LOVE - mother and child.

I agree with you vandana that mothers love their children. But I feel there is a difference in degree of love between natural born and C section born in kind. Exception are there and you know exceptions are not rules. I too came out naturally and I know my nother who is no more loved me more than she did to herself.

The mother love is the most precious and priceless thing in whole world ..

Hi celtie, There is a saying that easy gotten golds have not that value compared to that gotten with hard work. No doubt the mother bears the child in her womb for nine odd months but giving birth through birth canal that is naturally is different from adopting C section. I do not see the woman a full mother who does not undergo the extreme pain inthe process of giving birth.

@ Celtie, I do not think that makes a person Shallow. People vary in their opinion. I put my own and you have yours. And thee was no need of adding an adjective.

I agree with celticeagle, that the love of a mother stems from carrying the child in her womb for nine months. The child knows the beat of your heart, your natural scent, the sound of your voice. Its as if they are one for those nine months. I loved my child the moment I felt that I was pregnant (before I even found out for sure). Knowing that there was my own flesh and blood growing and developing inside of me was amazing. Feeling her kick and wiggle was the most beautiful thing. She and I bonded so much over the span of conception to birth that I felt as if I already knew her heart and soul the moment she was born. She was mine. She came from my body. I was not able to give birth naturally. My daughter was born five weeks early and had to be delivered via Cesarean to save her life. Yes, I do wish that I had been able to give birth naturally, but I will not allow anyone to ever let me feel that I love her less because I didn't. My daughter is my entire world. Every single second I share with her is a blessing. Watching her grow and develop is truly incredible. I love my baby girl with every bit of my being, my heart, my soul. I would do anything for my daughter. I would take on the world to protect her from harm. I do not love my baby girl any less than the next mother loves her child, regardless of how they were born.

You said it right my friend. If a mother has not undergone the extreme of pain ever how would she feel the bond between her offspring and herself? You must have noticed that in most cases children - be it boy or girl they are more attached to their mother than their father. This is because the love the mother poured on them has pulled them towards her. But those who opted unnecessarily C-section, this is quite different and that children today are becoming more unruly one cause could be this lack of strong bondage.

i think the normal or cesarean delivery does ot effect the taste of mother's love for child, all as mothers must have had such great love for his son

Hi bing, Yes, exactly bing. what you have said is what I wanted to convey through. Yes, let alone mother and child we feel strong bond with a stranger when we live together for a decade. My point was a flimsy, unnoticeable difference.

Hi Jen, Loved to here your your friend's as well as your story about birthing. Thank you very much for sharing.

Hello my friend krajibg Ji, I wish to repeat and reproduce my views on 'mother-children' relations as below Thanks for welcoming. [b]"You are absolutely right in your thinking and coming to conclusion. I am with you. There is no such comparision with mother and child relation. It is on top of the world. Let's bow our heads in front of our mothers." [/b]May God bless You and have a great time

Welcome back MGBY ji. we really missed you. Now when wise people like you say that there is nothing like difference what can I say being a father? Blessings.

Hi shibham, Yu are correct. In our Partriarchial society there is still longing for a boy child. Preaching and lecturing in meetings are apart but in reality what you have said in the case.

Hi ALVARO, Thank you for standing by me. And I too agree with you that mothers have natural love towards their children and they scold and admonish them in time but a mother who has birthed through her birth canal is some one special than one who has had through c section.

Hi king parker, The difference is of course not measurable but the difference lies in degree not in kind. It it is no flimsy and airy that it is not so easily detectable.