How do you feel about promises?

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By Hope
@1hopefulman (45113)
Canada
June 2, 2018 9:00pm CST
Is it important to keep one's promises? Does it matter whether one keeps them or not? Do you keep your promises? How should one feel about making and keeping a promise? How do you feel about people that don't keep their promises?
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@JudyEv (361946)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Jun 18
I keep my promises but I don't promise lightly. I have to be sure I'll be able to keep my promise before I make it. And I also keep secrets. I never, ever divulge a secret.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
3 Jun 18
@JudyEv I'm sure that everyone appreciates that you are a person of your word.
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@JudyEv (361946)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Jun 18
@cacay1 Yes, it is sad when people break their promise.
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@mlgen1037 (29885)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Jun 18
Hi Felix. As much as I could I try to fulfill my promises but most of the time I fail.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
3 Jun 18
@mlgen1037 Hi Louise! Is it because you promise too much?
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@mlgen1037 (29885)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Yes and I thought I can make it but most of the time I am unable to do it. I feel terribly sad.
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@mlgen1037 (29885)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Jun 18
@cacay1 Hi Erly. Yes po. That is why now I refrain from making promises most especially if I know I cannot fulfill them.
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@toniganzon (72541)
• Philippines
4 Jun 18
Hey Felix! I'm back. I don't like making promises as I don't want to give false hope to people. I don't want to disappoint them. I like giving them surprises. When I use the expression 'it's a promise,' people knew that I only say it in jest or when we're just kidding around and having some silly conversation. But when it's something serious, I don't make promises. I just tell them I'll try to and I will try my best. I don't want to disappoint people as I don't want to be disappointed as well.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
Welcome back! I'm like you! I don't want to give false hope and I don't like to get it either. When I was working I had a motto that I kept to myself that I would always promise a bit less than I knew I could deliver and gained the trust of my customers that they often referred their friends to me.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
@toniganzon I do my best!
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@toniganzon (72541)
• Philippines
5 Jun 18
@1hopefulman And that makes you a real trustworthy person.
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@db20747 (43438)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
5 Jun 18
Promise is a bonding word!!! One lady told me i promised her a TV!!!! I didn't promise anything!!! I said I would get her a TV or see about it or something like that!! But not promise!!!! Big difference!!!! I try 2 say I will do something if I can!!!!
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
7 Jun 18
@db20747 It was a cool day but I had a wonderful spiritual day away from the computer. How was your day?
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
Yes, people expect us to keep out promises and our word. Then we have peoples that are unreasonable in their expectations.
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@db20747 (43438)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
6 Jun 18
@1hopefulman How R U Felix 2 day!!!
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
3 Jun 18
I don't make promises if i make i will keep it.it's hard to keep the promise in all situations...As promise is a trust one should not break it.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
Great! How do you feel when someone makes a promise to you but does not keep it?
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@Icydoll (36713)
• India
6 Jun 18
@cacay1 yeah it's hurt a lot .
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@Starmaiden (9310)
• Canada
3 Jun 18
Did you make a promise you couldn't keep? I have no respect for people who don't keep their promises. I never make a promise I can't keep and that is why I never make promises. Not even a New Years resolution. I like to remain true to myself and others.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
3 Jun 18
People have great confidence in my word as I am a person of my word. I also rarely make promises as I know how unpredictable life can be and I hate to disappoint anyone.
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@popciclecold (40097)
• United States
7 Jun 18
I think if all be possible to keep your promises, but sometimes life intervenes that can prevent it.
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• United States
7 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Yes I would too
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
7 Jun 18
@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
7 Jun 18
Yes! True but when some unforeseen situation occurs then we can approach the person and make other arrangements so that they are not totally disappointed and devastated.
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@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
3 Jun 18
Yes, I keep my promises. Jesus said to let your Yes mean Yes and your No mean No, So I try not to make promises I may not be able to keep. If someone asks me if I can do something, I always say I will check and get back to them. I say no to lots of things when I am not certain I will feel like doing them when I’m very busy. It is not a good feeling when someone makes a promise and does not keep it. It makes me not really believe them the next time.
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• United States
4 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Yes brother, he does.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
4 Jun 18
So true! I would rater that someone doesn't make a promise then that they do and not keep it. Yes, God expects us to keep our word!
@LadyDuck (482546)
• Italy
3 Jun 18
If I am not 100% that I can maintain a promise, I do not promise. I think it's very rude and impolite to promise easily and do not maintain. We already have politicians who do this all the time.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
I feel as you do! Once a person does not keep one promise then they have lost the trust of honest people. Everything they say after that is suspect.
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@LadyDuck (482546)
• Italy
5 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Exactly like you, I do not trust anymore someone who breaks a promise.
