The Difference Between

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There are many differences between men and women. These are the things I have noticed over the years. Men are taught to be strong, non emotional or at least to keep those emotions to themselves. Women cry, when they are happy and when they are sad. We don’t keep our emotions locked up or to ourselves. Many many things matter to a woman. Many things don’t matter to men. I have heard this statement many times over my marriage to my husband, It doesn’t matter. That one statement really bothers me. I feel like if it matters to only one person in the whole world then it matters. When a woman gets sick, we still have stuff to do. It almost seems like we are not allowed to be sick, as the rest of the family doesn’t know how to take care of the things that need to be taken care of, so sick or not the woman has to get them done. When men are sick it’s basically the end of the world. They moan and whine, they need stuff, like orange juice and the remote to the tv, and the woman has to get it for them. Guys can fix things. Ok this one really slays me. How do they almost automatically know how to fix things. I mean really is this an inborn thing? Seems my husband can fix almost everything. I haven’t a clue how to fix anything for the most part. As my kids were growing up they never came to me to fix stuff they always went to their dad. How the heck did they know I couldn’t fix it. Well I can’t but how did they know that? Men don’t care if their clothes match or if their shirt has a huge hole in it. They wear it anyway. Women can’t be wearing clothes if there is a hole in it. We have to take a shower, put on makeup, brush our hair, and wear perfume, just to go to the grocery store. I don’t know about you other ladies but I find a really holey shirt of my husbands I throw it away. He will get it out of the garbage and at the very least use it as a rag after much badgering from me not to ever wear it again. Men are little boys in big boy bodies. I mean this as a compliment…….. sort of. Men can sit and watch cartoons on tv and laugh like a little boy. I don’t get that. They don’t seem to completely lose their little boy imagination like women do. Women are way more serious than most men. Women have to control the way money is spent. Men are much more free at spending the money, women like to save it. Now I know that all men and all women may not be just as I have described, we are all individuals but on average this is how I see things. I’m sure many of you ladies and men have different ideas on the difference between the sexes. Care to share your thoughts?