Would you take revenge?
By dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
Delhi, India
November 20, 2017 10:52pm CST
We often get hurt by others. When we feel hurt our first reaction is of anger then our mind start thinking about taking revenge or paying back the person in the same coin. However, on second thought, sometimes we let go our anger and move ahead or sometimes we think in the direction of taking revenge. When you are hurt do you let go or feel like taking revenge from the person who has hurt you? Do you feel that taking revenge won't serve any purpose and it could do more harm to yourself than good? Do you feel that taking revenge is an immature act?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
It means that you let go, if someone hurts you?
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@TheInvisibleMan (17603)
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21 Nov 17
@dpk262006 I can even think of bad things, but never do them.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
@TheInvisibleMan Apparently, you don't convert your bad feelings or negative thoughts into action. 
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
It will be in your mind only to take revenge but you would not practically take revenge due to one reason or the other.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Dec 17
@chooseyourmissy1234 Yes, you are right.
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@chooseyourmissy1234 (532)
• , New York
3 Dec 17
@dpk262006 revenge can turn out to be very dangerous
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
21 Nov 17
I don't consider revenge as an immature act. It's human nature to acct hastily when we are hurt. It takes wisdom, a lot of courage to stop that.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
@toniganzon I am sorry to hear that your parents were killed.
It was wiser on your part to not to go for revenge, as it would have caused trouble to you also.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
If someone hurts you, will you take revenge in any form?
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
21 Nov 17
@dpk262006 My parents were killed. We didn't take revenge.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
It is a saner approach to not to go for revenge. If we are able to control our anger and let go, that would be better course of action. Yes, you are right that we need to be more careful from those, who try to hurt us.
@chooseyourmissy1234 (532)
• , New York
3 Dec 17
@dpk262006 I am trying this technique, and I find that it is the best way .
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
It is said that one should not take decision when s/he is in anger. It is wiser on your part that when someone hurts you and you get angry but you do not convert your anger into a revenge. Taking revenge also affects us.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
@LadyDuck Yes, our action in anger may make us feel regretful at a later stage.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
21 Nov 17
@dpk262006 I agree, sooner or later you will know that you made the wrong decision while in anger.
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@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
19 May 21
When we are angry we have revenge in our mind but I try to avoid those persons and leave them
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 May 21
It's saner on your part that those who trouble you, you let them go. Ignoring them is one of the best options.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 May 21
@Butterfingers Yeah, I got your point. It is better to let your anger cool down and then act. When we are angry, our mind prompts us to take revenge.
PS - Thanks very much for responding to my old discussions, you made them active once again.
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@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
19 May 21
@dpk262006 As I sad when I am angry I may plan to take revenge but soon when I am calm I will ignore and reject the revenge plans
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@youless (112164)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Nov 17
I think most of the time I will not take revenge. I will just feel angry but it is no need for me to take revenge because it is a kind of wasting time in my opinion. The bad people will deserve something bad sooner or later by themselves. I still think that good people deserve something good and bad people deserve something bad.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
It is wiser on your part to not to convert your anger into revenge. I agree with you that it would be a kind of wastage of time. You let it go in the home that bad people will meet their fate and you should not take revenge from them.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
Sometimes you think of taking revenge, however, if you feel that it is practically not possible, you let go. Is not it?
@cahaya1983 (11120)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 17
In the heat of the moment it would probably cross my mind, but I would never go as far as actually doing it.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
It means that the thought of taking revenge may cross your mind in the fit of anger but you would practically not go for it, as you know that it is not good in the long run.
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@chooseyourmissy1234 (532)
• , New York
3 Dec 17
Its best to move on in this type of situation; seeking revenge. Can turn out to be unpredictable, and one could regret what they have done to seek revenge.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Dec 17
Yes, you are right that taking revenge does not serve any purpose, on the other hand it could hard us.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 17
It is wiser on your part that to not to go for revenge, when you are feeling angry. You control your anger and let it go.
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@pitsipeahie (4428)
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21 Nov 17
I get angry yes, even very angry but revenge? I've never taken revenge on anyone. What would it tell about me if I had vengeance? I won't put myself low with such an act. It was never my thing to hurt someone back. It won't make me happy, it won't make me feel good regardless of whether they deserve it or not. I just let go and let God. As they say, the best revenge is to move on and get over it.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 17
It is saner on your part that you are able to control your anger and you do not think of taking revenge with anyone. Yes, you are right that taking revenge could bring you at par with the person who hurt you. It is better to move on and get over it.
. Yes, you are right that taking revenge could bring you at par with the person who hurt you. It is better to move on and get over it.1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 May 21
It's saner on your part that those who trouble you, you let them go. Ignoring them is one of the best options.
You seem very kind hearted and sweet, revenge is not your cup of tea. 
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