Do you smile at strangers?

@gudheart (12659)
April 6, 2016 9:03am CST
I am a smiley person and find if I do manage to make eye contact with strangers I do end up smiling at them, but do find not many will smile back!! It is hard to know what to do when I have eye contact with a complete stranger so I end up giving them a friendly smile...maybe it freaks them out which is why they don't always smile back!! Do you smile at strangers?
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
6 Apr 16
I do smile at strangers. Of course it's getting harder to make eye contact these days as everyone is looking at their phones.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
LOL you are so right about that! Everyone seems to be addicted to phones.
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• United States
7 Apr 16
I guess I'm a minority since I don't walk around looking at my phone.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
7 Apr 16
@Marilynda1225 @gudheart More often than not when I go somewhere I leave my phone at home.
@JohnRoberts (109845)
• Los Angeles, California
6 Apr 16
Never. I never even smile at myself or life.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
That sounds quite sad :( I know what you mean though, life can be make it hard to smile.
@1creekgirl (44170)
• United States
6 Apr 16
Wow, do you not ever find anything to smile about?
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@JohnRoberts (109845)
• Los Angeles, California
6 Apr 16
@1creekgirl Very rarely.
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• United States
6 Apr 16
Yes, I smile at strangers often, and they almost always smile back. There will be a few that do not, of course, but a lot not only smile and say "hi" back to me (I usually say "hi" or nod at them when I smile) but also walk away smiling and looking a lot brighter and happier.
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• United States
7 Apr 16
@gudheart Isn't it funny how something so simple as a smile and a "hi" can brighten your day?
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
@purplealabaster It really is. It is the simple things in life that makes the difference :D
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I feel the same way if I get a nice response :D
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@carebear29 (31988)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
6 Apr 16
Yes I do.
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@1creekgirl (44170)
• United States
6 Apr 16
I smile at everyone (well, most of the time.) Here in a small town in the southern USA, people will talk about you if you don't wave, so I wave at everyone when I'm driving because chances are I know them! Maybe in bigger cities, someone might think you want something if you smile. I'd still do it anyway.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I don't wave at people as most are strangers and think they would really look at me strange if I did wave!!
• United States
6 Apr 16
If I make eye contact with a stranger I will smile and usually will get one back
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I like it when that happens :D
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
6 Apr 16
I do. You can feel the aura of someone by just looking at them.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
It can be a good feeling to have someone smile back.
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
@gudheart I agree to that.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
@LdeL0318 It really does help kick start a day if someone smiles back
@kevin1877uk (36987)
7 Apr 16
I would smile back at you
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
That is nice :D Where have you been not chatted to you in ages?
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
6 Apr 16
When i was in college i used to smile a lot even to strangers i met on the street but somebody told me to stop it because it attracted the attention of good and the bad persons. So from then onwards up to now i still dont make eye contact with strangers and dont smile at anybody i dont know. Its dangerous.
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@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
@gudheart Thank God you have not encountered bad elements
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I have not had the issue yet of attracting unwanted attention...thankfully!
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@Hate2Iron (15726)
• Canada
6 Apr 16
Yes, I do, but you are right... a lot won't smile back! I could never understand that! Maybe it does unnerve them!
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I assume the same thing that they don't expect it sometimes and not sure how to respond!
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@Hate2Iron (15726)
• Canada
7 Apr 16
@gudheart That has to be it I guess. I tend to forget that people won't always think the same way as I do!
@Lucky15 (37382)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
always do, to everyone actually :D
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
That is lovely :D Need more people like you here LOL
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@Lucky15 (37382)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
@gudheart aww.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
sometimes if the person I meet has a smiling face and nice personality, I smile and I always get a smile back.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
That is good to hear :D Not that common where I am though lol
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Apr 16
@gudheart so, your neighbors included do not smile at you even though you smile at them?
• Japan
7 Apr 16
Always! I was taught to be polite and show care for everyone. A smile might make someone's day better.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I believe that too. It feels nice to see friendly people around.
@JMAndres (702)
• Zamboanga City, Philippines
6 Apr 16
I really want to try to smile to strangers, It has that nice feeling if you see someone who will smile at you :) and so I also want to do it. But every time I try to smile to them I feel shy and ends up looking downward. :( I am amaze that you do that. :)
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I am quite a shy person to be honest but for some reason to avoid awkwardness I smile.
@JMAndres (702)
• Zamboanga City, Philippines
7 Apr 16
@gudheart I guess if it will be a habit it can lessen awkwardness between people. :)
@kaka135 (14970)
• Malaysia
6 Apr 16
I guess it depends on where we stay. In some countries, people might not be so friendly to strangers. I always smile at others, even strangers, sometimes I even make conversations with them (of course, I'll see if it's a person who is nice and can talk to). But, in my country, this is not very common. Some might not feel easy to talk to strangers, some don't even smile back too. I understand that, because it's not really common here. When I was studying in Australia, I think it seems to be a culture or norm there, everyone just greets everyone morning or good day when they meet someone. I like this culture there. When I just came back and started my first job, my ex-colleagues even found it weird when I greeted them good morning, and most of them didn't respond at the beginning.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I just say hi, you okay to strangers at work that I have not talked to before.
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@dodo19 (47362)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Apr 16
If someone makes eye contact with me, I'll usually smile at them. I don't always get a smile back, but I will smile at them.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I am the same.
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@marlina (154115)
• Canada
6 Apr 16
I am not a big smiler at strangers.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I can understand that. I think I did it manly when we gain eye contact and I feel awkward if I don't smile lol
@akalinus (44365)
• United States
6 Apr 16
Yeah, I do. But there is so much scamming and suspicion in the world that people don't trust others who smile at them. They probably wonder why someone is showing an interest in them. There is not much we can do about that.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
That is true, could be why many don't smile back.
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@JudyEv (363585)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Apr 16
I usually make eye contact and smile. Around here most people will smile back - luckily. I hate it when people don't return the smile. Then I feel a bit silly.
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
I do feel a bit embarrassed if I don't get a smile back!
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@Dena91 (17014)
• United States
6 Apr 16
At times I do and they usually smile back. Have a blessed day
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@gudheart (12659)
7 Apr 16
You have a blessed day also :D
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