I want to ACT Girly!

Philippines
February 10, 2011 3:47am CST
Well, my personality is somewhat boyish. I even cut my hair as short as the boys and walk like them. I don't wear girly blouses nor skirts. I just want a plain tee and jeans. And I usually talk roughly.LOL. But this time (pressured by Valentine's Day), I thought of changing my image. I want to wear girly stuffs and act like a lady.Will I attract potential lovers then?LOL
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12 responses
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
17 Feb 11
Hi, gambamarcela! I am like you, who prefer to act like more of a boy,than a girl. But I am married now. I think if you can be on where the boys are, they will take notice of you. Boys are more visual when it comes to choosing mates and they have one distinct way of liking a girl. They enjoy looking at beautiful thing! You can wear jeans and tee but make sure you're carrying it well. You can have your hair short but be sure, it emphasizes your best facial assets. You can talk and act boyish but be sure, you can project sexiness and uniqueness. Boys prefer a "trophy" not a buddy so be one by being "not one of the girls only"
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• Philippines
17 Feb 11
Oh if you commented earlier, I would have given you the best response award. But, anyway, I do appreciate your pieces of advice or tips as you may see it. I'm gonna remember what you've written here. It helps so much. And best wishes for your married life.mwah
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
12 Feb 11
I am quite like you too- I'm not so girly, I don't even wear make up and wear fluffy and short skirts and the like. But maybe changing your appearance can attract men. But that's not the only way to attract them though.. Just be yourself.
• Philippines
12 Feb 11
hmmm. Sounds interesting.Lay your cards girl..hehe. May I know some other effective ways other than acting girly?
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
well then that just mean you are fooling yourself. i guess if dont like people to think that you are one of the boys then hang out with girls. you dont need to dress like a girl if you are not that comfortable. but its also at the same time fun to find out what will happen... why not give it a go. hope you can find potential lovers who will like you even you dress and move like a boy.
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• Philippines
11 Feb 11
I really hope so se7enthbird. The question is when and where?hehe.
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
10 Feb 11
I doubt you're really boyish. My guess is you're very independent, active, etc. and I wouldn't change that. I've known many men who think that's pretty "sexy". So I'd be myself and be patient... And I'd get out. The guys aren't going to see you if you're sitting at home thinking about what you have to do to change yourself...
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Really? You think it's sexy? LOL! Yeah! I think I need to go out to meet guys. In a bar?What do you think?LMAO!
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Really? You think it's sexy? LOL! Yeah! I think I need to go out to meet guys. In a bar?What do you think?LMAO!
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
11 Feb 11
It is to many guys. Do you have any organizations/clubs that are in to sports? Rock climbing, softball, tag football, etc. I use to play on a lot of men/women teams and that was one way to meet men with the same interests. I met guys in bars too, but there are other ways.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Well, you could, but then, that wouldn't really be you, would it? Change is good as long as you do not lose who you are. And maybe, it would be good to change for your self first, and because you want to impress others would be just a second reason.
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Oh yes of course I also want to change for myself.hehe.Thanks for reminding me that one glory.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
That's good, then! Here's to a new you! Cheers!
@letski07 (38)
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
You don't have to change your image for guys to like and date you. You just have to be yourself. Although it affects sometimes but there are boys out there who love boyish girls. I'm also a boyish type of girls and I always hang out with boys. Often times they call me a guy but there are still many guys out there who like and date me (not to be boastful though). And now I have a boyfriend. Just be yourself. I know someone will definitely like the way you are.
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Oh you reminded me of the song Just The Way You Are by Bruno Mars.hehe.I feel like singing right now. Sing with me. When I see your face There's not a thing that I would change coz you're amazing Just the way you are And when you smile The whole world stops and stares for a while coz girl you're amazing Just the way you are Where will I find them?hehe
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
you don't have to look for them girl. They will find you. Just wait for that day. In the right place, right time, and right circumstances. =)
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
I looooove that song! I imagine it was written for me.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
10 Feb 11
haha how about starting with a one piece dress and a little heels shoes? It might help your walking because you cannot really walk like a man when wearing shes, the heels make your chest and butt stand up And leave your hair alone at least let it grow to shoulder length? I wish you a good Valentine's day and meet your Valentine soon!
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Oh yeah!I need to my hair grow just like Rapunzel's.Just kidding. But I must let it grow long and straight. I need to treat it with rebond to make it very straight.For the heels, I prefer wearing wedge coz it's comfortable.I hope he finds me soon!
• India
8 Apr 11
Feamale look good in feminine dress only, here women were Saree, blouse, some wear pajama, kurta, duptta, they look more attractive than those Jean and short top wearng girls. Hope you will look more attractive with girly stuff and may be long hair. While in Manila, Davao and Cebu I have seen women sporting lon hair.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
Yes why not, there's no harm in trying. And physically you're a girl and you feel it right? Maybe this time, this Valentine's Day you'll find your mate if you change your image. Try and go for it.
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
LOL!Just by imagining it makes me laugh.I can't imagine how long will I pretend with the act.haha.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
Hi gambamarcela, I am just like you I am not so girly when it comes to walking. I also walk like a boy but I wear blouses clothes, but I usually I like comfortable blouse and jeans. I am so insecure and jelous of some pretty girls who act so girly and finesse and with poise, many people who know me would always say that I am finesse but I disagree cause maybe because I move slow that's why they think that I am. I don't know but I cannot do a thing with poise. I infact always clumsy and wreck most of the thing that I use. My bf called me "The Destroyer" when it comes to gadget and other things.
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
I also feel envious at how other girls manage to carry themselves pretty well with heels on and dresses.I hope when I get a next job, it will make me look pretty girly.LOL. BTW, I am also labeled by my family a destroyer (but in our native tongue). I don't know, but everytime I borrow my sister's stuffs like shoes or clothes, I return them a little bit destroyed and she has no choice but to give it to me.LOL!
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 11
Of course you can, there is a proverb saying, there are no ugly girl in this world but there are only lazy girl. So, if you can really change yourself and wear like a lady, you will definitely can attract your potential lover. But, just do not over do it, or you may attract unnecessary problem. Good luck!
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
Oh i'll keep that in mind. Thank you so much for motivating me! I can do this!
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
Hi gambamarcela! If you are boyish, then don't try to change that just because Valentine's day is almost here. You just have to be yourself. That way, you will know who truly likes you. If you go around and act girly and dress like a girly girl then people would surely notice your changes. However, I won't advice you to do that. What I'm saying is that you just have to be yourself and not be a fake because no matter how boyish you seem, there will always be someone who likes you for who you are. You don't have to change anything about yourself.
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Oh I am so moved by your response junee.I'm so teary-eyed after reading this one.Swear!I really hope and pray that there would be someone out there would like me for who truly I am and not for who I'm not. You see, I have this crush (who was my text mate) and he would tell me what type of of girl he likes and I get so hurt since I'm the total opposite of them. He likes a girl with long and straight hair. He likes kinda petite or lean girls.He likes girly girls. huhu. I feel like crying.I like him so bad.