Did You Go Back Home?
By Shellyann36
@Shellyann36 (11383)
United States
February 20, 2016 8:20pm CST
When we are younger we often dream of growing up and moving away from the boring town we live in. Our eyes are always pointed to the greener grass. I moved out of my home town when I was 17 and I still live another county over. I did move back for a few years but left again as soon as I could. I have been settled here in this neighboring county for several years and I would not even phantom the thought of moving back home.
What about you? Do you live where you grew up or did you sprout wings and fly away?
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
I love that you have lived so many places!! It would be nice to travel to each of those countries. Which do you like the best?
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@LadyDuck One of these days I would love to visit Switzerland!
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
5 Mar 16
@Shellyann36 I love all the three countries, every one has something special. Switzerland is a good place where to retire because it is a safe and quiet country with excellent medical facilities.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@just4him sounds as if you could not wait to leave. Did you get to see much of the world while in the Navy?
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5 Mar 16
@Shellyann36 I was stationed in San Diego where I met my husband. He then got stationed on Guam, that was beautiful. I was out by then. And then it was back to San Diego where he was until he got out and we returned to the Midwest - he was from the Chicago area. So not a lot of the world. I did do Boot Camp in Maryland.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@just4him I think Guam would have been wonderful. I live in a military town and when my older boys were younger one of their friends (military family) went to Guam for a couple of years. Had some neat pictures to share on FB.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
21 Feb 16
I live in the next town over from where I grew up so I didn't go but 5 miles away. I am a homebody, I wander but I always return.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
It is good that you enjoy your home town. Most of my cousins stayed as well. Sometimes I miss the fact that my kids did not get to grow up with that close cousin bond like I did but I must admit that now that I am older the cousin bond has been gone a long time.
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@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
19 May 16
I call myself a homebody too, but wherever I'm living is my home even if not in my native town.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
25 Feb 16
I lived in my hometown until about 6 years ago. After moving away, I found that I had no interest in moving back home. But, we did move back for about a year and moved away again. If I had a choice, I wouldn't ever move back home.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
I love my family but other than them there is nothing in the area for me. I would never move back either.
@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
21 Feb 16
I flew away. Went to collage, married and moved from NY to,Kansas, lived there all,over the state for 25 years with two years away one in Indiana and one in Missouri, then moved to Canada. Canada was closer to where I grew up so saw my parents more.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
It is good to live near family. Sounds as if you got quite a bit of travel time under your belt.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@PainsOnSlate It is good that the kids were able to visit the grandparents. I think every child should know them if they are alive. Glad it worked out so well for your family.
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@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
5 Mar 16
@Shellyann36 we made the trip home to NY and Mass every summer to see our parents. Our children got to know them and that was a good thing.Both of our parents visited Kansas too. That was a surprise.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
21 Feb 16
I moved out of the town I grew up in when I was 20. My parents still lived there at the time. They have since passed away so I have no reason to go there. I now live about 25 miles south of there.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@fishtiger58 The house I grew up in burned down. It was sad to see but life goes on.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@fishtiger58 That is not too far away. Those 25 miles can make a world of difference though.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
5 Mar 16
@Shellyann36 I occasionally drive past the house I grew up in.
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@GardenGerty (169489)
• United States
16 May 16
I grew up and moved a state away. I do not miss home, but do try to visit some of the important people in my life.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
17 May 16
I think its nice to be close enough to visit or get there in case of an emergency. I love my family but I also like my privacy.

@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
17 May 16
@Marcyaz it is good to like where you live. I must say that I am very comfortable and settled where I am at right now.

@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
21 Feb 16
No I dont live where I grew up Shellyann. Long way away.
It is a long story but none of us can go home again..sad really.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
I guess if the family ties are strong it might be easier to go back. I love my parents but my Granny has passed on and without her the rest of the family (aunts, cousins) just seem different somehow. I don't miss them and really don't like going to see most of them. Don't be so sad. 



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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@Shellyann36 Hi Shellyann..well we all has to leave where we lived, so there is no family there anymore. I am sorry that your Granny passed and that things are so different now..I understand RIP your Granny. I am okay my friend hope you are too thanks



@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
17 May 16
I don't live but an hour or so away from my hometown but I hate going back. I would much rather have my family over here and cook for them at my house.
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@mom210 (9170)
• United States
18 May 16
@Shellyann36 I am kinda the same way, first nobody can handle 12 extra people in their house, so we cannot stay with anybody. It would be to expensive to get a hotel, we would have to get 2. So we just wait for people to come here, usually on their way to vacation in FL.
@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@dianadee nothing wrong with that at all. I don't mind visiting but when I visit I can always get up and leave again.
@dianadee (1778)
• South Africa
5 Mar 16
@Shellyann36 Sometimes you like to make a new start in a new place.
@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
17 May 16
@paigea Somewhat like my same situation. I like living close but not too close to be included in the family drama that goes on with my aunts/cousins etc. I have pretty much avoided them for years. I love my parents and sisters but I don't like the drama that comes with the rest of the family.
@AliCanary (4457)
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16 May 16
I grew up in West Virginia and flew away, first to Pennsylvania to go to college, and then to North Carolina to settle down. I did stay within driving distance, at least.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
17 May 16
What made you decide on North Carolina? I was born and raised here and thought about moving to Florida once, even had a job lined up but I could not find an affordable place to live. I still think about moving out of NC every once in a while but I don't think it will be any time soon.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
26 May 16
@AliCanary I grew up in Chatham County. I was born and raised there. I love Wilmington! If I could move to the beach I most certainly would. Chatham County has two sides, a very nice side and a side where all of the factories are located. I am afraid I lived on the factory side. Pollution galore going on. If I had lived on the other side of the county I doubt I would have ever moved....
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@AliCanary (4457)
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22 May 16
@Shellyann36 - My older sister lived in Wilmington for a while (she has since relocated to Chatham County), and I would visit her sometimes wen I was in high school and college. I loved the weather and the people, and it was certainly more affordable than Philadelphia, so we just picked up and moved down here!
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
17 May 16
@marsha32 I am finally back. I have been swamped the last few months. In March, April and the first week of May I dealt with asthma, bronchitis and pneumonia in the household. I got sick with pneumonia myself. I am back now! I have been to OKC, not exactly where I would want to live. Other parts of Oklahoma are not that bad though. Good to see you here!
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
6 Mar 16
Most we know are not living where they grew up. Times change-people change. It is good to be your own person and move on.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
17 May 16
@PatAnthony this is very true. I wish I could get my parents to move closer to me but I doubt they ever will.
@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@amnabas I think we all would like to have a place to call our very own.
@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
19 May 16
I did stay in the city where I grew up for the first twenty-six years of my life before moving away. I then spent several years in different states around the county and also attended a bible type college in Kansas for two years. I believe God told me to return to my home area and here I am still. We'd like to move further south, but can't until all our bills are paid off, so I don't know if it's a pipe dream or a possibility just yet.
By the way, I think you wanted fathom not phantom? You probably were working toward that and the spell check hadn't a clue of your idea? I'll remove this portion of the comment once you fix that, if you so choose.
@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@JudyEv Visiting is alright for me as well but not moving back. Its nice to visit but good to be able to leave and go back home.
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@Morethanamom (1948)
• Canada
21 Feb 16
I am only 30 minutes away from my home town, but I currently live in a smaller town than where I grew up. I kind of miss it, but I do love where I am.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
5 Mar 16
@Morethanamom it is good that you live so close and can visit often!





















