Saw my surgeon yesterday....

Perth, Australia
November 22, 2018 9:15pm CST
I had an appointment yesterday to see the surgeon who removed my gallbladder in August. I gave him a card and some chocolates to thank him. I had stomach issues for so many years but specifically had gallbladder pains for about 2 years. I saw many doctors about my sickness and pains only to be told it was all in my head. Even after many blood tests showing elevated white cells, bad results of my gallbladder and liver and ultra sounds to show many gallstones. Doctors still insisted it was not my gallbladder. Even the first surgeon I saw didn't want to operate on me because he too, and I quote, believed "It is all in your head." And this is just another annoying thing to happen when a doctor knows you have depression. It's like every issue I've had they immediately link it to my depression. Which isn't fair! But the 2nd surgeon I saw ( Dr Tan, my surgeon ), took me seriously. Though he knew I've been suffering with depression for so long and although he knew ( as did I ) that depression / stress can cause stomach aches, he still believed that these specific pains and sickness was coming from my gallbladder. So he was the angel who took it out of me. So I gave him the thank you card and chocolates yesterday and discussed how I've been since the surgery to which everything has been fine. I did mention that I've been feeling some quick stabbing pains here and there on the right side where my gallbladder was but he said that that's normal. I wasn't really concerned but doesn't hurt to ask. I also asked him about something I heard while I was in recovery. I heard one of the nurses mention something about me not breathing properly while I was either in surgery or coming out of it. ( I was drowsy when hearing this ) But I spoke to him about it and he explained to me that I was having some difficulties breathing and that they needed to move my jaw forward and put oxygen into me. But he also explained that that isn't anything to worry about and is quite common. He also called me a worry wart lol which is 100% true with certain subjects. He called me this after I told him that the first week after surgery I was having issues breathing here and there to which my doctor ( best doctor I've ever seen by the way. Finally a doctor who takes me seriously too ) put it down to anxiety. Cause those issues breathing didn't really take place unless I was thinking about surgery. I think that was pretty much it. I also handed in a Feedback Form to thank the staff who helped me that night / morning. ( I stayed over night ). I was so nervous for that was my first operation ever but everyone was so kind and understanding. ****photo is mine. Showing the card and chocolates I got for Dr Tan****
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
23 Nov 18
Congratulations... did you lose a little weight after he took your stone? just kidding, the other doctors were a bit lazy that's why they just said, let go. lol
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• Perth, Australia
24 Nov 18
@Mavic123456 LOL! Always make me smile! hmmmm not really. Though my weight goes up and down a lot. Something I'm still working on. Lazy is a word that comes to mind sometimes. It sometimes honestly felt like they only wanted people in and out of their office very fast rather than actually trying to get down to the actual issue of what people were going through.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
24 Nov 18
@VivaLaDani13 that's what I am always imagining, if someone went for a surgery, and something was taken, especially gallbladder stone. haha sorry my imagination is wild sometimes. I know that stone is just a small as a grain of rock salt. yes, but you are still young so you still a lot of energy to use to some things. LOL glad I made you smile
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• Perth, Australia
25 Nov 18
@Mavic123456 lol it's ok! My imagination runs pretty wild too. For example, sometimes when I'm walking down my hallway at night to go to my room, for some stupid reason I think there's a monster or something behind me so I speed up my walking and quickly shut the door. That's just one silly example. But no actually my stones, there was a lot but I had a big one in there. If I remember correctly it was 2.5mm. Which is too big for a small gallbladder. And if that was getting caught in my bile duct then it's no wonder I was in pain a lot.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
23 Nov 18
You are lucky to have such a good doctor. Too many do not listen, worrying and stressing about things can be the cause of an aggravation of our symptoms. I am sure that your breathing problem is nothing serious, he would have told you. You were so sweet to offer him a card and chocolates.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
24 Nov 18
@VivaLaDani13 I know, people pretend to know without even listening to your problem. You have been lucky with this doctor.
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• Perth, Australia
24 Nov 18
@LadyDuck Thank you. I wanted to thank him for just being understanding. And yeah you're right that a lot of doctors or just people in general don't listen. I had family members telling me it was this or that and not taking me seriously either.
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• Perth, Australia
27 Nov 18
@LadyDuck That's exactly right. I don't mind if someone doesn't understand due to lack of knowledge or not going through it themselves but to totally dismiss someone upsets me and makes me angry. I have been. It was funny because when saying good bye he said "I hope I don't see you again." LOL Meaning he hopes I don't become sick again.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jan 19
You are so brave! I have an anxiety too and scared of so many things that are new to me when I was younger.. And i overcome it through the years. Take care and always pray to God. He will help you.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Jan 19
@VivaLaDani13 well guess that is how life is....colorful and the likes.
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• Perth, Australia
14 Jan 19
@vanities I am sorry you've dealt with anxieties but glad you've overcome it as you got older. And thank you very much!
