Where have you gone,my friend?

Many of us are still here, wondering where the others are. Some of gone, because they went off the rails, but many are returning now that the nights grow longer and it is cooler outside. That's the joiy of myLot. Once you have your place at the table it is upt ot you whether you take a seat or not. Welcome back!

Erm, are you talking to me?

Sorry for being out of touch so long. Between school and medical issues I have been very busy. Now I am going through old discussions and trying to get caught up. Over the last month or so, I have become more involved with the Red Cross and working out. Although I finished with chemo in mid-June, my tumor marker count went up three weeks later and they decided that I needed to do another blood test six weeks later. I saw the urologist on the first of September and then two days later I was sent to New York to help with the flooding since I am a disaster services volunteer. After two weeks there, I was still trying to get caught up on everything so now I finally feel like I have time to get back in here. I do have one more assignment that I have to finish by tomorrow night, but other than that, all is well. I hope all is going well for you. Have a great week!!!

Well I'm here. I can't speak for the others.

It is pretty quiet on here right now. I don't know if people have had to get jumped away from online or what. I hardly make pay out each month because so many people have gone elsewhere and aren't responding or posting. I think it is sad for the site and hope it speeds back up in the Fall and Winter.

No wonder you haven't been here on mylot all this while.It reminds me of a Chinese idiom,that is to say,"the cow fondly licks her calf."It was surely an unforgettable trip for you to see the sights of so many famous cities.

Hi Oldesix, it's good to see you my friend. Many people come and go on myLot. It can be a seasonal thing whereby in summer, many are spending their spare time outdoors or holidaying. There can be any number of reasons why people are not here. Some come and go, some get bored and leave, and some are here most of the time...like me!

Hi dear, Even I was away or rarely visited myLot for the last 3-4 months as the site got blocked from the office where I am working. A little time which I get from home was not good enough to have a peaceful discussion and I seldom been here with. However, I got a tricky chance to continue and can say back here, but chances are more to disappear any moment of time. Anyway, I am back and as you said, we cannot predict here in myLot, when people comes and goes back. Sometime people are so addicted and the same speed they will move out. All depend on their mood and the experience. Some will go away for ever and few are long time users and still a small group is just like on and off. So, considering these basic factors, how we can expect all of them here. Hope you will find someone in the course of time and have a nice day. Thank-s

Hi,Oldsix. No offence.But it is more appropriate to say "where have you been to ?" than "where have you gone ?"As a Chinese , i know that you want to improve your English on mylot .Thus, i don't think you mind my correction ,do you ? Let us get back to the topic . Eh, i have not gone to anywhere this summer for that i was busying reviewing my lessons . It is always enjoyable to have a trip with someone you like . I have been looking forward to a long trip since i graduated from my college . Yet , there always exists something in my way to splendid places. Maybe the situation would turn around after the summer . Wish me luck !

They are just the same like u, gone on trips, or work has overtaken mylot. The same goes for me too, i wasn't that active for the past 2 months because i'm busy with work. However, when i'm back, i realise all my friends are back during that period of time. As such, now i've got most of my friends active on mylot again, and i'm glad with that.

Hmmmm I not gone anywhere in July because April to july is main season for me. Because holiday started and computer class is also started. But in August I was leave for 10 days from the mylot and I went to Nagpur my mother's house for Rakhi festival.

maybe they are on vacation too.. send them some private messages. hope they will read when they get online...

Hi, I can understand how you miss your old friends but you must also make new friends who can become as dearer as your old ones . Wish you lots of happiness , good luck and God's blessings . Your new friend, rollylolly :)

Every one is here, it is cause they are not online, but alot of people are getting banned for breaking rules. you don't know be cause I joined 2 weeks ago. anyway welcome back, and happy mylotting

I'm still here. I left for a while because I did not have the time to come here. I come here daily now again. alot of people left Mylot for some reason or another, but some do come back.

I think they come and go...I have several that I felt really close to and now they aren't here anymore....so you make some new friends...nice that you are back!

Hi Oldsix, I could have returned you the same question : you have disappeared during the summer, and your friends were worried about you. I am a bit less active, but I am still there.

Hello my friend and welcome back! I did realize you were away, but since I know you have your Orange fields, I figured you were really busy. You know you can always count on your friends anytime you come back here. Some of too have been a way as it is summer here as well. But you can betcha that upon coming back we will surely send some hugs.

Good to hear you were able to take a break from your work. You appear to have a really busy life. Best Wishes!

Give you a suggestion,you should buy another computer for you and your lover.