Do you know why some man beat their wife even they are educated?

India
July 31, 2012 11:39am CST
I saw programe Crime petrol in Sony channel. MAy be this channel in India only. In this shows lots of real incident are shows in which man murdered his wife after tourchering. Some man beated every day on a small mistake and women bear this. Even women are educated but they dont want to share this event with their family members or friends. Finally they committed suicide or men try to murdered them. Why this type of crime are increasing. Why the spouse not understand the feelings of them.
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@512771751 (1096)
• China
1 Aug 12
It is too terrible to have such man that beat their wife. The man educated beat their wife maybe they have some psychology problelms and they will feel excited after their beating.
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• India
6 Aug 12
No they have not psychology problem but they wants to apply their power only on wife.
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
1 Aug 12
Is that only happen in India, or other third world countries? I hate this type of men, they thought that they are the dominant species in this world, and they can abuse their wives without treating them with respect. That just make me disgust. I think somehow those women who been in silent too long should stand up, and protect their rights. I don't care whether those men are educated or uneducated. They should treat people with a little respect.
• India
6 Aug 12
Yes you are right if someone beating then they should inform the police. You are right everyone should treat as respectfully with everyone.
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@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Aug 12
I have no idea how could someone be so cruel to another human . Some man believe woman are weak and more fragile so they decided its okay to beat them , they wont tell anyone . I think India man wouldn't mind beating their woman because of all their custom that woman are next to nothing , I was washing a reality show and when the American woman reach India they could not buy ticket for a train because they are a female and none of the local male would buy it for them , they had to wait on American men to buy it for them . I think in every country though coward exist and they beat their woman in secret because she will feel to embarrass to tell anyone and she just wont leave . In my opinion a man will beat a woman he think he can beat and get away with it , if he knew this is a serious woman he wont even think about it . I dont think those crime are increasing in my country because woman are so independent these days , they are taking acre of all the bills and calling the shots at work but in country like India I could see why it may be increasing . Men who beat woman are less than human more of a creature .
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• Vietnam
1 Aug 12
Everybody! If you have beated by someone, you have to let's the police know. Don't be scared about what the people around will say. That's just the gosips. So, just protect yourseft. Don't even kill yourselt. You born on this life is a very big lucky. You must cope to every think happen to your life. That's a price to have a good life then!
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31 Jul 12
I have got two degreees and both my first and second husbands were beating me because i was dependant on them.Being educated is different from being ealthy and independant.On the other hand,my boyfriends never raised thier hands on me cause i didnt depend on those guys and they appreciated time i was spending with them.
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• Vietnam
31 Jul 12
Good for you. But I don't really think you should have more than one boyfriend!
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• United States
1 Aug 12
Good for you , some men are terrible and will take advantage of a woman because she depend on them .
• United States
1 Aug 12
happy that your away from people like that, that was my reason for wanting to become a lawyer , to defend woman and children .
1 Aug 12
Hurting your partner is like hurting yourself if you truly love your partner.
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@JosephP (1116)
• Jamaica
1 Aug 12
Yes it is. Because when you truly love them you feel a strong connection with them... almost like they are an extension of yourself.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
I am not sure as to why but i have seen such cases too where men, both from the marginalized, rich ones..that beat their wives.. somehow it has something to do with them and respect and has somethign to do with how they look at their wives..somehow they see their wives as object, they think their own their own wives..
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
31 Jul 12
It happens in many households ,but wives do not come out with it because they dont want the world to know about it become judgmental.People , that too Indians have a way of putting all the blame on the wife ...
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@vandana7 (98526)
• India
31 Jul 12
Yeah for every one man who does not beat, there are almost 2 Indian men who do. So no help will be received from the society for such abuse.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
3 Aug 12
First of all, I have to say that I think absolutely nothing about a man that beats a woman because it is something that is very, very wrong. However, I also think that women should realize that if they are in the situation where they are beat by their husbands, they really need to get out of the relationship. What I believe happens far too often is that the women that are beaten are also emotionally and verbally abused to the point that they believe that they really would be nothing if it wasn't for their spouse's support of them.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
5 Aug 12
yes. it depends on qualification, family background, and confidence level of woman that also matters a lot. in India it is always said "husband has to be given more and more respect even though he is not good.". good day. it is not right but is followed for ages. slowly it is changing on account of globalisation.
