Texting someone in the same room

@kevin1877uk (36988)
January 29, 2016 8:13pm CST
Texting someone in the same room Oh I do find it odd, the other week I was over at my kids and my middle one decided to text me, nothing wrong with that I hear you say. It would be ok if he was out and about but not in the same room. Not sure why he could just say instead of texting, it doesn’t make sense to me. It not the first time it happened either. Does you kid’s or the person whom you are living text you even if you are in the same room or in the next room.
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
30 Jan 16
My roommate and I will text each other from the next room. We do it all time time. Neither one of us wants to get up to go talk to the other. I guess you can call us lazy
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Yeah I guess so, I'd rather go and talk or say especially if they in the same room.
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
30 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk Me and Beckey have text in the same room sometimes. When we didn't want my roommate to hear what we were talking about!! That's just being sneaky.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
@T_gray Ok I understand that part which is ok when you don't want someone else to know what you are talking about or over hearing you.
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@carlaabt (3504)
• United States
30 Jan 16
My sister and I text each other when she's at my house so we can talk about something we can't talk about in front of my son. Haha.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
I see your point and a good idea :)
@adhyz99 (130)
31 Jan 16
it`s part to make the secret won`t be known by third parties..
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• United States
30 Jan 16
I live with my grandparents and my uncle. My grandmother will call me if she is at the other side of the house. Of course that's a bit different as some days she has trouble getting around. You reminded me of a time (10 years ago or so) when me and a few friends were sitting beside each other texting. We were giggling and having a good time. If I'm not mistaken we had all just recently received new phones and were testing them out. It can be rude to text back and forth with someone if others are in the room though. It is sort of pointless as well.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
I agree if you are in the same room. Ok having a new phone and seeing how it work etc is ok and maybe having a little fun too which is all good.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
@ScribbledAdNauseum I know what you mean I have three kids and two are like that, no all three can be glue to there small screen. They will be on FB or some other website talking to their friends.
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• United States
30 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk Communication outside of typing is important though. I have a niece who will come in to our house and not say one word to us for three hours because she's playing a game. I try to get her more active and she's been playing card games with us more. I don't know what / how she acts at home or their rules for her tablet use.
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
30 Jan 16
maybe didn't want to say whatever it was in front of people, or didn't want to interrupt something lol
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
@Jessicalynnt I said something like that to him, it was funny in a away, but at the same couldn't understand why.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
"Whats for dinner" was the text, I could understand it if maybe it was something else.
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• Centralia, Missouri
30 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk HAHAHAHAHA, I'd be like, I don't know, why don't you try your speaking voice and ask me,
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• United States
30 Jan 16
It doesn't sound strange to me at all. My family will do it too
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Lol maybe it's just me then.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
@Marilynda1225 More common than I thought with writing this.
• United States
30 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk no, it's not you..I find it a bit weird too but just saying that it's a common thing I think
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
30 Jan 16
Fortunately I live alone and don't have a cell phone @kevin1877uk . But it drives me nuts to see an entire family at a restaurant texting each other instead of 'talking' face to face. People are becoming robots.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Lol yeah i know what you mean you do see that happening a lot more these days.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
30 Jan 16
I don't have anyone text me at home when they are here but when they are at work I often get texts from them.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
31 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk Yes we talk a lot about a number of different subjects.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Thats good then, at least they talk to you while you are there instead of texting
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
@Marcyaz That's good then, glad that you do :)
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@celticeagle (159474)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Jan 16
We don't have cells so we don't test. I can see it happening thtought if you are in the habit of texting.
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@celticeagle (159474)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk ...Could be a lot worse I guess.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
@celticeagle Yeah I guess it could be.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
Yeah my kids have had phones for years now and glue to them.
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@vandana7 (98958)
• India
30 Jan 16
He wanted to say something that he did not want others in the same room to be aware of... without coming and whispering to you..which would look like bad manners. Even otherwise, it creates a kind of secret bonding which makes the kid feel secure I suppose. Come on...indulge him...:) That is love and trust flowing your way..:)
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@vandana7 (98958)
• India
30 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk ..cho chweet..lol. He just wanted your attention...and kind of bond with you to the exclusion of others. Did you scold him for that? Come on...
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
@vandana7 No I did never have done with my kids.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
"What for dinner" was the text message I got from him, why he couldn't just say I don't really know myself.
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• United States
30 Jan 16
Sometimes things are easier saying via text than in person sometimes.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Like "whats for dinner" was his text to me.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
@infatuatedbby Lol too lazy at times
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• United States
30 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk lol, lazy to talk maybe
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
I haven't had a SMS in this situation, but I have had an email on my smartphone from someone in the same meeting.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Lol a meeting might be totally different.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
@pgiblett True I guess :)
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk There was a reason - an instruction to someone who was about to speak.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jan 16
Yes, we do it at home especially if everyone is busy inside each room doing on line jobs,hehehee. We will be texted if food is ready on the table, hehe so eciting, no hassle.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Lol maybe it's just me that thinks it odd to text.
@paigea (35747)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
Yes and no. I wouldn't text my husband to tell him something. But I will text him an address of where we are going so he has it and can decide if he wants to write it down or just keep it in his phone. I will text myself for the same reason.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
Well that different and that happened to me lots especially with things like that.
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@paigea (35747)
• Canada
31 Jan 16
@kevin1877uk Yes, it is different
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
30 Jan 16
It seems kids are losing the art of conversation. I think it is strange to see them sitting near to each other, not saying a thing out loud, but talking with their fingers.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
Only on their phones they are ok, but i real life, hmm....
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
30 Jan 16
I know several adults who have the same habit. My two next door neighbours do this constantly. I have known them to have long conversations via text, whereas I would use text messaging only for a short message, otherwise I would simply telephone or speak to someone.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
30 Jan 16
@LoriAMoore I avoid long messages but also dislike text speech a always type full and correct English.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
30 Jan 16
I could text all day long but with someone in the same room, thats different.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Jan 16
I guess Im the only one in the USA who d oes not have a cellp;one and ipod or pad or other electronc gizmos you all thinkou cannot live without because Im on social secuirfty and SSI so I actually talk to people lol lol llol llol ll
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
Lol I'm sure you aren't the only one in the USA, then again maybe.
@adhyz99 (130)
31 Jan 16
Sometimes if i have many leisure time..i`ll text my wife when we are in same place (at home)..
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
Wow ok, it just me who things it odd lol.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 16
I hope the kids of today don't forget how to speak!
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
Only in text lol. The world would be a strange place if that happened.
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@gudheart (12659)
31 Jan 16
LOL it does make me laugh but I must admit I have done it before!! I only did it if I needed to text them some info that would save them time writing it down.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
It must be only me who's not done it lol
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Jan 16
NO! I find that ridiculous, for one we have prepaid phones and that`s a waste of money.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
31 Jan 16
I know over there you don't get the deal we have over here in the UK. Over there way to expensive I was surprised.