Why a Delay?

@DianneN (247204)
United States
January 3, 2016 7:43am CST
My husband noticed that our built in soap dispenser at the kitchen sink in Connecticut was broken beneath the counter. As he retrieved it, the bottle splashed caustic Dawn dish detergent into his left eye. He had the sense to splash water into his eye, but his natural tears dried up. Our eye doctor had him continue rinsing his eye and suggested we get Natural Tear drops. Our younger son happened to call just then, and offered to get it for us at the pharmacy, since my husband had just shaved and showered and I was about to shower. We had plans to drive to New York City to say goodbye to our in-laws and then attend a birthday party for my older son. To make a long story short, my husband, who had dressed, simply couldn't make the trip. His eye remained dry, irritated, red, swollen, and painful. He insisted I go to NYC with my younger son and his girlfriend, while he applied his drops and kept his eyes closed. Although his eye was 50% better the next day, he felt that he couldn't drive to Florida, as we had planned. We left the following day, even though his eye wasn't too much better. He insisted on driving, because he knew that I get nervous driving through New York and New Jersey, not to mention Washington, DC. Hence the delay. He healed up fine.
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@just4him (311116)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 16
I'm sorry that happened and am glad it healed up. Does he still need the Natural Tear drops or does his eye make tears again? Glad to see you here.
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
I hope his eye makes it's own tears once again/
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
Me too @just4him
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@just4him (311116)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Sep 19
@rebelann I hope it wasn't long before they did.
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@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 16
Glad to heard that your husband healed. I'm so sad about his accident. We always must protect our eyes .
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
Yes, too often we take our eyes for granted and forget to use caution.
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@Juliaacv (48973)
• Canada
3 Jan 16
What a scary experience that must have been-our eyes are so fragile. I'm sure that he'll wear a pair of safety glasses the next time he goes under your sink. I am glad that he is healing and I hope that this never happens again.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
3 Jan 16
It was scary, but he won't have to wear safety glasses when he goes under our sink. The plastic container was hanging by a thread and resting on neatly stacked trash bag boxes. When he removed a box to line our trash bin, the plastic bottle fell and splashed. Luckily, we had a new soap dispenser to replace the old. He was healed totally within the week. I am so relieved, since I was so worried and stressed. I felt so bad that he couldn't say goodby to his brother, who is still so ill, and that he missed our son's special birthday party. However, everyone was so understanding.
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@LadyDuck (462922)
• Switzerland
3 Jan 16
I am glad that his eye is find now. I had this problem years ago and my eye had been painful for a couple of days. Now I know why your trip to Florida was delayed.
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
I haven't had anything like that happen to me in years, thank goodness, but I do remember how painful it was. That's why pepperspray works so well on robbers.
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
Thieves and other criminals should be aware of that danger when attacking people with pepper spray @LadyDuck
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@LadyDuck (462922)
• Switzerland
21 Sep 19
@rebelann Pepper spray is illegal here, it can kill, inhaling can cause respiratory damages.
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@jaboUK (64360)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 16
I'm so glad there is no lasting damage, and that you were able to get to Florida even if you were a day late.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
3 Jan 16
I felt bad for my brother, too, who flew down with his wife the day we were supposed to arrive. His son flew down that evening. However, they made us dinner, since we had no time to grocery shop. I was stuck on the phone for three hours trying to get the tv, phone, and Internet rehooked with the terrible cable company we have no choice in using.
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@garymarsh6 (23402)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 16
That is one long drive all the way down there. It must take a couple of days. I bet it is far more comfortable if somewhat slower than by plane and at least YOU get to choose when you want to stop.
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@garymarsh6 (23402)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 16
@DianneN It was wonderful thanks. I am looking forward to hearing about your Trip to Turkey! Do you take turns in driving? It is an awful long way for one person to drive unless of course your husband becomes a back seat driver!
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
3 Jan 16
@garymarsh6 I am afraid to drive in unfamiliar territory, especially New York, New Jersey, and Washington DC. Pure Mayhem! So my husband did all the driving. Turkey was awesome. I will write posts about it. Very interesting country.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
3 Jan 16
It is a long drive, but we take our time, stop for gas and lunch, stop driving at 5:30 to check in to a hotel, and go out for dinner and a drink. The time passes quickly for me, because I'm online all day. After breakfast, we are on the road by 8:30. We are buying a car to keep here, so that we can fly back and forth from now on. My husband hated the drive down this year, especially due to his eye problem. How was Thailand?
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
3 Jan 16
I think he can use the eye rinse, and the eye drops. After he has rinsed the eye, then he uses the eye drops. It will help him recover faster. Fortunately he will not have permanent damage to the eye.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
3 Jan 16
The pharmacist suggested an eye rinse, too. I am happy he is fine now.
@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
I'm so glad he's healed but now I know why my optometrist prefers I still wear glasses
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• Preston, England
3 Jan 16
Sounds quite a distressing experience. Glad he is alright
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
I suppose only pepperspray would be worse.
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• Preston, England
21 Sep 19
@rebelann yes, that would be very painful
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
4 Jan 16
I'm sure that was quite painful. I once accidently squirted shampoo right out of the bottle into my eye and it hurt for days. I couldn't even keep it open that first day it happened.
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
That sounds so painful.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49468)
• United States
3 Jan 16
I am so glad to hear that he healed.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
3 Jan 16
Thanks, Marie. So are we!
• United States
21 Sep 19
I never thought that dish soap would cause so many problems with the eye. I am glad he is all healed..
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
23 Sep 19
Aww, thank you! That blue Dawn is so abrasive.
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@JudyEv (328848)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Jan 16
That sounds very nasty - and painful. I'm glad it has cleared up now.
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@rebelann (111718)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Sep 19
I'm glad I wear glasses, at least it's harder for stuff to squirt into my eyes.
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@JudyEv (328848)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Sep 19
@rebelann Yes, that's one benefit.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
3 Jan 16
Wow I bet that was a scary moment. Glad to hear his eye is now fine.
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@DianneN (247204)
• United States
3 Jan 16
It was just awful, but we are grateful he is fine now.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
3 Jan 16
@DianneN No doubt I would have been terrified.
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@deeraj005 (132)
• Mumbai, India
4 Jan 16
Hope your husband gets well soon... I guess he couldn't cry now, since his tears have dried up..
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@Elizaby (6901)
• Pensacola, Florida
3 Jan 16
Glad to hear the eye healed up fine.
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