Third be patient, some relationship have problems this is may due to differences. But learn to accept weaknesses and everything has a right time to change so be patient. And fourth there is no perfect relationship. All relationship have struggle. But eventhough there is no perfect there is true love and true love always prevail.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
6 Apr 10
dont abuse your partner in any way, be greatful if they spoil you rotten. help them when they need it, even if you don't like doing what they ask you to do.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Hi weasel! Those things you have mentioned are good points to consider. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
16 Apr 10
Do decide each day what you can do to make your partner happy. Don’t go to bed angry with each other. Do communicate. Don’t except to control your partner. Don’t take each other for granted. Do remember to incorporate some romance into your lives even though you are both busy. Don’t ever lie. Do respect each other’s privacy and space. Don’t cheat. Do remember that you do not own each other. Don’t forget to listen to one another!
• United States
7 Apr 10
Well I think the biggest do nots would be as follows; cheating or any kind in my mind if you are getting to know someone and are in a relationship than you should never even consider cheating. I think that is a big no no and it will ruin it. Another thing is lying this is a big one for me. I feel if you lie to someone you are building a realtionship with you are ruining it badly. You may stay together but in the end it will never work! Those are a few things that come to my mind friend. Happy mylotting to you.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
8 Apr 10
Well I guess "DON'T CHEAT" is always on top of the list. Don't: -lie too much.... Some lies actually help. What the person doesn't know won't hurt her. -be insecure, or overly jealous -stand her up on a date -keep her waiting on a date -forget to lift up your relationship to God. There's nothing better than a God-centered relationship.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
8 Apr 10
The most important don't that I can think of in a relationship is don't cheat on your significant other. However, a couple more things that I don't recommend that you do when you are involved in a relationship are: Don't take your significant other for granted. Don't try to act like someone that you aren't in order to impress your boyfriend or girlfriend.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
It's the couple who will come up with the do's and dont's. The couple can make their own rules and agree to it. There are rules that works for a certain couple but don't work for others.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi ybong! Yes, it can also really go that way, that the couple have their own do's and dont's. Thank you for responding. Happy myLotting!
@adequee (204)
• Malaysia
6 Apr 10
walla..this day couple tend to DO the DONT in everything..it seems like a normal for many now..
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
But it still not good, better to keep on the DO's and avoid the DONT's. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Never cross the line-respect each other's privacy and listen to each other..