I think my sons getting sick too by his behavior today

@shaggin (74987)
United States
January 10, 2019 9:12pm CST
My daughter came down with a cold a day or two ago. I am thinking with the behavior my son showed today that he may be coming down with it and not know it. He was grumpy today and he didn’t know why. Yesterday he was in an excellent mood but not today! He wants to earn some money to buy things so even though I can do the dishes myself I told him he could do them sometimes when we arent in a hurry. He was excited yesterday to do them he thought it was kind of fun. What would have taken me maybe 15 minutes or less took him well over an hour but he was very thorough and careful! He ordered a Popz Fortnite figure on Amazon and it said it was going to be delivered around February 4-10. Yesterday we got an email saying it will arrive much sooner within a week. Because of that and getting to do the dishes he was so happy and said it was such a good day! So today his first class science he was being miserable and not listening and just kept saying negative things. After 50 minutes of it I hit my limit and he lost his PlayStation for the day. He asked me if he had to do the dishes today and I said no only if he wants to and if we have time for that. He said I basically bribed him yesterday. I explained that he wanted to earn money so I gave him a job to do! Then later today after he was done being so grumpy he said he liked doing the dishes yesterday Today in ELA he had to take a test. He couldn’t concentrate at all. He was laughing at first where it described students as pupils. He pictured them literally as parts of eyes sitting at desks. Some of the things he said which had absolutely nothing to do with the test were : Why do animals have tails? Who is Bill Murray? In 10 years I can get a job! I remembered I left the torch lighter outside when I burned the garbage two days ago and it was covered in snow. It took me about 15 seconds to run out and grab it and come back in. While out there I heard a bunch of loud noise. When I came back in I saw he had the dog on his lap and heard his teacher telling him it didn’t sound like he was working. He isn’t a hyper kid but I cannot leave the room for even 5 seconds or he’s up out of that seat bouncing around playing with the dog. I constantly have to sit beside him reminding him to sit down look at the screen be quiet and pay attention. Photo is of him doing the dishes yesterday.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Jan 19
He sounds like he gets distracted easy.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 Jan 19
@just4him yes he does! He isn't hyper so I don't think he has adhd but it's possible he has add. Not worried enough about it to have him tested.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Jan 19
@just4him I wasn't aware they could have both I thought ADD was just without hyperactivity.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Jan 19
@shaggin My older son had both ADD and ADHD.
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@nela13 (59365)
• Portugal
25 Jan 19
Kids sometimes have bad days but you are a great mother and he is be in a better mood now for sure.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
25 Jan 19
@nela13 usually his moods are pretty consistent the past year but just like anyone else he has a bad day now and then. He wasn't sick thankfully he just must have woken up on the wrong side of the bed.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
25 Jan 19
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@nela13 (59365)
• Portugal
25 Jan 19
@shaggin how old Is he?
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• United States
12 Jan 19
That's a cute picture of your son doing the dishes. Hope he doesn't get sick but it's that time of year when it's hard to escape catching something
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 Jan 19
@Marilynda1225 he got a hair cut right after this or the following day I don't recall for sure. He must just have been in a bad mood as he hasn't been sick. Everyone has a grumpy day now and then.
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• United States
13 Jan 19
@shaggin I know I get grumpy days. Glad he didn't get sick.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
20 Jan 19
He may have been getting sick, or not. You do have your hands full with him, but are doing the best you can.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
21 Jan 19
@DianneN he didn't wind up being sick so apparently he just woke up on the wrong side of the bed.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
21 Jan 19
@DianneN yes absolutely!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
21 Jan 19
@shaggin Glad he wasn't sick. We all have days like that.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
11 Jan 19
I hope he feels better soon. My daughter's behaviour would change when she was coming down with something too. Took me forever to realize.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Jan 19
@paigea he didn't come down with any sickness thankfully so he must have just woken up on the wrong side of the bed. Yesterday was awful which is usually the case with him on Mondays. Today is better so far thankfully!
