Men And Roaming Eyes
By AishaBR
@AishaBR (345)
United States
August 12, 2011 10:34am CST
Ok why do men wtch females when he is with his girlfriend or wife? What's up with that roaming eye? I get a lot of looks from men even when they are out with their girlfriends or wife and I just givethem the stink eye. I haven't caught my hubby looking at any women while we wre out but he would go on the computer and watch half naked females dance around. He likes to watch thick girls, and i'm not on the thick I just have a good size booty for my size. But this just gets me upset when he watches them girls, because its like he wishes I was thick. S since i'm not he just watches them. He says that he loves my body, that i'm "fit". But I just get intimidated by these "Thick" girls that he just can't stop watching. He sometimes tells me I would look nice if I gain a little weight. Why can'y men be happy with the lady their with? They say they are but in the back of their heads it always has something about the lady they would like to make bigger or smaller.
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@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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12 Aug 11
Are you saying you never look at men when you're out? Ever? Or in films? Or on television? Or in photos?
I don't believe you. 
All men watch women, as women watch men. But there's a big difference between looking at someone and actually desiring them - there's even a big difference between what we like to look at and what we want to live with.
It doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate you or that he's not happy with you. It just means the other woman has boobs, too. 
All men watch women, as women watch men. But there's a big difference between looking at someone and actually desiring them - there's even a big difference between what we like to look at and what we want to live with.
It doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate you or that he's not happy with you. It just means the other woman has boobs, too. 
@AishaBR (345)
• United States
13 Aug 11
Well Yea I look at guys but Men are worse! They would stare down a girl for lie five minutes! A guy did that to me already and he ws with his girlfriend or wife. And men make an effort to go on the computer and look up girls to look at. I never caught myself doing that. If a guy is on a film, on tv I can't help but look that is what is showing. I'm jut saying guys make an effort to look.
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@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
For me yes because the bold picture it is there source of income and habit but they don't know that Jehovah God will punished them in the Armageddon.
@JasperTore (1275)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
I think its normal for us guys to look at girls even if we are with our girlfriends or wives. Guys normally will look at girls because its an instinct I think for us. We are physically attracted to girls and we would like to see the best girl our eyes have ever seen but it doesn't mean that we will do something bad like cheat our girlfriend or wife. We love them.
@hushi22 (4928)
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12 Aug 11
woops! i think that is the issue of either contentment or admiration?
in my opinion there is not problem with people looking at others as you said. to me it sound more like an admiration which is normal.
but i do notice a lot of people in a relationship who do not seem to get satisfaction or contentment with their partners.
@goggles213 (735)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Men looking at other women is actually good, it's a sign that they are healthy adult males that are ready to mate. We are satisfied with our partners but being men, it is in our genes to admire attractive women physically. Don't worry though, we know where our loyalty lies, it's just that our hormones can't help but look and admire.
@haopee (493)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
In my opinion, I think you're beating yourself too much about it. And I don't wish to offend you. You seem to have a great body but are concerned that your hubby is looking at online pictures and videos when you expect him to look at you. We, women, sometimes neglect to appreciate that our husbands, partners or boyfriends are here by our sides and not with other women or cheating on us.
My boyfriend watches hentai all night and saves the pictures of big busty women in my computer while I'm asleep because he also has that hobby. And I think of it as a sign that although he has his own needs that we cannot provide, he takes care of it in a way that will not morally degrade our current relationship.
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Sorry to hear that but I have never heard my hubby tell me, honey you should gain weight or honey you should lose weight. I know men differs from each other and the character of the person is also influenced by what he stands to believe, what they got from media, family and from other things.
I think that what is important is not the outer appearance and your hubby should accept you as you are. The idea that lures them to follow once desire is somewhat a trap that someday they will be tempted by the enemy and use their weakness to destroy a relationship.
Pray that your husband would have a change of heart to this since it is much better to focus on God and your relationship to Him rather than what this world offers and to what people do just to gain favor of men, not to God who is much more important.
@petersum (4522)
• United States
12 Aug 11
I agree with Spike (above). I have seen many women who get quite annoyed if you don't look at them! Even Muslim women, who are very fully dressed, will start flapping their head coverings madly if you don't at least glance at them.
And why would women wear make-up? To see themselves in the mirror?
Both sexes want to see and be seen.
