Disappointed

@just4him (309155)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
January 27, 2017 10:39am CST
It seems the people on the site have one agenda and it's causing me to become less than happy about being here. I've now seen it in poem form, as well as all the bashing going on. I've had two minds to just leave for the day and not come back until tomorrow, or at least try and clear out my notifications, which I haven't done for two days now. There are a lot of things I don't like, but I don't rant about them endlessly in every post. I'm almost afraid to go to profiles now for fear of what I'm going to read. I know a lot about what's happening because of all your posts. I'm trying not to have an opinion about it all. That doesn't mean I'm hiding my head in the sand. It means I'd rather read about something else for a change. How about birthdays, birthday parties, vacations, holidays, weekend plans, even Super Bowl hopefuls. I'd even like to hear about your relationship woes. I would like to read about anything, even if you are going sky diving this weekend. I'm not. Going up in a hot air balloon? Tell me about it. Tell me about the craziest things you've ever done. But please, let's be done with that topic. I'm not going to say I don't care. I live here too. I do care. I just don't want to read about it in every single post. Thanks for reading.
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• United States
27 Jan 17
I stayed off the bandwagon for two years and only recently started a few posts of the type you refer to. Acutally one was more but unfriending. If I see a title and it doesn't interest me - I move on.... Just scrolled thru the list and I see posts about snow,music,being sick and a zillion others that have nothing to do with politics.
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• United States
27 Jan 17
@just4him there but are things I don't care to read...I would rather spend time reading what I am interested in.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jan 17
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
Usually I've already read those ones. I don't like to be discourteous and not read something when someone took the time to read my post and comment on it.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
27 Jan 17
I have been unable to be here lately. I am spending time trying to catch up with everything. Maybe ignorance is bliss.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
Ignorance would be bliss if it wasn't so much in everyone's face, on and off the site.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jan 17
@HazySue , me too lots of problems here and works left and right in school.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Feb 17
@cacay1 it seems as though we tend to spend a lot of time just trying to keep up with the flow of things.
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@yukimori (10143)
• United States
27 Jan 17
The interest categories on the 'old' myLot site made it a lot easier to avoid subjects when we got tired of reading the same thing in every discussion. It does get old after a while.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
Yes it does.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jan 17
@Mike197602 I would like to think I have a thick skin. I made it through all the pre-election debates that started what two years before the election, then all the negative commercials from both sides, and through the election. Now one week into the new term, someone stepped on my last straw.
@Mike197602 (15490)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 17
Remember what the politics section was like when obama got elected? It was open warfare Things have calmed down a lot on new mylot...not for the better in my opinion. I'd like to see some sections brought back and new ones added for those of us with a thicker skin
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@NJChicaa (116342)
• United States
27 Jan 17
I don't blame you. I'm sick of seeing it all over my FB too.
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@GardenGerty (157971)
• United States
28 Jan 17
@just4him All over swagbuck videos too. Yuk.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jan 17
@NJChicaa , I agree, mine in FB, I delete.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
It's everywhere. I'd like to read other things for a change.
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
27 Jan 17
Hm, political stuff? I know, seems like atopic everyone wants to voice their opinion on. Sometimes I think there are some good points I would like to write about, I wish to remain respectful to even the people who don't share my opinions. Which is something that has been lost this election I think. Another one for me is people who always write about the money on here. Makes me sad, I know they have other thoughts and adventures too.... I hope... right?
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
I hope so, but when it seems to be the mainstay of their topics, you know they're here only for the money. I read a post a couple days ago from a person who said they would be gone as soon as they made payout until next month. It's probably why the halls of myLot look so bare the first couple weeks of the month. I'm doing my best not to have an opinion.
@Kandae11 (53806)
27 Jan 17
I agree with your observation, a little lightening up will be great
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jan 17
@Kandae11, That is right.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
Yes it would.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
27 Jan 17
Not to be upsetting about this but right now everything is upside down. People are completely uncertain what is going to happen to this country now. So, just like we had to read about the past administration, we now have to read about this one. And personally, I don't think that is a good enough reason to leave the site. There are many more posts or you to read and comment on. And posts like the ones you said you would like to read about instead. So do go blaming MyLot for any of this. And after all, this is supposed to be a free country. Lets not get crazy about things.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
29 Jan 17
@just4him You have to have a thick skin on any social media site. Especially Facebook and Twitter. If we don't we will all just be fighting one another. And that is just plain stupid.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
I have no intention of leaving the site. I do realize we have the freedom to post whatever we like and I like that about the site. I don't blame myLot for what people post. I'm doing my best not to get crazy about what I read or post.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
@inertia4 I agree.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
27 Jan 17
I am unaware of this.But if you say so.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
27 Jan 17
@just4him I try to stay away from them.They are getting boring to me.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
Then you haven't seen all the political posts?
