Losing focus (in my life)

i was doing pretty well in my work...but due to the lack of support from the top mamnagement,....i am alos losing hopes and interest in my job. But i dont wanna quit...this is the best break i have found in my life. Its said....if you dont like something...change it and if you cant change it then change your attitude..

Hi iwrite!! I think that would really be a great idea. People like those will continue doing the thing they did to you if you don't report them. They are just so lenient and they think that they can always get away with the things that they have done!! I hope that the case would be pretty successful so that they would learn their lesson and not mess with you. Good luck~!!

Actually I agree with you that some action needs to be initiated against people who do such things. But then the key thing for you is to ensure that your life does not get stuck on this one episode. Life is much larger than a single incident and you need to look at it in the bigger perspective. I think if you start feeling that you are beginning to lose focus in your life, then it is the time to close the chapter, take a break from the current activities, and come back and start afresh. That does not mean let the crooks go free, you can continue to write on forums, newspapers etc., but let it not be your prime focus. All the best!! Cheers! Ram PS: Never take life seriously, you will never come out of it alive!!

U sue the company?!?! SO serious?? Dun let that small hiccup along the way, affect u that much, and dun ever lose hope when things are not running smoothly!! Those obstacles will only make u stronger, and add on as experience for u ^_^ The harder things come by, the more one will cherish it, and work even harder to see more results right?? hehe U should do anything u can, to make the company look bad, posting it on stomp, youtube, facebook, wherever, just to spread their bad name.. haha

I certainly appreciate your anger but as someone else here has said get some advice before you post any negative comments about the company. I have heard of folks who regretted doing such a thing when they were sued themselves! If you want to take this action get some professional advice and be very careful. I would rather sue them and take them to court and obtain victory that way!

Take my advice if you want to. I do this everytime I feel that I am heading the wrong directions and making bad decisions in my life. Sit in a quiet place, try to relas. Think of all the bad things that happened and find the reasons why this things happened. Write them in a paper. In each bad thing that happened item write a solution or an action that will make this things better. Read them. Relax and say a little prayer. Take a deep breath and say this ten times or even more. " I will do better and I will get my life back on track." You will start feeling positive right before you finish repeating the sentences ten times. I feel good eveytime I do this. It's like I'm starting all over again. I hope this routine will work out for you too.

My only advice is to be very careful before you put anything in writing, especially if it's on a public forum. I have seen people burned doing this, even when they were right. Good luck.

If it makes you feel good, go ahead, but to me that just sounds like more work. Good luck!

I would do that and write an online review. I think there is an option under the business search where you can do that. I hope that you get this resolved soon..I know it's been a huge hassle. Just try to stay focused on the big picture.

Venting over something that is frustrating is not always a bad thing, It does help to let go of emotions we are holding onto that need to be dealt with. Goals are a good thing to have, but every so often we may need to re-evaluate them to see if they are still feasible so that we can stay focused. I have visited your website and it looks good to me. Good luck.

That's good that you're taking action, standing up for yourself. Companies like that probably walk over their clients all the time because most people keep quiet. I say write a review about the service you've received in as many places as you can find - better business bureau, online review sites, etc.

Well, if there is no way that you can report this company that has done you wrong to the better business bureau, then I think that I would take the approach of writing an editorial about your experience to the local newspaper. It won't make things right for you, but it would be doing a service to other people in that they will know better than to make the same mistake that you've made. In the mean time, I hope that you are able to pick up the pieces and move on.

How frustrating it must have been for you to go through all these. Glad to hear you are picking up the pieces to move on because that's what you should. If it does benefit lots of people from the newspaper forum the public should be informed. Hope this would serve as a reminder to many who would otherwise take customer services for granted.

I think its a great Idea, good luck.

I think you should write some articles, blogs and letters about this experience. I think you were really scammed and this company needs to be brought down. People need to know about such things. How to know a reputable company for that type of work. You could help future people not have to go through all of this.

Hiya iwrite, Have to agree with edward who has posted down here on one point to focus my attention on something else. Take the thorn which is the web designer out of your system and focus on what you love doing the most. I would not waste my precious energy on this person altogether. It is good to give vent to your frustration with that person but not too make it an everyday thing. It is annoying of course it is but it´s more depleting to give this guy more energy than anything else. In the end he wins and you don´t so give your energy to your own things. This is just an observation. I could have vented my anger ages ago on something that most people would have taken to looking for lawyers advise on what to do. I just did not bother as everything was against me from the word go. But I was angry, very angry when I read what I read and realized the outcome. So instead I turned the boat around and headed the other way I just let it be. You don´t have to fall in love with that person who has caused you so much loss of money and time but hey don´t give into him either see him as something of the past. Maybe in a few weeks time you can see things more clearly. I really feel for your loss of money and time too. Those things hurt I know they do. Just let it go for a while if you can don´t sit on your temper either. Gradually you will calm down I think. Take care now.

I did not imagine that it would come to this. I hope you can teach them a lesson to be professional and yes it would be good to write about this in a newspaper forum so they can't victimized other people

I say you should go for it. If it helps to vent a bit on the people or business responsible for your problems, then do it. After you may find that you will be able to find your focus again without all the other stuff in your head blocking your thoughts. Good Luck.

I say go for it, If it makes you feel better to vent a bit on the people responsible for your problems, then do it. After you may be able to find your focus again so that you can move on to the things that you want to do without all the other stuff in your head. Good luck.