Mylot members pet peeves

ahh now I know by what she post, I'm not comments cause I read and read but not understand what she talking about, well I try my best to comments back when someone give a positive comments or negative btw if there's some comments I'm not understand or have no answer for it, so I just keep on silent, I don't really think it's rude, it's better then when someone are posted and people respond but left their respond just like that at least the OP was giving a respond on others section comments

Hi Kourdapya and welcome to my lot. Me the only thing that really gets on my nerves is trying to think of what to say on the tags. So I put what I put in the post. I don't understand why we have to put tags to every discussion or response we make to different discussions. I say what I think is a good response to all discussions I respond to. Sometimes I may skip a persons response because I just plain don't know what to say to their response to my discussions. And most days I don't have a lot of time to spend on this site because I have so many other things going on in my life I just plain don't have the time to spend on here. Good luck!

My pet peeve is members who repeatedly insist that they haven't broken any rules when its clear that they have. Oh and people who try to justify themselves with made up loopholes ie. "Its not spam if its not a scam" Seriously? Now, to the topic of commenting. If you don't receive a response from someone, don't sweat it. Assuming its your habit to give valuable feedback, you will be earning more than they do. If this person has answered anyone at all, there is a chance they have answered you too. Indirectly of course. I f you happen to have given a similar response as the person they replied to. Speaking of similiar responses..well, sometimes everyone will say the exact same thing. Its against the guideline to give us all the same comment, so you have to start improvising to make it look different then you run out of ideas and everything starts sounding generic. Once again , that is where you start looking for their response to you, in the response they have given to others.

I don`t think that not responding is rude. I answer as much as I can, but I don`t have the time to comment on every answer. Sometimes I cannot find time to comment at all. It happened to me yesterday as I went to the beach for the day. Will I be able to do 2 days`work in one. I don`t know. But that`s not being rude. Rude for me is using rude language to someone else or to myself.

Lets fight over some issue first, and then we will know how we react to each others comments, if we remain friends that is..lol

I think I don't like when people get pissed if my response didn't exactly agree with their beliefs and lash out not by responding in an equally nice way, but by marking me so my score would go down. Like, I know I didn't violate any guidelines and I know I didn't mention any foul or nasty words but I was marked negatively just because I didn't agree with that person. But then, I just didn't mind it. Although it is irritating. We can all agree to disagree, right? And if there is something that we can still discuss to settle something then we can do so without being mean to each other. Good thing most people that I have encountered here are not like that. But sometimes, you will come in contact with people who seem to take everything the bad way. Oh well...

It doesn't bother me when people don't respond to one of my comments, although it's nice when they do. What bothers me is when people totally misinterpret something I wrote, or pick my post apart, focusing on one sentence that had little bearing on the major topic.

Good morning..kourdapya...I will not comment on the "ignored" responder part of this discussion as I already replied on "allknowings!" But I do have a serious pet peeve! Possibly it only bothers me...but I do find it very annoying when an OP starts a discussion that makes a blanket statement, such as; "This fruit is known to kill cancer!" That is such a sensitive subject to all, and it gives false hope. If one stumbles across an article like this on the internet, and you wish to post about it...SUPPLY A LINK, so that the responder can make up their own mind. I recently read a discussion like this, and there were so many innocent people that were "wowed" and vowed to increase their consumption, based on this post! I researched the "said fruit" only to find that there were possibilities..but a marked increased consumption would change chemistry of body and be TOXIC! I liken it to "medicine men"! It is scary, that innocent people, and there are plenty in this world...believe what they are told, without further investigation. I, too, feel victim to a Dr. on t.v., whom sang the benefits of "cinnamon", increased my intake markedly, to the amount specified...only to find out, after being diagnosed with a serious liver condition (caused by the cinnamon)that it was the very expensive and true cinnamon...not just the run of the mill..bought at all food stores. There, that is my biggest rant or pet peeve!Have a great day!

If people don't comment back to the responses and comments that I leave then that is their choice. It doesn't really bother me, except that I wonder why they botheres starting a topic for dicsussion in the first place if they then don't intend continuing the conversation. However it is their choice and them who will lose out on the earnings and fun so all be it. Instead I get annoyed when I see users who post incorrect information when trying to help out. If a user is given the wrong information about how to use myLot then it will interfere with how they go about things here and could spoil their participation. Often I see a new user asking a question about something and then someone responds with 'I think it is such and such...'. If a user doesn not know the answer and cannot help them out then they should move on and maybe come back to that topic later when the correct information will later have been posted.

on my own point of view,you can't force a member to comment on your discussion simply because for one,that particular member isn't interested on the topic that you posted.I myself is browsing through all the discussions here before I choose a discussion that I want to participate in.And if they left your discussion un commented its just because they have nothing to contribute or they are not interested at all.there are members here who I have seen posting nasty comments on some of the discussions here and I don't know why they are doing that.and also there are topics that are really hard to understand maybe because of the language barrier but yes those are present here at mylot.

Well, actually, to be honest, I am guilty for not responding to one member here when I posted a discussion several months back. It's because he/she has been harassing me with all the comments that I have made from other discussions. It was like he/she was contradicting me all the time to the point of letting me feel that I have never said anything right or do I even have the right to express the way that I felt. I never commented badly to her. I just let it pass.

Well, if i experience that, i would surely get annoyed too. Why would my response be skipped when the rest were responded? Can't the starter of the discussion just simply say a one liner at least, to acknowledge that she has read my response. That would suffice to me. In my case, when i respond i do it chronologically. That way, i don't overlook other response's boxes.

Because there are choosy people. The deal is if they don't like your answer never answer again.Sometimes, people take things personally and are not professional.

my pet peeve would be not with the posts, but knowing what's going on with the site! why has my moola not been upgraded? I'd just like to see how much I earned in my first day to get an idea.

hi one of my pet peeves is people and not just new ones who refuse to read the guidelines and learn how not to make discussions that will be deleted and yet cry and whine that they did not use foul words, did not do this or that , that or the other thing, and yet they still have not read the information that tells what the do nots are in making discussions. Its so easy to just read the guidelines and the FAQ's and know what the devil you are doing before starting to post anything.

The most of the time that I would skip over someones response is because I wouldn't know how to respond to the person at the moment and I would skip over it and if later I found a way of responding back to that person, then I would put a post back. Other times that I would skip over someone is because I just couldn't understand what they said. Which again, I wouldn't know how to respond. Its not because I have my favorites here or just cause I don't like someone, its just I don't know what to say. I really don't have any pet peeves about mylot at this moment that I could think of.