Black eyes - reprised...

@ElicBxn (64169)
United States
August 26, 2011 9:13pm CST
So, yesterday my other roommate had another minor surgery - I know, its pretty major when they knock you out completely, but at least they weren't opening her up completely either... This is the 3rd minor surgery this summer BTW. First she had her knee done, then her shoulder, and now... NOW she's gotten her nose done. This isn't cosmetic, she's had her nose broken several times so she couldn't breath well. So they got in there, messed with her nose, raised her lower lids to help open the sinuses... They called me to pick her up, I'm sure she was THRILLED when I came in and said "oh look two black eyes!" She was complaining earlier that she really doesn't mind the black eyes, its that she can't breath! I can relate, after all, I was an Afrin addict for years... So, have you ever had a medically necessary nose job? Thank GOD I have NOT!
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@Awinds (2468)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I have never had a cosmetic surgery and I hope I never have to have it! To me, the risk and the cost is way to much for just the sake of vanity. Now granted there are some people who have been in accidents and those types should indeed get plastic surgery but besides that I am no fan! No one is sticking a knife to my noise without good reason! I do feel bad for your friend though. Not being able to breath must be awful! I also imagine that three surgeries in one summer is no picnic either.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I used to think I might want my nose 'bobbed' but I've changed my mind, it gets stopped up enough with it being BIG! I think the fact that her father and her husband were the breakers of her nose probably didn't help any, but to FINALLY get a doc to agree to fix it... you want to know what... she wanted these surgeries done at the same TIME! Thank GOD the doctors wouldn't agree to that!
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
27 Aug 11
The situation behind her noise makes it even worse! But she wanted the three surgeries at once? I think that might be just a little bit to much strain on the body...
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
yeah, and she seemed to think that she'd be all better in a few days and isn't happy that she's still hurting... duh!
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
28 Aug 11
If I ever did it, it'd be strictly cosmetic. I've always despised my stubby, nubby little nose! It's an unfortunate cross of my mother's & father's nose...but mostly Dad's. As to your roomie--OWWWW!? Poor thing!!! Oh, & Elic, how many times, as editors, have we scolded writers for leaving off the final E in breathe? Shame, shame! I guess we need to do another zine, just to get you back into practice, eh, what? Maggiepie "Unquestionably! No one can read the Gospels without feeling the actual presence of Jesus. His personality pulsates in every word. No myth is filled with such life." ~ Albert Einstein's answer to the query, "Do you believe Jesus was a real, historic figure?"
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
28 Aug 11
call it typing faster than I can read... or "spell check said it was okay..." and your black eyes weren't as bad as these - trust me!
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
29 Aug 11
Didn't I say as much?? Maggiepie "In view of such harmony in the cosmos which I, with my limited human mind, am able to recognize, there are yet people who say there is no God. But what really makes me angry is that they quote me for the support of such views." ~ Albert Einstein
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
28 Aug 11
Oops. Forgot to add: I did have black eyes (though probably not as severe as your roomie's) when I had my eye surgery--which, as you know, wasn't for cosmetic reasons. It took at least a couple of years for all the bruising to leave! (Whew!) I also got one or two when I was a tomboyish girl. I know of one for sure--that time I jumped out of the swing & hit my cousin head on. That one stayed for 6 weeks. Maggiepie "I see too much order in the universe to believe this could have been accidental." Albert Einstein's reply when asked how he could believe in a Creator.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I am amazingly surgery free for my age. Some of it has to do with no insurance, but not really. I have had three surgeries in my life. I know, the black eyes are part of the procedure, and I sure hope she breathes easier when she is healed. I can picture them pulling those eyelids up.
@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
27 Aug 11
Nope, not counting wisdom teeth or the apicoectomy, or freezing off moles. I had a lymph node removed, a hysterectomy and that foot surgery. I was going to add that if your profile is correct "Ha ha, I am older than you are" at least for a while.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
no appendectomy for me - yet, and my moles were cut and burned off - I'll be 57 for a few more months... my BROTHER will be 60 in less than a month!!!!
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I've had 3 surgeries too, and I've had good insurance most of my life! I don't count wisdom tooth extraction, tho I guess I should... I sure don't count mole removal...
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• United States
10 Sep 11
not really unless you count a tooth abcess that spread into my nasal cavity. still haven't regained some of my sense of smell.but when cleaning catboxes,that's an occasional plus
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
10 Sep 11
now, that might be helpful on that count, but I bet it makes eating less pleasurable...
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• United States
12 Sep 11
it does.i have to be careful about seasoning too.i can over season without being aware of it.
@Humbug25 (12540)
29 Aug 11
Hi ya ElicBxn The only surgery I have ever had is to remove my tonsils and pollops from my throat. So, no I have not had surgery of any description on my nose. I have had my nose peireced a couple of times and the healing of that was bad enough, so I can imagine that your roommate is in quite a lot of pain even though her eyes are black, I think that is the least of her pain! Poor thing
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
29 Aug 11
Afrin is a nasal spray to keep the head clear during a cold, its also addictive and has a rebound affect if used too long... They stitched up around her lower lids to lift the skin from around her nose and basically rebroke her nose to fix it... I pity the fool that tries to break MY nose!
@Humbug25 (12540)
29 Aug 11
P.S. What's Afrin?
