~I'm Flattered But Not What I Expected When Sitting Outside~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
Valdosta, Georgia
April 8, 2016 11:49am CST
I went outside to clear my head, with my coffee in hand to just enjoy the weather and fresh air for a few minutes. I'm sitting there minding my business when a guy walks down the sidewalk. He says hey, how you doing today? I said hey back and I'm doing okay.
He kept walking for a second and stopped. He walks back a few steps and said If your single I would love to leave you my number.
I said I'm not, I'm married. And he walked away.
That was not what I expected while enjoying my couple minutes of peace but weird things happen around here sometimes. Lol.
Have you ever been hit on totally unexpectedly like that?
I said I'm not, I'm married. And he walked away.
That was not what I expected while enjoying my couple minutes of peace but weird things happen around here sometimes. Lol.
Have you ever been hit on totally unexpectedly like that?19 people like this
24 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@jstory07 Aw, I am sure your husband is not happy when it happens! Lol.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@bounce58 Well thank you for the compliment!
And that would be one heck of a hike just to tell me I am beautiful! You could have just messaged me here silly and told me that!
You sure do go far and out of your way to make a girl feel special!
And that would be one heck of a hike just to tell me I am beautiful! You could have just messaged me here silly and told me that!
You sure do go far and out of your way to make a girl feel special!1 person likes this
@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
8 Apr 16
The guy is just taking a chance
he was wrong with you so he would probably move on to the next girl he finds attractive, hope it's just that
he was wrong with you so he would probably move on to the next girl he finds attractive, hope it's just that
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
8 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies There are really honest and nice guys ( I hope) who do those things just casually and randomly, hoping that probably we would get attention or probably meet someone we like, have a nice talk and probably fall for the bait
we could readily sense if a girl looks interested or we catch her attention, things like that, well this guy just missed lol!
we could readily sense if a girl looks interested or we catch her attention, things like that, well this guy just missed lol!1 person likes this
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@louievill Lol, well I am sure he was a nice guy because once I said I was married he walked away. Either very smart man or very polite-either way it was a good thing he walked. Lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@louievill Yeah he was just hoping I would say yeah, but when I didn't I am sure he found someone else to take his number. 

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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Apr 16
I get that too. But its nice if you think about it.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@carebear29 It was flattering, and also a little strange. Lol
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@DanieGirl80587 (2724)
• United States
8 Apr 16
Oh yeah. It's nice to get hit on once in a while. But I always wear my ring too as to not confuse people. I know guys don't always care about that, but I let them know I am happily married and have a child. That usually gets their attention and motivation to walk away.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@DanieGirl80587 Yeah I had mine on but he was pretty far to actually see it. Lol. He walked away pretty fast when I said I was married.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2724)
• United States
8 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies Yeah most men don't want to deal with that or actually have morals and respect the lady lol.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@Angel_15 Aw, I'm sure your still very pretty with or without the 15 pounds. =)
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@GardenGerty (169474)
• United States
8 Apr 16
Yes, I have, but I would say that this guy at least was polite.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@GardenGerty Yes he was polite-I will give him that! =)
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
9 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies
Yes it is good he did walk away as you never know what or who he is.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@Marcyaz It was definitely different but I'm glad he walked away once I said I am married.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@Marcyaz Yes exactly! I don't need any problems.
@dodo19 (48159)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Apr 16
Well, I don't think I've ever been hit on like this, but my husband has noticed other guys noticing me and checking me out. For the most part, they've pretty much all been older men. MUCH older men. So, as much as I may a little flattered, I'm still not sure how I feel about these men checking me out.
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@dodo19 (48159)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies well, I'm glad that I'm not the only one.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@dodo19 Yeah my husband has pointed it out to me in the past as well. Lol. Older men like me too!
I find it to be sweet.
I find it to be sweet.1 person likes this

@toniganzon (77181)
• Philippines
9 Apr 16
Yes. Happened to me several times. There was even one guy who didn't believe I was married and he said i was making an alibi because i didn't want to give him my number. 

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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@toniganzon Oh wow that guy was a little extreme! Lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@Juliaacv Yes he was respectful about it and I did appreciate that. It was definitely unexpected. Lol
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@AbbyGreenhill (45490)
• United States
9 Apr 16
I'm an old lady, my being hit on days are long in the past. Enjoy the compliment.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@Abbygreenhill Your still beautiful no matter what age you are. =) 5 years ago I would have been thrilled about that same situation but I am just past that stage now. I like compliments from my husband. =-)
@AbbyGreenhill (45490)
• United States
9 Apr 16
@CoralLevang If you are referring to me....the answer is too often.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@CRK109 Yeah very different! Lol. I am sure at some point it has happened to you.
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
9 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies I do remember once when I was at a club with my husband. He had gone to the rest room and while he was gone, a guy came up to my table and asked me to dance. I told him I was married, so no, but thanks for asking. So maybe that counts. :)
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
9 Apr 16
Being complimented with that question, I'm sure you do look like you're still single and young, Ms. Jennifer. However, in our country, such an action of the guy would be considered as being fresh. Cultures differ though :)
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@sunrisefan It is interesting to me that cultures do differ so much the way they do. Thank you, it was a compliment-and he was respectful about it since he walked away when I said I am married.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
9 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies that was good of him. Thanks, Ms. Jennifer :) Enjoy your weekend.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@MsTickle I am sure you have been hit on before. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 16
@thesids There's nothing wrong with a friendly conversation, and I was just being polite. Definitely didn't expect it to go there. Lol
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
9 Apr 16
not surprised. you are attractive and a very nice person, too.
i think it was decent of him to start with 'if you're single...'
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@xstitcher (39032)
• Petaluma, California
8 Apr 16
Yipe. No, I can't say that's happened to me recently !
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@xsticher Well I am sure it did at some point! Lol
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@JudyEv Yes I was glad that he walked away after I said that. It was sweet.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Apr 16
@Ruby3881 Yes I am very grateful once I said I was married that he walked away.









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