My neighbor called the cops! AGAIN!

Grand Junction, Colorado
October 17, 2016 1:24pm CST
A little back ground. I live on a dirt road with 5 other neighbors, we each are on 3 to 8 acres of land. The neighbor that lives at the end of the road and has 8 acres and has had an on going problem with the neighbor next door to me, which is also there next door neighbor. This is a Hispanic family with 2 manufactured homes on their 3 acres. I don't know how many people live over there, but I would estimate approx 10 to 12 people. They keep to themselves for the most part. Some wave when they drive by or are out in the yard and others over there don't. No one speaks very good English over there so we don't hang out. We do help each other from time to time with moving large items. The neighbor at the end has had a problem with them ever since I moved in. Mostly because of loud parties, the uncleanliness of there yard and the "stealing" of goats. Mostly the parties. Now most of these parties take place on Friday and Saturday nights, but not always. Most of the time they are over by 11, but have been known to go well after midnight. The music is very loud and sometimes it's a live Mariachi Band. Last night was one such night that it didn't take place on a Friday or a Saturday night. People started to arrive around 5 pm by 7 pm it was in full swing. Now I had my windows in the front open and was watching TV in the middle of the house, and unless I went outside or to the master bedroom. I couldn't here them. But my neighbor at the end of the road could, and called the cops around 8:10 pm. I know the time because she sent me a text, letting me know that "the ruckus" should be ending soon she had called the cops. Ummm, ok. At 9:35 I got a phone call and then several text messages. The next door neighbor had threatened to shoot her if she didn't leave there property. She had apparently given up on the cops coming and had gone over there to "ask" them to turn down the music, that they were being rude and inconsiderate. She went back home and called 911. Cops did respond, but they parked out on the street and walked in, I'm guessing because they didn't find the threat real, since this is the unknowneth time she has called the cops. Now I get that she is a nurse, and that she has a baby (now over the age of 1) and that they rent out part of there property to people passing through in RV's and some are traveling nurses. However we have to listen to the up and down the street in tow trucks throughout the day and night. I guess we have a noise ordinance on Sundays that goes into affect at 6 pm. I wouldn't think where we are that we would have a noise ordinance. She told me last night that she is probably going to have to take them to court and that she will be calling us in as witnesses. Not sure what she hopes to accomplish, I have only had an issue with noise over there once and that was on New Year's and they were shooting off guns over there. The cops no longer seem to respond to the complaints in a timely fashion. They don't drive in, they walk. The party breaks up after they have been called out. We don't live on top of each other and while you can hear the parties most of the time it isn't really a big deal to me. How do you feel when your neighbors have gatherings? Do you think she is over reacting? If you read through the whole discussion thank you. Any thoughts would be appreciated?
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@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
17 Oct 16
It doesn't bother me. I keep to myself and I never complain and I would never even dream of calling the cops. I do think that she is over reacting and then to say she is taking them to court and you will have to be a witness. I would not like that one bit. I think that is something she should have asked you about and not just told you.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
17 Oct 16
I keep thinking she is over reacting, Most of the time when the parties are held I'm closer to the noise than she is, much closer. Last night was not the case do to some flooding that has been going on over there they had the party on the side closer to her. Whether or not they threatened to "shoot her" I don't know. She accused them of stealing her goats awhile back. She is over dramatic with everything. Her boyfriend has a daughter from a previous relationship and that is an ongoing saga, in and out of court. She sent me a subpoena to appear in a custody trial. I had never met the mom, and had no first hand information, the only thing that I could say was that they (neighbors) appeared to be good parents from my limited time around them.
