Using every occasion sad or happy to extract money

Hello Anindita, welcome to myLot! Hmmm... very interesting question... very thought provoking, as well... Well, I recognize the type of person you are describing here. There are a few of them in my family. What I have done in the cases I am talking about is ignore them... I understand the concept of needing money for certain things, but because I understand that concept, I also understand that the best thing to do in these situations is to ignore someone asking or acting like they want/need money. Things happen, I know, but that doesn't mean I am responsible for their shortage of money. I work for my living and they should be working for their living, too. We all have something in our lives that we aren't happy with/about, but decent people don't try to extract money from all and sundry, either. We suck up our problems and show a happy, calm and caring face to the world, no matter what is going on inside. No matter how affected we are by the situation at hand, or the coming situation, which, is always looming on our horizon. I hope my perspective is helpful to you, and good luck!

Such people are like parasites. They stay with you just to feed themselves.

I have a simple way. I borrow from banks. I say I have loans to clear.

I have learned to ignore them. I have no obligation to pay anyone and I do not care what people think, I do not give anymore money to friends and family members.

It seems that every time the phone rings or the mail arrives, there are pleas for money from bills, charities, and scammers with clever schemes. The news brings more pleas. Someone's dog was hit by a car. A child is sick. Someone wants a dream wedding, yada, yada, yada. After a while, I just turn a deaf ear to it all. Yes, I give to my church. Yes, sometimes I give to causes. I just wish all the noise would stop.

First and foremost would be to ignore them. Secondly if they are part of the same group then the devil in me would ask them for money . Needless to mention on all occasions.. sad or happy. Trust me I can do something like that.

some folks'll jest bleed'ja dry if'n ya allow'em to. i grew'p where one did without 'til they were able to work'n save fer 'emselves. a concept that seems to've passed with time... that bein' said, i'm quite generous't times. i'll not give'em money - e'er. if'n they've a bill needin' paid (like their utilities'r fixin' to be cut off otherwise), i'll take the bill'n pay't myself. if'n they need groceries, i'll go to the store with 'em'n purchase their necessities only. if'n they proclaim hunger'n no place to live, i'll take 'em fer a hot meal 'n then by the shelter fer assistance. i know that cultures vary'n the refusal'f cavin' into those kinda folks can be frowned 'pon. but, one needs to learn to stand'n their own 2 feet sooner'r later'n life. a hand'p 'tis way diff'rent than a hand-out. sometimes sayin' "no" 'tis the best thing fer'em'n the long run.

Like @LadyDuck, I would ignore them. But I haven't had that happen very often. I have lent money to friends, and was paid back eventually, but I don't know that I'd do that now.

I would ignore them.

I wouldn't. I walk away.

Here..some are like that and becomes a big syndicate

such people are the one i don't like ,money minded where is emotions in them are the human or machine

It's sad that such people exist. It seems to be a worldwide phenomenon, it happens to you in India, it happens to me in the US. Anyway, I would not treat them kindly.