Divorce

@DianneN (247216)
United States
February 7, 2019 9:04am CST
The boat in the foreground is now some poor man’s house. He is divorced and basically in the poor house. All he has left from his marriage is his boat. His wife must have had one good lawyer. My husband met him once. The man from the boat doesn’t live here, but moors his boat in the Intercostal. When he needs food or supplies, he takes a dingy to shore and has a big walk to the nearest market. If I were that man, I’d sell the boat and rent an apartment. But that’s me. What would you do?
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@just4him (308409)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Feb 19
I'd live on the boat. I've always loved the idea of a houseboat.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
It's not as large as a houseboat. It's actually a smaller sailboat compared to the one just behind it. But that owner at least lives here. (Wish he didn't - lol)
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@just4him (308409)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Feb 19
@DianneN It is too small to live on. It's tough when a spouse rips everything out from under you in a divorce.
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• United States
7 Feb 19
I tend to agree with you about selling the boat and renting an apartment. Too bad you don't know him better to get all the gossip about his divorce
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• United States
9 Feb 19
@DianneN PLEASE SHARE when you do
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
10 Feb 19
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
Oh, you don't know me. I WILL get the scoop!
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@FourWalls (62685)
• United States
7 Feb 19
If the boat's paid for it's much cheaper to live there. No monthly rent, no monthly electric bills, no property taxes (since he doesn't own the river), just annual taxes on the boat. There are lots of people who are living on boats. I'm not that adventurous (don't think I'd want to be on a boat in the middle of a lake or river during a lightning storm), but I can understand why he'd keep it.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I suppose you're right. I must get more info about him, and I will!
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@Aquitaine24 (11653)
• San Jose, California
8 Feb 19
I agree. And he doesn't have neighbors above or below him.Just water
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@LadyDuck (460235)
• Switzerland
7 Feb 19
I would do the same, I see no reason to waste money keeping a boat.
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@LadyDuck (460235)
• Switzerland
8 Feb 19
@DianneN Boats are expensive to keep, a small apartment is more pleasant.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I agree. Boats do need a lot of upkeep and care.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@LadyDuck Tell me about it. My husband is still thinking about a boat with my brother, but not to live on. lol
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
7 Feb 19
I would most likely sell the boat and get an apartment. However, I asked my hubby what he would do he told me that he would sell the boat and get a camper. His feeling was, at least he would still own something to live in.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I think your husband has a great idea!!! Tell him I thank him.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@playertwo Sounds that way. Sorry you are down on your luck and hope it changes.
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@Elizaby (6901)
• Pensacola, Florida
7 Feb 19
That is a great idea and he could leave the area in the event of a sotrm and not worry about losing his place.
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@Kasjnak (4492)
• Romania
7 Feb 19
It depends. I would prefer an apartment, but I don't know what's his real situation, maybe he has to sort some things out. But this is sad .
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
My husband doesn’t know much more, but I think it’s a sad way to live, especially during storms!
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@Kasjnak (4492)
• Romania
7 Feb 19
@DianneN indeed, that's what I was thinking too. Dunno, his situation may be more complex than we think.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@playertwo I have no idea, but will try to find out.
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@marguicha (216305)
• Chile
7 Feb 19
Does he work?
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
It doesn’t look that way. I have no idea what he does on that boat.
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@marguicha (216305)
• Chile
7 Feb 19
@DianneN I always wonder about what some homeless people do and where do they get their money.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
@marguicha I often do, too. There are a lot of shelters for them here, and some must get money from certain benefits or by selling things they find. Very sad.
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@much2say (53942)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Feb 19
I have often thought it might be cool to live on a boat, but me being a land lover, there's probably only so much of that I could take. Maybe that's literally all that guy has and he isn't in a position to rent anything, but then I don't know how he could sustain with just his boat (you know there could be a lot of expenses in having a boat). I think I would definitely be more productive on land.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I agree. It must be a hard life for him. I have to get more information. I'm very curious.
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
7 Feb 19
A nice plot to create a movie.
