This is How I Feel about NOT Working!
By DianneN
@DianneN (247157)
United States
August 23, 2017 12:42pm CST
I had a longish and successful career as a general education teacher, special education teacher, and professor of special education at our local university. However, I took an early retirement buy out offer, and it was an opportunity I couldn't refuse.
Sure, I loved teaching. I loved my coworkers. I loved many of the parents. I even loved most of the principals, superintendents, and supervisors.
I am still good friends with many of the staff and parents. We go out for lunches, drinks, and I still attend school parties.
However, I love being free to sleep late. I love being able to read more and do whatever I want during school hours. I love receiving the same amount of money per month as I did when teaching, raises and all. I love being able to spend my winters in Florida. I love seeing friends and family whenever I want.
I still get those going back to school feelings, a mixture of anticipation and anxiety, but it lessens each year.
No more superintendent's address, no more workshops and staff development, no more parent teacher conferences, no more paperwork, no more lugging a book bag back and forth daily, no more meetings before meetings, no more legal documents to write, and no more bus duty! Woot Woot!'
Don't get me wrong. I loved my career, but love my life now!
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56 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Well that is good you still get the same amount of money as well as raises too Dianne! That is a big bonus!
Of course you would love being able to do as you please.
I am glad life has been good to you in your career and now retirement.



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@Courtlynn (67091)
• United States
23 Aug 17
I can feel your excitement for being retired all the way here.
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@allknowing (154126)
• India
24 Aug 17
You do seem to have a full life which would not have been possible if you were stilL working. I gave up working midway and did so many things. I did a course in German, attended a few computer classes, went on a foreign holiday, learnt to swim, had time to visit friends and family, started my own business designing landscaped gardens.and last but not the least had time to travel to the place where I am now, to build SOLITAIRE
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@andriaperry (118725)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Aug 17
You did your time, now go and enjoy the rest of your life.
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@TheHorse (230871)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Jan 18
"Did my time" is sometimes how I feel about working with poor families for so many years. Right now I just work with upper middle-class Jewish kids at the preschool (they're absolutely precious and their parents are fun to talk to) and my college students.
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@andriaperry (118725)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Jan 18
@TheHorse I would like to think I will retire one day, travel and have fun but I dont see it in the near future. Unless I suddenly get rich.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
24 Aug 17
Good for you! So many people retire and find out that they can't stand it.
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@responsiveme (22924)
• India
24 Aug 17
I am at the stage of loving my career right now
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@mysimplelot (1347)
• Calcutta, India
24 Aug 17
At some point of time we do remember our old days. I remember my school days too.I hate paperworks too. You can do whatever you like but feeling like not working is worse because it does not keep your spirit alive.
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@FayeHazel (40231)
• United States
23 Aug 17
That is awesome. It always makes me sad when some retired folks sort of crumble - nothing to do.... it sounds like your life is very full and enjoyable I'm happy to hear
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@FayeHazel (40231)
• United States
24 Aug 17
@DianneN Awesome, the best way to live, I think!
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@GardenGerty (165918)
• United States
24 Aug 17
I have not worked at any career long enough to ever dream of retirement in this way. I also tend to become a hermit when not working. I recognize both the ups and downs of what I do and believe me, I would jump at a chance to change to something less consuming and stressful. My daughter points out that I have spent my life taking care of people, especially the last twenty years. That is both family and work. I am looking for a way to take care of me. We enjoy you sharing your retirement life with us though.
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@vandana7 (102408)
• India
11 Jan 18
I have somewhat that type of thing going on, but not completely. Unlike in the US we out here do not necessarily have some social security or even 401K. lol. My earnings have all gone into home loans, yes, I took three of them in my lifetime and cleared them fast fast. The last one was actually to save taxes. lol. Home loans help to save taxes out here. Now I am free of them, but I sort of retired almost 7-8 odd years ago. I planned my retirement. Rents would pay for home loans as well as living. I earned initially for medical insurance and some charities. Now, whatever I earn leaves for charities. You'd think I can sit peacefully. You'd be wrong. lol. I do have to get homes repaired, pay taxes, negotiate rents, get rental agreements, etc. Dad has been helping so far, but I am slipping into mold. What this sort of retirement has done is, help me bond with dad. I have never had much of that opportunity. Suddenly, the bond seems stronger, notwithstanding all the differences. I get offers for job even now, but enough is enough. I am now devoting my energies to earning some for others, and of course, handling some cases I have unfortunately landed into. One case, we have been fighting for more than 30 years. I want to take it up seriously now.
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@vandana7 (102408)
• India
12 Jan 18
@TheHorse I have told you before, and I am telling you once more. There is something called "adverse possession". So you do need to have a look at it almost on regular basis - once in a quarter or at least half year. Rent collections are different from mining and even agricultural or grazing leases. These are done each month. These also put us in contact with tenants on monthly basis, so the tenants can tell us we are facing this issue, and that issue. We need to attend to those. I worked, I earned decent sums almost 250 dollars per month., (which was almost my monthly home expense at the time..lol, even now I earn about a 100 dollars, but the case that I am now being dragged into is that of a society in which we have participated for the last 30 odd years. The aunt who is handling it so far, is now aging, and she wants to share the mantle if not hand it over. I have been chosen because of my experience in real estate field, and not having a full time employment or responsibilities of kids, for now. It suits me too, because I can be around to look after other aunts, and dad, like a freelancer, and sort of catch the bull by its horn when I have spare time. Overall, only 60 to 75 documents to be discussed in the court Pony. But the blessed thing has been through so many advocates and each one of them preparing half the papers, forgetting some and so on and so forth since the narrative is long. This time, a complete list has been prepared. I have reached the 54th document. I am not done as yet because I do have questions that need answers. Thereafter, each of those documents would need authentic certified copy to form the evidence. After that, at the next hearing, which I expect will be around August, 2018, we should be able to move the blessed thing. This thing needs to be done on war footing because it has dragged on for way too long. Many of the members are no more. I want it to be cleared before dad goes. If it comes, it may be worth about $300,000 plus for us, though aunt is saying it may be double that. I don't know. All I know is, this is an attempt at land grabbing, by none other than the government and it is proving a tough hurdle. The evidences are now stacked up against the government because in another case the government has furnished the document partly proving our title for disproving others title, and taken those lands. So it stands to lose one of the two cases. That would become very serious for the government because that land is truly very expensive. Two years ago, we came across those papers, and from then, the government is not allowing any hearing in the court.

@moffittjc (125723)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 Aug 17
I am so jealous! I wish I was in a position to retire right now, because I am somewhat burned out on my career. I have a little less than five years to go before I can retire with my full pension. I'm sorta hoping that in about 3-4 years we enter into another recession, because typically during downturns in the economy governments offer early retirement and buyouts of employees to thin the employee ranks. And I would take the offer in a heartbeat if it came my way! I want to be like you and sleep in as late as I want!
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@moffittjc (125723)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 Aug 17
@DianneN I'm thinking I might be able to hang in there and make it five more years, because time definitely speeds up as we age, so it should fly by pretty fast!
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@DianneN (247157)
• United States
24 Aug 17
@moffittjc It does go quickly in retrospect. You can do it!
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@JamesHxstatic (29411)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Aug 17
I know that teaching can be a grueling career. Anne taught on air force bases in Turkey and Germany for a number of years.
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