Troubled times

By sofs
@sofssu (23660)
March 2, 2016 10:40pm CST
Yesterday was a day of bad news. Two of my friends called to share some bad news . One of my friends who moved to another country has had trouble settling down. Finally after two years she did and found a friend too. She was happy that she has a friend she can talk too and has been telling me so much about her for the past year. Yesterday she called to tell that her friend was admitted to the emergency unit of a hospital in her neighborhood with some vomiting, later she went into a coma and then passed on. All this happened in a few hours. She is so shocked and inconsolable as I would expect. My other friend from high school, (we have been friends forever) called to share some really bad news. Her daughter a young girl of 23 was on a holiday in Nepal and was raped. The girl is absolutely shocked and just won't speak. My friend is in tears and terrible emotional pain. I have been on the phone all day trying to calm them down and help them. I hardly slept a wink last night.. Both of them have been my closest friends and it hurts that they have to go through such terrible pain. Just wanted to share my thoughts here and lighten my burden. EDIT I am sorry that I even wrote this post .. I cannot bring myself to respond to these comment. Kindly excuse me.
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13 responses
@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
4 Mar 16
It is totally okay that you do not respond to this post. You have a lot on your mind responding to your friends and their needs. Thank you for letting us be your friend and lifting you and them up in prayer and good thoughts. It is an illustration of how you trust us.
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@LadyDuck (502855)
• Italy
3 Mar 16
Oh my goodness, those are both terrible news. I can understand how sad your friend is, but I cannot even imagine the pain and the shock of the young girl who has been raped.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
3 Mar 16
Terrible news one after the other! How sad! If only i could help you comfort them.
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@sofssu (23660)
4 Mar 16
@salonga Keep them in your prayers please.
@iamshane487 (1138)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Mar 16
OMG! That was a horrible and disturbing news to hear from your friend who's daughter is raped. I wish the rapist will pay his immoral sin.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
3 Mar 16
I am sorry for your friends... I'm sure you are a great help to them at this difficult time ... I will keep you all in my prayers....
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@sofssu (23660)
4 Mar 16
@sueznewz2 Thank you.. both my friends do need them at this moment.
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@JudyEv (382618)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Mar 16
This is very, very sad. I am so sorry for you and for your friends. It would be hard having one friend in distress but to have two would be doubly worrying.
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@AmbiePam (121147)
• United States
3 Apr 16
I just wanted to share my condolences.
@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
3 Mar 16
What terrible news from both of your friends. I expect that you have been a big help to them by letting them unburden themselves to you.
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@gudheart (12659)
3 Mar 16
So sad to hear of all this :( It is good to get it out of your system and lighten your burden. Did the catch the person that raped her?
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
4 Mar 16
I would highly suggest a counselor, someone not family for her. Family may be too immediate
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• United States
3 Mar 16
i didn't wish to like this discussion coz both jest broke my heart . i'm sure they both treasure ya bein' there to hold their hand 'n do yer best to console 'em from afar. my deepest condolences 'n yer friends losses. both the loss'f life 'n innocence.
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@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
3 Mar 16
Felt sad on what happened with them. My prayers for their strength
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
3 Mar 16
You are being a good friend. How sad that there are rapists to prey on others. As if there weren't enough things like illness to give us troubles in our lives. Take care.
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