Coming to an End

@just4him (323168)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
April 18, 2016 10:55pm CST
The notifications are caught up. I checked out what's hot and saw I've read those too. Checked out the follows activities, and read those too - same as hot discussions. Checked out newbies and found nothing of any kind of interest. Sorry, but one liners don't interest me. I need more of a post than that to sink my teeth into. So it looks like I've been the round to everyone who was here today. So I'm going to work on a book, I hope. Since my father passed, I haven't had any desire to get back to it yet, but know I must. I did work on Scarred a bit yesterday. Took care of all the suggestions that came back to me from the person who's helping me with the edit for the second edition. I hope I get out of this lack of enthusiasm I've had for everything since my father passed. I know it's all part of grief, but it's infringing on my life. So with nothing more to read, I will leave you for another day and will check in with all of you again tomorrow. Thanks for reading.
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@AmbiePam (120738)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I wish we could get through the stages of grief in one fell swoop.
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19 Apr 16
That will never happen everyone is different.
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@AmbiePam (120738)
• United States
19 Apr 16
@jstory07 Obviously. I'm talking about wishing.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
@jstory07 Yes they are.
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
19 Apr 16
I hope everything goes well with you soon.
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
20 Apr 16
@just4him It will. Just have faith.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
Thank you. I hope so too.
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@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Apr 16
I think it is normal to be a bit depressed for a period of time after a major family figure passes. Just take it a day at time. Hope you feel better with spring coming. I just recently wrote a discussion about adding members to my follow list from time to time. People who respond to my discussion or just people I find interesting in the explore category.. It has helped me to find more/new discussions to respond to.
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@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Apr 16
@just4him ....Oh, good. Glad you were able to go forward with that. I have been a bit behind. I f ound the discussion and responded to it.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
That's great. I'll check it out. By the way, I got my office organized. I cited you in the post I wrote about it. It was a while ago now. A couple weeks.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Apr 16
@celticeagle It does feel good to have it changed around. I didn't think it was possible.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
19 Apr 16
sometimes forcing through it, even for small amounts helps. Like 5 minutes today 10 minutes tomorrow, etc
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• Centralia, Missouri
20 Apr 16
@just4him well not the actually doing something useful, but the sitting down and staring at it can be. Writing can be too, it may be crap, but it's still writing. Ive learned that with NANOWRIMO
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Apr 16
@Jessicalynnt I am severely annoyed with myself when I write crap. If I can't do better than that, I don't write.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
It really can't be forced, but it is manageable, at least I hope so.
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• Eugene, Oregon
19 Apr 16
At least you recognize what is happening and know why. That means you can fix it.
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@JudyEv (382068)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Apr 16
Sometimes it can be very hard to get motivated can't it? I hope you have more mental energy soon.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
So do I. I'm feeling more myself today than in the past week.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
19 Apr 16
When you have nothing left to check on mylot it is time to go someplace else or doing something else. Have a good day.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
True
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Apr 16
You must have done a lot here today! =) I'm sorry about your fathers passing and I hope you get your motivation back soon.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Apr 16
I tried to do a lot today, but the computer fought with me so it's taken all day to get the notifications done and I still have a lot to do.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Apr 16
I hope you find something o read thT will get your attention.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
20 Apr 16
@just4him I meant as in Mylot
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
I do have plenty to read, but I find myself turning to my own stories most of the time. I pulled one up last night that still needs to be finished.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Apr 16
@ShyBear88 I usually find plenty to read here. There isn't always something new to read here. Some people don't post every day, and some people only post once a day, so it really limits what I find to read that I haven't already read.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
19 Apr 16
Wow you are doing better than e, I seem to be struggling lately to keep up with notifications.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
19 Apr 16
@just4him I get close every so often and then I look at the post and it has ten comments I haven't responded to l
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Apr 16
@BelleStarr I get the same way. But what can we do except plow through them. They are always interesting and then I get to find out what everyone who commented is up to. I love interaction!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
It took me all day to get through them. I hope you get caught up too.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I'm still struggling to catch up. It's been too beautiful outside for me to stay inside on the computer.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
19 Apr 16
@just4him It's sunny and 70, but too breezy for me, so here I am while Doodles naps. Then he'll want to go out again. Sheesh!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Apr 16
@DianneN It's fun having a pet around. It takes care of the stress of life, and gives you something to do - take him outside - what a life he leads.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
I have no problem doing so today. The cool air and rain have returned.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
19 Apr 16
i hope you will be back again after your time of "bereavement" about the passing away of your father.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
Of course I will. I never really left.
• Stanton, Kentucky
19 Apr 16
I totally understand your feelings. It's almost a year since my Daddy's passing and I can't seem to muster up any real enthusiasm on most days. Praying that you will be able to focus on your book soon.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
Thank you. I intend to get at it today. I didn't get at it yesterday at all.