Want To Be Happier? Here Are Some Suggestions

By DB
@dgobucks226 (37621)
March 15, 2018 6:56pm CST
Here are some ways you can boost your happiness levels if you start feeling a bit blue. These tips just might help you maintain that happiness throughout the year or at least provide a pick me up when needed. 1. Borrow or get a pet- Many of you enjoy your pets so much they become part of your posts. That alone tells me pets can provide pleasure for their owners. In fact, research shows pet owners have lower blood pressure. Another plus, they can provide comfort and companionship when your feeling lonely. 2. Smell happy smells- I have scented candles in my home. Vanilla is a personal favorite. Research has shown some fragences to alter moods in a positive way. 3. Go shopping! Research has shown looking at something aestetically pleasing, beautiful, and functional made them happy. So maybe an occasional indulgence can't hurt. Hey the Dollar store should not hurt the purse or wallet too much! 4. Join a group- Belonging to a group to which you feel connected through shared values and interests can help you to feel happier. Studies have shown group happiness is contagious. Surround yourself with happy people and you will be happier. 5. Wear happy clothes- Never considered our mood being reflective of what we wear. But maybe choosing clothes we enjoy wearing and makes us feel good when were feeling a bit off can provide a mood boost. 6. Dance- There have been studies done suggesting those who took a dance class after heart surgery were happier than those who ran on a treadmill. It also seemed to reduce stress and anxiety. Shake a leg anyone? 7. Find a Hobby- If My Lotting is your hobby what a great way to relax, lower your stress, and provide one with enjoyment. So there you have some "go to" self-help ways to escape the blahs. As a wise old person once said, "give it a try, it can't hurt." Source- msn.com Photo- finerminds.com
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
16 Mar 18
Mylotting makes me happy.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
19 Mar 18
@dgobucks226 I totally agree with you.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
19 Mar 18
@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Me too. A very enjoyable outlet to help one's mood!
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16 Mar 18
If a person's hobby turns out to be his/her profession then that'll be the perfect satisfaction for him/her.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Yes, that would be a perfect combination. I used to do some paid coaching and it was so much fun plus rewarding to help others and to actually be compensated was terrific.
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19 Mar 18
@dgobucks226 great...keep it up.
• Pamplona, Spain
18 Mar 18
Just being out in the sun makes me feel so much better and great tips too. Thank you for the great information.
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• Pamplona, Spain
20 Mar 18
@dgobucks226 Right on because although its freezing cold outside I am off out again for a while to get the last bit of sun before it says ta ta for the day.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
19 Mar 18
Sure thing! And that's a great tip yourself about being out in the sun. It always makes me happy!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
20 Mar 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 Enjoy those rays!
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
16 Mar 18
Besides the ones you mentioned , there is one hobby that really makes me happy and that's gardening.not only is it a very productive hobby ,it's also very relaxing as well.
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
20 Mar 18
@dgobucks226 Absolutely
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
I am with you jujunme. I also enjoy gardening. It is an enjoyable way to pass the time, you accomplish something, it allows you to be creative, and provides a purpose. And best of all, the beautiful garden resulting from your work is quite rewarding!
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
16 Mar 18
Very good tips. I do most of them. One thing that helps is to get outside and enjoy Nature. There is so much beauty out there that it sure does change my mood. Thanks for sharing your tips with us.
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
19 Mar 18
@dgobucks226 It sure does. Right now I am watching it rain then snow. It is pretty relaxing beings I am inside and warm. The trees are budding and my irises are growing. It is fun to watch these little things/
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Very good addition Sandy. Nature provides so much pleasure!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
19 Mar 18
@velvet53 Spring will be here soon and all it's glory, I hope, lol.
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@teamfreak16 (43595)
• Denver, Colorado
16 Apr 18
When I cycle into depression, I find that exercise is very helpful. Overcoming it enough to motivate myself to get out there is difficult, but it helps.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
16 Apr 18
Well, you have a great activity to turn when in need. What better way to relax and de-stress but to take a ride out in nature around a beautiful scenic area like Colorado.
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@snowy22315 (208906)
• United States
16 Mar 18
Good tips for sure, and pretty easy to implement too!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Thank you, my pleasure.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
16 Mar 18
Nice! Number 4 is interesting as we have joined the myLot group and we get a lot of happiness from the different discussions and we learn a lot too!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Absolutely! Could not have said it better
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Mar 18
Pets help to make a lonely person feel better when they have a pet to take care of.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
That is very true. Having a responsibility like a pet and receiving the love and companionship from them can make a big difference in one's outlook.
@LadyDuck (502464)
• Italy
16 Mar 18
A hobby is what boost my mood more. I feel happy doing things that I like.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Yes, I agree. My hobbies keep my occupied and fill my days with enjoyment.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
18 Mar 18
You have given some wonderful advice.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Thank you. There are some items on the list worth trying.
@JudyEv (382068)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Mar 18
You have some good tips here. It's good to have a few up your sleeve for those days when you're feeling a bit down.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Appreciate your response Judy
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@Icydoll (36713)
• India
16 Mar 18
Mylotting and dancing
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
2 fun and relaxing things to do!
@lynnief (1203)
• Australia
27 Mar 18
Definitely not #3 for me! I detest shopping. When I have to buy something, my ideal situation is to look it up online, write down all the details, go to the shop, buy that exact thing, then leave.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
27 Mar 18
I can relate to online shopping much easier letting your fingers do the ordering (literally), lol. I must confess though, I do feel in a better mood when I find a really great bargain shopping
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@franxav (14591)
• India
16 Mar 18
Very practical tips. I use them and suggest them to others as well. I also do another thing.There are sad and lonely people around me. I go to see them. I make them happy by talking to them.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
What a nice gesture! And helping others in need provides you with satisfaction and contentment without even seeking it
@Essjayd (1567)
16 Mar 18
Definitely recommend getting a pet! Especially a dog! It's amazing how much just leaving the house for a walk can increase your mood not to mention how many people will stop and talk because of the dog!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Yes, you are so right about pets. They provide a reason to go out doors and get a bit of exercise too.
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@dya80dya (36805)
16 Mar 18
I have a pet. My cat helped me a lot. And the other suggestions are good. I will try to apply them.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Mar 18
Thank you for reading my post. Yes, there a some good ideas there and pets can be very instrumental in giving us a happier life.
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