Even I was wrong about Mylot !!!

@sjvg1976 (41131)
Delhi, India
January 26, 2018 3:09am CST
This post is inspired by @babesay. She wrote that she didn't know that even on mylot there are people who are rude. Is there any place where you won't find all sorts of people. Even I used to feel that all people are nice as they behave they are nice but few of them are not. Always be careful of such people . I know it's difficult to know them but not an impossible thing . So try to find them out and get them out of your life. Do you easily find out such people or not?. How do you do that?
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
26 Jan 18
In the old myLot it was terrible. There were gangs who attacked you. Not so bad now. But there are some who I have got rid of from my life and I am at peace.
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• Philippines
26 Jan 18
Hello @allknowing yeah they were a lot of bad people then.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
26 Jan 18
The main person is not here these days - the person who was the leader of that gang
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 18
@allknowing who was that? I am here from last 7-8 years but never knew about him.
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@vandana7 (98786)
• India
26 Jan 18
People are not always rude or nice! Sometimes they are rude because other person has misbehaved with them. What is being declared as rude also needs to be studied before deciding whether the person was rude.
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@vandana7 (98786)
• India
26 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 Problem with the way they are expressing? Give a wide berth...till proved otherwise.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 18
But sometimes even after studying their behaviour still it's difficult to figure out if they are rude or not.
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@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
26 Jan 18
I did not able to met a rude person so far here on myLot, maybe I met some people who are really honest... There are honest people who tell the truth, and sometimes, it might sound rude to other people.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
26 Jan 18
I honestly can't remember anyone being unkind in the discussions I've been in or started, but I tend to avoid the hot topics that people tend to fight about. I come to make friends and have relaxing conversations.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 18
Absolutely even I keep my self away from such topics.
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• Philippines
26 Jan 18
You weren't here when mylot was more than eleven years ago. I can tell you that mylot is a lot better now than before. Not to mention that we have a very active admin and JJ the sheep servant of SCAR is also here.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 18
Yes I was not here 11 years back.
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@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
26 Jan 18
Define rude. If you ask a person (or the public) a question and they give you an answer you don't agree with....that's not rude. Misunderstanding....poor English....all factor in.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
26 Jan 18
There are a few people here that I'd refer to as blunt, rather than rude. I rarely encounter genuinely hostile people (aka trolls) on this site. Of course we have to consider that with members of varying cultures some unintentionally "mean" things may get said.
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
26 Jan 18
I accept that this kind of people exist both online and offline. We should ignore them as they are full of negative vibes
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@Juliaacv (48378)
• Canada
26 Jan 18
Depending on what you mean by rude, there are probably going to be some people here that would fit that bill. We are all different.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 Jan 18
I've seen very little rudeness since I've been on this site.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
26 Jan 18
I haven't seen anybody being very rude so I can't say much on this topic...
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
26 Jan 18
Ya I too great in recognising
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 18
That's good. But I am not that great.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
27 Jan 18
@mohit459 it doesn't matter , even the experienced people don't able to recognise people.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
27 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 ohhh.... I was just kidding about it..... You know more than me sir.. as you know how the life is, you have seen more ups-&-down and you are well more about the society and life..
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@Mshafeeq (1445)
• Bangalore, India
26 Jan 18
I too think people are nice but from inside they are not, they sometimes play around and pretend to be nice those people are real danger than vigorous snake cobra. sholuld be very careful in life about choosing your friends and be it in family. take care.
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• Saint Lucia
26 Jan 18
Rude people exist everywhere. The trick is to defeat them with kindness. Takes so much effort to be mean and so little to be nice. **smile**
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@yugocean (9965)
• India
27 Jan 18
Don't worry was not wrong about myLot, and I know how society is, and we too are part in society. I am most unfriendly fellow But Disciplined.
• Austin, Texas
26 Jan 18
No, I don't easily find those people. In my experience, those people usually find me. Since I can't see them and they can't see me and I don't know really know what they're going through in their life, I just write it off that they're having a bad day. Of course, if they keep doing it, then I move them from the Having a Bad Day column to the Grumpy/Oscar the Grouch column.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
27 Jan 18
May be you also lack the quality of identifying people
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• Austin, Texas
27 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 - Hey! I just start off trying to give them the benefit of the doubt.
@Simonsum (78)
• China
27 Jan 18
Sometimes it depends on the circumstance, when people surrounding you are all polite and nice, you are not able to get rude, but on the contrary, you will find it is hard to keep polite otherwise you are a Saint. Even though, I quite agree with the saying that there is no place where you won't find all sorts of people.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
27 Jan 18
Yes every time one can't be polite he has to react as per the circumstances.
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
26 Jan 18
Such people are everywhere. Don’t be surprised.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Jan 18
I keep myself away from such persons .but I didn't face any problems till now.as their is block option we can always make use of it :)
@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
26 Jan 18
maybe someone was rude to me but i always let it go, it`s not worth it to loose time on them. If someone will be rude to me i will delete his response or comment and go on with my life.
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