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• United States
27 Aug 11
I have not and hopefully will not sometime soon. I am going to a specialist as I am getting daily headaches and migraines. It is to the point that something is terribly wrong. I do wonder if it is due to my sinuses as I was told once years ago. Hopefully nothing major but the pain is too severe that I am very worried something is wrong.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
After I had some serious ear aches, I went to an Ear/Nose and Throat doc. After running all kinds of tests, right at the end I mentioned that I can't STAND to have the ear pieces of my glasses sit on my ears. He pushed on my ears, then my face and told me that I have shallow sinuses and that there was nothing he could do to fix that, but if they got infected, they could lead to major problems, including migraine type headaches and then they could do surgery... So far, I've dodged that bullet!
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
28 Aug 11
Well, I have never had them have to do any type of surgery around or to the nose area. The closest I came was when 2 yrs. ago they did surgery on my eyes and did implants because of having cataracts. For me that was pain enough.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
28 Aug 11
closest I have is the mole off my chin, but that really isn't the same thing - oh, and the speck out of my eye... but all my black eyes were injury related
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 Aug 11
heck NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
28 Aug 11
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I have never had that done to me either. My mom had it done though and we thought my husband was going to need it also but he didn't, thank God.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
oh I hear that, I hope she recovered quickly - so far, we are only on day 3, yesterday her shiners were getting darker...
@GreenMoo (11833)
27 Aug 11
Never, it sounds terrible. I broke my nose once and I was aware of it constantly until it was healed.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I was the same way with my black eyes and my ear piercings...
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I hope she is feeling better. No, thank heavens i have never had surgery on my nose & hope i don't.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
honestly, now, me either - I've discovered I'm not that vain
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
28 Aug 11
Was the reason she couldn't breathe through her nose that it was packed with surgical gauze?
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
28 Aug 11
its not even packed now... she had a deviated septum from her nose being broken
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 11
so whats afrin? guess i'll look that up. poor roomie. ive never had that surgery but ive heard its terribley painful. its going to be rough a long time i bet. so sorry. but maybe she will breath better now.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
Afrin is a nasal spray - and right now she can't breath well at all, but hopefully when the nose is healed and the swelling gone...
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
28 Aug 11
ElicBxn, Haha, I guess I wouldn't mind having black eyes after surgery since I already have them! But that's pretty cool, your eyes changing color after surgery. I'd want a really cool color, like blue or green eyes. I've heard people have purple eyes, and that'd be pretty cool too! I've never had a medically necessary nose job, and hope I never will. Nose jobs sound painful. For a while, when I was younger, I wanted to get my nose slimmed down. I have a pretty wide nose, and would love for it to be more narrow and defined. But I'm over that, and I've accepted who I am. So yay, fun story. Happy mylotting!
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
28 Aug 11
black eyes are bruising around the eyes, not changing the actual color of the eyes
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Aug 11
hi elicbxn oh I just avoided having to have a medically necessary nose job done when I had my infamous fall on the tile floor by' our elevator. I smacked down face down , broke my nose and a small bone above my right eye. I was x rayed from head to foot and had only a broken nose and the one nurse said I would be referred to an ent man for that but when I was admitted to the rehab hospital for my twisted right knee the doctor said no it was a simple fracture and no surgery was needed,. but oh my my eyes were black as coal and at first my fellow patients all thought i had been in a car accident,. oddly that nose fracture was not painful but the small break above my right eye hurt but oh my right knee,it was so painful and yet no broken bones .I was a Four Way nose spray addict for years too til my son insisted I quit using the stuff and go see an ent doctor who helped me to get unaddicted and I learned I had allergies to dust and dust mites so take benadryl at ni ght so I can sleep without my nose being all stuffy.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
yeah, its amazing how bad things hurt when they AREN'T broken! I swear my sprained ankle hurt way more than the break in my foot... on the other hand, they didn't want me to WALK on the ankle, but wanted me to walk on the foot (I walked on the big toe only since I broke the bone on the side by my small toe)
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
27 Aug 11
Nope I never had a nose job, my nose and everything on my face are all natural, but I did have surgery as a teen Not for vanity, but a very necessary procedure done won't go into detail but the sugery was really painful and stressful but it did improve my life a bit but nothing else done though.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I got a mole taken off my chin, but the rest is natural - I did always hate that mole...
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
27 Aug 11
I have and it was not a nice experience! I had a deviated septum for years from a knock I received on my nose when I was a young child and my parents as per usual did not bother to have it looked at. I put up with it for a long time and sleeping was the most difficult thing because I could not breathe properly if I lay on the wrong side. One day I decided I had enough and wouldn’t mind some time off work so I saw a specialist who recommended surgery and two weeks at home. “Wow, a fortnight off!” I thought, “Great!” All I can say is that I woke up after the operation feeling like a wanted to throw up and not being able to breathe because my nose was packed with gauze. Forty eight hours later and another sleepless night the doctor showed up to ‘unpack’ my nose using rather large tweezers. To say that I saw stars is an understatement! That is without mentioning frequent nose bleeds for the next couple of weeks. Yeah, great time off, indeed! Did I mention the black eyes and bruised cheek?
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
27 Aug 11
yeah, two weeks off like that is NO vacation!
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