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@LadyDuck (482546)
• Italy
6 Jun 18
@cacay1 I see no reason to promise something if we are not sure to maintain the promise.
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@rakski (147505)
• Philippines
3 Jun 18
I don't make any promises I cannot keep.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
@rakski I wish there were more people like you! How do you feel about people who don't keep their promises?
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@rakski (147505)
• Philippines
3 Jun 18
@cacay1 because I do not want people to have false hope. If I can, then I wont
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@rakski (147505)
• Philippines
10 Jun 18
@1hopefulman I will be hypocrite if I will tell you it is okay especially if the particular promise meant a lot. But at the end of the day, you have to think if you want your day to end sourgraping and bitter or happy.
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@DianneN (247157)
• United States
6 Jun 18
If I make a promise, I keep it. I don't really know if anyone hasn't kept their promise to me. I wouldn't be pleased if they broke one.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
7 Jun 18
@DianneN I know!
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
That's great! That's the way everyone should be. Make a promise and keep the promise.
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@DianneN (247157)
• United States
7 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Unfortunately, not everyone can be trusted to keep a promise.
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@dgobucks226 (36863)
5 Jun 18
I am very big on keeping a promise and having a promise to me kept! Your only as good as your word.... Keep every promise you make and only make promises you can keep- quote by Anthony Hitt
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
You're a man after my own heart! You must have a reputation of being very reliable? Am I right?
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@dgobucks226 (36863)
6 Jun 18
@1hopefulman I certainly try! If I say I am going to do something I do not let others down.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
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• Russian Federation
3 Jun 18
Well, I always do, but not sure if it is right... because I keep my promise even if it is not beneficial for me anymore. I will force a person to keep the promise he made to get what I need.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
4 Jun 18
What is the point of making a promise if one has no intention of keeping it? A promise is like a vow, a verbal guarantee. It an assurance that one will do what they say. No?
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• Russian Federation
4 Jun 18
@1hopefulman I totally agree with you
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
@Jessabuma (31697)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Jun 18
"Promises are made to be broken". this is what some people say, I admit sometimes I made promises and I didn't keep it.
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@Jessabuma (31697)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Jun 18
@cacay1 yes I agree with you, we should not make promises that we can't keep..
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
Yes, and some other people say: "A promise is a promise." We should only make promises that we can keep. Though there can be some difficult situations at times that make it impossible for us to keep it but then we should give a good explanation to the person that we promised. It is only right and fair. What do you think?
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@Jessabuma (31697)
• Baguio, Philippines
5 Jun 18
@1hopefulman yes definitely right. I totally agree with you
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@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
3 Jun 18
Better not promise anything, if we are not completely sure we can keep it..
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@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
5 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Atleast I try..
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
5 Jun 18
That makes sense to me! I'm sure you are very good at keeping any promises you make.
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@just4him (318791)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Jun 18
It's because of people who haven't kept their promises, that I always keep mine. I don't make a promise I know I can't keep.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
7 Jun 18
I couldn't think of you doing otherwise!
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@just4him (318791)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Thank you.
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@Shiva49 (27490)
• Singapore
5 Jun 18
"My word is my bond" has been my way all the time. If I cannot keep a promise, I will feel more let down than the one I promised to. If they have a valid and convincing reason, I move on. Otherwise, I would feel let down - siva
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
@Shiva49 I feel the same way!
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@Hannihar (130204)
• Israel
5 Jun 18
@1hopefulman I think keeping promises is very important. If someone cannot do it then there has to be a good reason why not. I try to keep my promises.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
True! Unexpected and unforeseen things can come up that might prevent from fulfilling a promise. Then, we could let them know and make some other suitable arrangements.
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@Hannihar (130204)
• Israel
7 Jun 18
@1hopefulman Good point Felix.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
6 Jun 18
Keeping promises, keeps your integrity intact. If you aren't able to keep it yourself, I believe you should either apologize for not keeping it, and make it up to them at another time; or if it is feasible, get someone else to keep the promise for you. Example: Years ago I had someone promise to pick me up to take me to a meeting, because at the time I did not have a car. Something came up, and they were not able to... So they asked someone else to pick me up instead. So even though she did not personally do what she said she would do, she still kept her promise, by getting someone else to fulfill it for her.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
6 Jun 18
Yes, unexpected and unforeseen things can happen that might prevent us from being able to do something we said we would do. Then, it is good to find a way of doing something we said we would do by finding someone else to do it.
@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
15 Jun 18
For me a word is a word when it's broken, I really can never trust again the same person.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
15 Jun 18
Yes, it is very hard to trust someone that doesn't keep their promises.
@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
21 Jun 18
@1hopefulman It justs show the true colors of the person.
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