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
16 Jan 19
@shaggin Glad today is better.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
11 Jan 19
Im sorry his behavior changed within the day. I hope its just from being sick, though dont wish he was sick.. you know?
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 Jan 19
yes I know what you mean. He must just have been having a grumpy day as he didn't wind up being sick which is good!
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
14 Jan 19
@Courtlynn I have been sneezing my head off today and I feel so tired. I think I'm the one getting sick
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
13 Jan 19
@shaggin that is good. still sorry he was grumpy though. lol.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
11 Jan 19
Hopefully he was just having a rough day or two and things will be better. This must be hard not always knowing if something is wrong/
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Jan 19
@KrauseHome he didn't wind up coming down with anything so he must just have been in a bad mood. I'm glad he isn't sick but I myself am not feeling well. Yesterday was a really awful Monday with him but thankfully today has been better so far!
@snowy22315 (208996)
• United States
11 Jan 19
Maybe the dog needs to be a privlidge he gets when he done with his work. I hope he isn't getting sick.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
13 Jan 19
@snowy22315 he actually isn't allowed to have her on his lap until school is done. He gets distracted too easily for her to be able to sit with him. He will talk to her and let her and not focus on the screen.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jan 19
hopfully he was just having a bad day and soon got over it. happens with kids sometimes
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
22 Jan 19
@bunnybon7 yep he never wound up sick thankfully so he was just having a bad day!
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• United States
11 Jan 19
He attends public school but via online classes? Or is it more of a homeschool thing with a teacher other than yourself? I hope he gets to feeling better soon, if he is in fact coming down with a cold.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
11 Jan 19
@ScribbledAdNauseum he does cyber school so it is a public education but at home online. His teachers are state certified. I don't feel I am smart enough to do homeschooling. He seemed to be in a much better mood today but his legs are bothering him and he said he feels funny so I still think he may be coming down with something. He wanted to lay down but we are not done with live classes yet. Soon he will have a lunch break and we will do the rest of his school work which isn't live classes later today and throughout the weekend.
@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
11 Jan 19
It must not be easy for you to keep your calm and cope with his problems. I am sure that sometimes he is a very sweet boy.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Jan 19
@LadyDuck he can be very nice but he can also be very difficult and yesterday was a really day with him. Days like that give me such bad anxiety. Today thankfully so far has been better.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
16 Jan 19
@shaggin I can imagine that this gives you anxiety. I am glad that it was better yesterday, you can relax.
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@responsiveme (22923)
• India
11 Jan 19
Children do have a lot of questions. To e a mom is a 24x7 job.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Jan 19
@responsiveme yes you are absolutely right about that. I love being a mom. Even on the worst of days I would never regret motherhood.
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• India
16 Jan 19
@shaggin That is so true .
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
11 Jan 19
I think it is great that you got him to do the dishes to earn money. You are a good mom. I hope he doesnt get sick.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
11 Jan 19
@shaggin that is great then. He took his job very seriously.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Feb 19
This photo reminds me of my Dustin. I hope he is feeling better. i know I am late commenting.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
19 Feb 19
@CarolDM did he like to help with doing the dishes. My son did it twice and hasn't wanted to do it since. It's fine to be late commenting. I go pretty far back to play catch up sometimes or to find something that interests me
@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Jan 19
I hope your son does not get sick.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
11 Jan 19
@jstory07 thank you. He seems better today so maybe he was just in a bad mood.
@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Jan 19
This must be so hard. I really admire you. I would be hopeless at coping with such behaviour.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
11 Jan 19
@JudyEv that is very sweet thank you! I had some awful anxiety from it by afternoon. Today is going better so far but it is still early.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Jan 19
You`re a good mother.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
11 Jan 19
@andriaperry thank you very much!
@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
11 Jan 19
I hope he will always helps you with your housework.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
11 Jan 19
@thelme55 probably not but time will tell.
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