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• Midland, Michigan
6 Dec 18
I didn't remember that your from Australia. I had an ultrasound done on my gallbladder recently but I don't have gallstones. My gallbladder looked done. My Dr should have ordered the ultrasound to include other areas in my abdomen too since nothing showed up on the right side in there. I have cramping when I'm in certain positions that feel like a mass-small pops out from under my ribs and I get like a Charlie horse cramping until I relax my position. I got some exercises yesterday to gently work on my abs and hopefully minimize whatever is cramping. I've heard gallstones are painful to pass. Are you saying you were passing them for those two years before surgery? It's bizarre the other surgeon didn't take you seriously.
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• Midland, Michigan
9 Dec 18
@VivaLaDani13 at least someone finally listened. I don't know whether there's anything that can be done about those others?
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• Perth, Australia
11 Dec 18
@MarshaMusselman I'm not sure to be honest. In the past I would get annoyed with how many turned a blind eye to me but I don't think there is anything I can do. Luckily for me now, I changed doctor, in fact I go to a whole new doctor / medical centre now and in the hands of a much better doctor. She listens to me and is eager to get down to the issue and fixing the issue unlike the other doctors who would give me suggestions on what it could be but not doing any tests to find out. Or they would suggest me to do certain things and "then see how we go" after weeks instead of just testing me. It was very time consuming but with my new doctor, things get done quickly.
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• Perth, Australia
9 Dec 18
@MarshaMusselman I'm so sorry you've been dealing with discomfort! It really can disturb our lives when things like that takes place so I can sympathise with there. I really hope all that becomes more bearable for you or better yet, stops completely. I'm not 100% positive if they were passing or stuck and going back into the gallbladder. I have a better understanding of them but not sure if I was always passing them but yes, I was dealing with lots and lots of pain for 2 years. And it was mainly down to the first surgeon I saw. Even though my Ultra-sounds were showing a lot of stones including a big stone and even though my blood tests were always showing negative readings for my gallbladder and liver and also always having elevated white cells....he just kept telling me that it was all in my head. It was just unbelievable. I've dealt with this sort of thing a lot in the past. The real bad gallbladder pains I had for two years but many years before that I'd have bad stomach pains and many doctors put me through a maze with no ending. All saying it was in my head.
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@Hannihar (129452)
• Israel
14 Dec 18
@VivaLaDani13 cute card. I am so glad someone listened to you and did the surgery. I can see why you would want to thank him. I gave my doctor a thank you card yesterday for all his help and the person he chose to help him. It feels good to let someone know you appreciate them.
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• Perth, Australia
14 Dec 18
@Hannihar aw that was sweet of you to do so! And I agree. It's just a miracle sometimes when someone will take the time to listen and take you seriously.
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@Hannihar (129452)
• Israel
16 Dec 18
@VivaLaDani13 You are so so right DANI.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
10 Dec 18
Congrats on your successful surgery and recovery. When you know something is wrong with your health but remains undiagnosed that can definitely be quite stressful. Your persistence really paid off! Bon appetit
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• Perth, Australia
11 Dec 18
@dgobucks226 Thank you very much! And yeah it was really stressful alright. Dealt with so much sickness and pain because of it. But all over now!
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• Perth, Australia
13 Dec 18
@dgobucks226 Thank you.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
13 Dec 18
@VivaLaDani13 Glad to hear that
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@1creekgirl (40515)
• United States
23 Nov 18
So glad you found a doctor who helped you. Are you doing okay now?
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• Perth, Australia
24 Nov 18
@1creekgirl Thank you very kindly. Yeah, I have been really great since the surgery. No more pains. Can eat whatever I want now and don't have to worry about having a gallbladder attack.
@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
23 Nov 18
It makes me so angry to think that you have gone through two years of pain and the other doctors have dismissed you because you have had depression. I often have stand up arguments with medics especially when the evidence is quite clear like you have mentioned until they actually listen. Well done to Dr Tan. By the way those chocolates are called Hero's in England he certainly was your hero and a most appropriate gift! I hope you are feeling great now.
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• Perth, Australia
24 Nov 18
@garymarsh6 Yeah it makes me angry when I think about it because the pains were just so bad. Some could last 30 minutes to an hour. But if it was really bad it could last 6 hours to 8 hours. And those were the ones I had the most. Not even codeine could take the pain away at times. I'm sorry that you've had to fight for whatever was going on with you. I admire doctors for what they know and can do but sometimes some doctors really lack listening and compassion. aw awesome! I didn't know that! I was actually wondering if anyone would mention the chocolates and if it was similar to what they had in their country. Thank you for telling me. Stuff like that interests me. I am thank you so much!
@NJChicaa (115992)
• United States
23 Nov 18
You must be feeling so much better now. It was like night and day for me when I finally had that thing removed.
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• Perth, Australia
24 Nov 18
@NJChicaa I am feeling so much better now. And yeah I remember all the hell you had to go through. I'm glad that yours is out!
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Jan 19
That is great to find a good doctor.
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• Perth, Australia
11 Jan 19
@CarolDM Sure is!
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@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
4 Dec 18
Congrats
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• Perth, Australia
5 Dec 18
@Karenmm Thank you kindly!
@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Dec 18
Your welcome... anytime
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