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@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
17 Oct 16
@beaniefanatic13 that is ridiculous. She sounds very dramatic to me. Some people just love to go to court for anything and everything. It is definitely not for me.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Oct 16
I feel its not bad if it is not weekly. a person can handle some partying noise now and then but to Impose your fun on others weekly is not right. everyone deserves some quiet time. that's how I feel. we had some like that once and I could not understand how they could not just keep their fun to themselves most times
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
26 Oct 16
Compared to the first year I lived there, they have toned it down. They had parties nearly every weekend. Now it's just about once a month.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
17 Oct 16
Never called the cops, never would but I do understand as a parent why she'd be upset. Unless you've ever had to spend hours trying to get a baby to go to sleep only to have it woken again by loud noises from the neighbors house you could never know. The noises would not have been of any concern to me had my kids been at a relatives house instead. Not sure about else where, but we have different types of communities to suit different needs. If you are a party person(s), you move to a college town or a place with lots of night clubs and such. You do not go to a family neighborhood which is built far from such places for good reason and start breaking out the sombreros and blasting your music. The police here are very strict about loud parties in family communities and will put a stop it it in a heart beat.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
17 Oct 16
I know exactly where you're coming from, I have lived in apts, when I was younger that the noise was a problem. But people move to the country to get away from the complaining neighbors. Where you can throw a big shindig and have a great time. Now for me it was a work night, she works Tuesday's and Wednesday's. I might have had more sympathy last night had she not called the police at 8. I never responded to that text. She knows that I get up very early to go to work and yet she called my house at 9:35. I know that she isn't one, on a non school night to have kids in bed before 9. We have no school today. She is the type that everyone should be considerate towards her, but she doesn't give a second thought to the consideration of others. I say this, because of the things she has said to my daughter, following up with "I say this because I love you." I will just have to wait and see how this plays out. I really don't want to get into the middle of one neighbor and the other.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
17 Oct 16
Yes, I think she's over reacting. It's not as if their houses are joined together, there must be a fair bit of space between them. If I were you I'd keep out of it and refuse to be a witness if it goes to court.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
17 Oct 16
I will only go if she subpoenas me. I can't imagine what help I could be, as most of the parties don't bother me and the few that have, it's just an annoyance to me.
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
17 Oct 16
I live in a townhouse converted to flats and one is the landlords. There is next to no noise blocking floor to floor and the girl above me does niggle me with her constant use of the washing machine but it's always off by midnight. I know I could have a way more noisy neighbour which would make living here an utter nightmare so I haven't said anything to her. I think your neighbour is way over reacting especially so early...if it was 1am or something that's another matter.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
17 Oct 16
I personally think that she has other issues with them. It really has been one thing after another. She was complaining when they brought the second home in. Then complained about how many people are over there. She complains all the time about the junkiness of the place. I think she has a better view of the junkiness than I do. For the most part It doesn't bother me, as I feel it could always be worse. I don't think that a noise ordinance makes sense for Sunday at 6 pm, if it even applies to our area, which I still have doubts about.
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@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
18 Oct 16
Where i live, we have to be much more tolerant of such noises. Not everything can be controlled. But even so, i live in a colony with apartment complexes and as a community we have set rules about the expected decorum. Everyone's homes and windows are relatively close to each other. 99% of the people are good neighbors and follow the rules and guidelines. It is just good neighborly behavior. The give and take in a society. And if someone is planing something that might cause a disturbance, we have a online email system where we can inform everyone of the inconvenience beforehand.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
18 Oct 16
I like the notifying before hand. The notification that we get is when we see all the vehicles arriving. You can bet within an hour after the vehicle's arrive that the music will start. As I said it' really doesn't bother me much, just sometimes it's a bit of an annoyance.
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@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
18 Oct 16
That's understandable. You seem to be the more tolerant neighbor.
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@vandana7 (98894)
• India
17 Oct 16
I think there should be ban of such noise beyond specific decibels.
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@jstory07 (134487)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Oct 16
The couple next to us are young and have parties every weekend and i do not care. they are in their own home brothering noone.
@paigea (35716)
• Canada
18 Oct 16
I don't mind if neighbours have loud parties. I mind if it sounds like fighting.
@CoolPeace (1566)
• Miami, Florida
18 Oct 16
I think she is taken it to far and that is what people do at parties they have fun. She can't tell you to be a witness if you don't want to.