At what age were you the happiest?

@TheHorse (203666)
Walnut Creek, California
August 18, 2016 5:46pm CST
I've worked two days straight at my friend's preschool in Berkeley. Kicking back and watching the kids play makes me happy, though I'm often involved in their games. This morning one of my young friends made me a sand cup of coffee, and I made her some sand ice cream in return. I also brought my friend's upright bass to the preschool today and let each of the kids "play" it. Watching the kids play got me to thinking about when I was happiest in my life. I'd have to say I hit two peaks, one when I was five and another when I was 27. When I was five, both my parents were alive (and together), I felt safe, and my dad took me hiking a lot. When I was 27, I was in Graduate School, knew what I wanted to do, had a cool girlfriend, and was in my first ever real band. Can you think of times in you life that you consider to be happiest?
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@WorDazza (15836)
• Manchester, England
19 Aug 16
From 21 to 25 I considered myself extremely happy. Young, free, single, living and working in London, life was a social whirl. Looking back I'm not sure I was really happy. It was all a bit false really. I'm really happy right now. Two grown up kids doing really well in their chosen fields. About to move house and begin the next stage of my life which will involve spending more time with my wife and the animals in a nicer setting.
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@vandana7 (98515)
• India
19 Aug 16
Congratulations. You are a living proof that men don't know what happiness is all about and need a wise wife to drill some wisdom in them.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 16
Wife and animals. That sounds good to me.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 16
@vandana7 Oh dear. As long as women don't give me directions, or fail to understand the importance of baseball, I guess I'm OK with them.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
During teen years...when i spent more time.bonding with my family.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
My family was a tad troubled during my teen years. I was looking forward to going to college and not having to look after my little brother, who was not very responsible.
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• Dublin, Ireland
22 Aug 16
yeah absolutely agreed i also never forget my teen days.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Aug 16
@mohdusmanali123 Mine were pretty good overall, in spite of the responsibilities I didn't enjoy.
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@jaboUK (64363)
• United Kingdom
18 Aug 16
You obviously love kids - do you have any of your own? I've been so lucky in my life - I've enjoyed every age I've been. Now I'm in my 8th decade and I'm still enjoying life.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
I've been fairly optimistic, and at least somewhat happy, for most of my life. Kids? Who needs 'em! They destroy stereo gear, fart spontaneously, think the world revolves around them, and are expensive. Feh.
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• United States
19 Aug 16
that's kinda a loaded question, eh? prolly when i 'twas 'bout 5 'r 6 - my first ride'n a 'real' horse (i'd ridden ponies 'n mules) - we were visitin' kin down'n south texas 'n the great uncle took me to the track where he trained, tossed me'p 'n the back 'f one... the births 'f my young'uns trumps e'en that.
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• United States
19 Aug 16
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
@crazyhorseladycx Why not? That doesn't make me happy.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
Do yer younguns come to visit you?
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@sol_cee (38224)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
Handsome boy.
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@vandana7 (98515)
• India
19 Aug 16
Devastatingly so...problem is when they grow up!
@vandana7 (98515)
• India
20 Aug 16
@sol_cee ... Yeah...then they forget to smile...become solemn like priests or angry like angry birds...smh. Very good friends though...because then those solemn glares are directed at others, and anger too is directed at others.
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@sol_cee (38224)
• Philippines
19 Aug 16
@vandana7 become a horse? lol
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@anya12adwi (6012)
• India
19 Aug 16
i even wasnt happy after getting birth.. so i cant remember really when i was happy last time!!
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
19 Aug 16
hahaha well said
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
You mean being born? I doubt I was happy about that.
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• India
22 Aug 16
@Drosophila hehe.. Thank you sire!!
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@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
19 Aug 16
My happiest moment was when I got my first hob after finishing my studies.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
Is "hob" the same as "job"?
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
18 Aug 16
highschool, those were the years.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
Why? Not for me!
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• Centralia, Missouri
20 Aug 16
@TheHorse I was in marching band, band was life. I had the best group of friends, more freedom and the time to enjoy it, those were the days.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 16
@Jessicalynnt Aw, that sounds like fun!
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
I remember my happiest moment was when I was hired as a banker and when my first baby was born.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
Did those happen at about the same time?
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@Rohvannyn (3098)
• United States
19 Aug 16
I think I was probably the happiest in early high school when I was with my best friend, in college when I thought I knew everything and didn't know a thing, and right now when I know I don't know squat and am working on trying to learn everything in the world.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 16
I kind of like knowing that I know nothing. But thinking I knew everything was fun too.
@JudyEv (323658)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Aug 16
Probably 8 to 12 were pretty good. I loved the farm, the animals and the freedom. I'm pretty happy right now too.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 16
You sound pretty happy these days!
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@JudyEv (323658)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Aug 16
@TheHorse I know I'm really lucky to be basically healthy, to have a loving husband and some good friends. I know this is much more than many have so I don't worry about wanting anything else.
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@andriaperry (116876)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Aug 16
Yes at 11 years old, my mom was still alive.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
Having parents around makes a difference.
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• Japan
19 Aug 16
This is a good question. All I know is that I am pretty happy most of the time. I loved school and college.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
I enjoyed college too. I'd have to add 21 to my list if I really thought about it. My Senior year of college was really fun and productive.
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@teamfreak16 (43451)
• Denver, Colorado
19 Aug 16
In my 30's. That's when I had the most fun.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
What kind of fun? I played a lot of softball in my 30s. I enjoyed that, but it was in my 30s that I realized that everything I thought I knew was wrong.
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@teamfreak16 (43451)
• Denver, Colorado
19 Aug 16
@TheHorse - Just tons of mountain biking, skiing, and snowboarding, partying with a group of like-minded friends. Lots of girls. Fun decade.
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@Juliaacv (48220)
• Canada
18 Aug 16
I think that between the ages of about 25, to about 28 years were my happiest. That was when I became married, and had my 2 beloved children. And although there were hard times, especially when our daughter was born with such heart complications, and although we buried her during her first year, we were held the tightest bond as a family during those years. My husband and I often talk about 1991, when we were going thru that. And we thank goodness that our son is healthy.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
It sounds like and incredible combination of the beautiful and the tragic. I'm glad your son is healthy too!
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
18 Aug 16
Wow. Well my childhood till age 12, and ages 19-22 when my husband to be and I were "just" girlfriend and boyfriend. We had good times and I have many happy memories of that. I can imagine your having your first band and your cool girlfriend.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
Yeah, those were fun days. I was playing a lot of softball then too.
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• United States
19 Aug 16
Not really sure honestly. All my ages have their ups and downs. I liked my late teens a lot and my early-mid twenties. I'm pushing 30 and so far my life has been pretty good and have been blessed with a wonderful husband, son, roof over our heads and food on the table with good friends to talk to and see.
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• United States
19 Aug 16
@TheHorse Couldn't agree more. :-)
@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
Sounds good! Overall, I'd say I've had it pretty good too. For me, as an adult, it's important to have things in life that give it meaning.
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@Inlemay (17714)
• South Africa
19 Aug 16
so far i would say 50 years old
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
18 Aug 16
You were so cute!!!!! I'm the happiest now.
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@TheHorse (203666)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 16
What happened to me!
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@RubyHawk (99437)
• Atlanta, Georgia
19 Aug 16
I can't think of any particular time when I was happiest. I always have had my ups and downs.
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