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
28 Jan 17
well I tried to make todays poem a bit more positive
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• Centralia, Missouri
30 Jan 17
@just4him well that's ok, it is what it is. :-)
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
I read it. I did not comment. Which is a first for me in not commenting on something I've read.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Jan 17
@Jessicalynnt Yes it is.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
27 Jan 17
This post is beyond me. I don't understand the allusions.
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• Greece
30 Jan 17
@just4him I am glad you sorted this out for the rest of us as I had no idea what you were talking about.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
27 Jan 17
@just4him Oh, I see. Maybe it takes a US American to understand it.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
It's all about Trump.
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• Midland, Michigan
27 Jan 17
I know I'm not around as much as you are, but I've been here a bit more this week and I've not seen any of those. I will check back several posts to find something that interests me. If you're talking about politics as a few here have surmised, I don't think I've seen any of that since before the inauguration. But, if you must, take that break, for it would probably do you a bit of good.
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• Midland, Michigan
28 Jan 17
@just4him So I gathered, but I didn't realize you'd seen them all this morning, but maybe this week or month.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
I've seen quite a few political ones this morning.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
@MarshaMusselman It seems like there's a few every day.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
28 Jan 17
Sharing and caring is good but but respond only which one interest me. Forced to reply for earnings is not my policy.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
29 Jan 17
@just4him Yes we can find a variety of discussion here.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
@shshiju Yes we can.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
I never reply for earnings. I reply out of courtesy and let the person know I've read their post.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
27 Jan 17
We all seem to have things we don't care for. If I don't have anything to say, I move on. That is what is so wonderful about this site.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jan 17
@DianneN This is the site that my heart always longs for whenever I am away. We have lots of troubles in school this time.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
30 Jan 17
@cacay1 I'm so sorry.
@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
Yes we do. The site is wonderful and so are the people.
• Agra, India
27 Jan 17
I cannot get what agenda are you talking about..
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
I didn't want to name it specifically, as I thought everyone would understand it's about Trump.
@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
27 Jan 17
I think it's political stuff
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• Agra, India
27 Jan 17
@FayeHazel ohhh.is it?
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@jstory07 (135277)
• Roseburg, Oregon
31 Jan 17
That is why I do not write about those things. I did go up in a hot air balloon before and that was really a lot of fun.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
31 Jan 17
I imagine it was.
@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jan 17
So sad,, I hope you are okay my dear. I am always absent here and now I read this post of yours in dismay of some posts.I hope you still like my post that tells about flood.Yes, our campus is flooding again this very day.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
Yes, I saw that and I am so sad for you and hope the rain stops soon so the flooding will stop.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
28 Jan 17
Oops, my bad @just4him . I did one.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
I saw it.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
27 Jan 17
My poem was/is from both point of views! Trump supporters as well as who are against him. It depends on the perspective of the reader.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
I liked your poem, tired of the topic.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jan 17
@Daljinder I don't want you to leave either.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
27 Jan 17
@just4him I stayed away from the topic myself initially. I stated several months ago that I am not fond of the guy but I was okay to give the guy a chance. I mean what else you can do right? He won. Let see him do his duties. But a certain member here wasn't okay with that and thought it prudent to send suggestion after suggestion on posts telling "Trump is great". Then proceeded to do so on facebook too. Now I am on "Annoyed" mode and since last few days I have been avoiding that person. I even went away for a month and a half from myLot and facebook to avoid all this election business. So instead of confronting the person, I am taking my annoyance out on Trump debates. Since there is not much to debate here at the moment. It is better than having a go at a person and have myself banned from myLot. I am certain I will not be very respectful or polite if a confrontation happens with that person. I don't want to leave myLot.
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@thelme55 (76557)
• Germany
28 Jan 17
I have no idea what's going on here. I was away for a few days and was not able to read the discussions.
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
It's all the politics surrounding the inauguration.
27 Jan 17
Is that about politics?
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@just4him (309155)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jan 17
Yes.
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29 Jan 17
@just4him Oh...
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