@rkbazad (131)
• India
24 Aug 12
hi surekha, This is rally a dark side of our society and I always believe to rise up dark issue of society. I think education not play important role on like this issue because we are getting technical or professionally education , no space for moral education in our text books, in our course , in our life and sorry but not in our society also. Our aim is only to become success full person not a human. Like this kind beating to wife is very bad and its a big social problem but we all are silent on this, if some girl rise her voice against it then all start to blame to that girl that she is destroying her home even how can call to that house to her home there no space and respect for her and her feelings.That so called home is just a cage for her.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
27 Aug 12
I guess this happens because there are lots of crazy people out there. There are lots of control freaks as well as jealous people around. I do not believe in hitting a woman or a child. It gets you nowhere. Women do need to be respected. But there are those men that want to control them. Men that think they are their property. And there are also women like that in this world as well. It seems that respect has gone by the way side these days. I think all women should stand tall and take action against these kinds of men.
• India
19 Oct 12
Yes you are right man think the women are his property and use whenever need and throw when purpose is solved. But why law not punished those man who do this type of cruel work. Yes you are right at least if some man beats by women then they understand the pain of women.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
21 Aug 12
I think old tradition is continue running in our community old men feel they are brave and women are only for house work. But this is not good at least new generation men should understand this now women also able for everything and she can stand besides men for everywork. But this point is not fit in men mind.
@ridzzz0 (131)
1 Aug 12
reasons could be. 1)drink 2)stress,pressure 3)failure,looser and last but not the least is the men strong mentality. but its changing slowly.
1 Aug 12
I agree. But other men should CHANGE this personality as soon as possible.
• India
1 Aug 12
They thought wife is slave for them. this is called male savanishim
@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
1 Aug 12
Hi Mary, That's right people often think wife to be their slave and expect her to work for him. In India wives are like dependent on their husbands they are not allowed to do anything with her wish she has to take permission from her husband in most of the cases.
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
2 Aug 12
This is indeed a very sad situation, I think that men beat their wifes because they are weaker than them, and is easier to ease all the pressure of everyday problems with violence, than actually, doing something to solve the problems. In the end, they do this, because they are cowards. In way too many times, women does not find apropiate help either, because in not every country exists institutions dedicated to help women going through this problem, or, even worst, the do not find support in their own families.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 12
Things like this, it is often the case. And just kept going. There are many reasons why it all happened. I also frequent, saw a television show that discusses issues like that. Most of the reasons that appear, due to economic problems. There too, the issue of satisfaction. There is also, that for no apparent reason, most wives, keep it from family, because they do not want to be known by the family, or because they do not want to make the family became worried. Most women in my country to do so. The women, also did not want to tell neighbors, friends, or reported to the police, to maintain family honor.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
in every relationship, "respect" for one another should be the main thing. i believe in equal rights be it a man or a woman. have a great day
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
11 Aug 12
I believe it is a serious offence to torture and bearing torture silently too is wrong. One ought to speak out against such monsters hiding in our society. I am in India and I have watched that program on Sony. Really it is so disheartening and terrible that educated men have learned nothing actually except for trying to wield their muscle power and authority over men. Such men are sadistic by nature and they derive pleasure by subjugating a woman. Serious action needs to be taken against them. I hope the society will rise against domestic abuse and wash it off the face of earth!
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
5 Aug 12
It is out of excess energy for man and woman not being able to bear the stress from man. also due to greed for wealth, fame, money. this has been there for ages. men are considered stronger than men- exceptions can be there. good day.
@Umaiya (43)
• India
1 Aug 12
i think man beats up his wife because of various reasons like wife must not have obeyed him or must have objected or nething lyk dat. man has to understand his wife, what his wife wnts, what his wife likes andc wife should also try to make him understand. now, if a man beats up his wife because of no reason, hez a complete jerk. wife should file a complaint about him n should try to get a divorce. now, if a man murdered his wife, hez insane, hez not in his senses, hez mad.