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
7 Feb 19
@DianneN You have to first collect all facts starting from what caused the divorce. Quite juicy the story will be (lol)
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
Ok. You write the screenplay, and I will read it.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@allknowing It will be a hit!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
7 Feb 19
Maybe the boat was all they had and he's taken her to the cleaners!! Yeah, yeah, I know. Who am I kidding!!!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
7 Feb 19
@DianneN She's probably shacked up with another pair of trousers in their 12 bedroom beach home while the butler serves caviar and champagne on the navels of performing dwarves!!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
@WorDazza . Most likely!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
Yeah, who are you kidding?
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@Elizaby (6901)
• Pensacola, Florida
7 Feb 19
He migh be able to get enough out of selling to afford an apartment for very long, Hope he is able to get it someplace safe if a hurricane comes through
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
That's what I was thinking. Can you imagine being in a hurricane in that small sailboat?
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@Elizaby OMG! That must have been awful. I've had my fair share of those darn hurricanes in CT. I'm sure his boat would be ripped to shreds and tossed into the ocean or on land.
@Elizaby (6901)
• Pensacola, Florida
8 Feb 19
@DianneN No Way. It is bad enough being in a house or at work in a four story nursing home where I was stuck working when Ivan hit here
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Feb 19
I guess he loves his boat.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
It's all he seems to have, so love it he must.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
@JohnRoberts . Is my photo sideways on here?
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Feb 19
@DianneN It's all he has left from the cleaners!
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@kobesbuddy (75073)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Feb 19
Myself, I'd sell the boat and rent an apartment. Living in a boat would be a sad, boring existence! This poor man:(
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
Exactly! He's out there bobbing right now and the boat keeps turning in the water. If nothing else, I'd be puking.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@kobesbuddy I agree. I'm sure he lost his house in a divorce settlement. It's dark here now and not even a light is on in his boat.
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@kobesbuddy (75073)
• East Tawas, Michigan
8 Feb 19
@DianneN He should just sell the boat, to keep his feet on stable ground.
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
7 Feb 19
Maybe he loves sailing.
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@Aquitaine24 (11653)
• San Jose, California
8 Feb 19
I'm sure he does.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I’m sure he does, since he owns a sailboat.
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@snowy22315 (171099)
• United States
7 Feb 19
Having the boat is probably therapeutic for him. I guess I would stay on the boat if it was protected from the weather. Maybe eventually get an apartment.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
It doesn't look too protected from the weather to me. I'm itching to get more information about that man!
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@jstory07 (135007)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Feb 19
Can he afford an apartment. It might be cheaper to live in his boat.
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@Aquitaine24 (11653)
• San Jose, California
8 Feb 19
That is what I was thinking.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
I have no idea. I'm hoping some of the regulars here know more about him. Hopefully, we can all do our part to help him out if that's what he needs.
@JudyEv (326599)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Feb 19
I'd have to be very vindictive to deprive the guy of basically everything he has. But maybe he deserved it.
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@Aquitaine24 (11653)
• San Jose, California
8 Feb 19
Did he have that much?Maybe it was a crappy place anyway and he didnt mind his ex to be stuck with it ;)
@nela13 (55818)
• Portugal
7 Feb 19
Do you know how old is he and if he has a job or is retired? I would probably do the same as you said.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I haven't met him, and my husband is clueless. He couldn't answer one of my questions, but I will find out.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
@nela13 I have no idea about him at all. It seems like a sad situation for him.
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@nela13 (55818)
• Portugal
7 Feb 19
@DianneN If he is not retired and don't have a job, he can't afford paying a rent, even if he sells his boat.
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@fluffy69 (4956)
7 Feb 19
This is sad indeed. Divorce is really costly. It will take a lot from you.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I suppose it would be costly. My brother divorced two of his three wives.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
@fluffy69 3rd one's the charm!
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@fluffy69 (4956)
7 Feb 19
@DianneN that’s a lot.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
7 Feb 19
Probably he wants to live on a ship.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@Nevena83 Perhaps
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Feb 19
He doesn't have anyplace else to live from what I heard. Very sad.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
8 Feb 19
@DianneN But he wants to live in the house, he would then sell the ship.
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