It Was Time

@BelleStarr (61047)
United States
May 20, 2019 12:19pm CST
Friday night I texted my friend Irene and asked her if she would like to go and get a pedicure on Saturday. She jumped at the chance and said why not do lunch as well. She has been going through a difficult time with aging parents who are failing and when I was going through a similar situation 6 years ago she made the effort to get me out and away from the stress. I wanted to get her mind off what is going on. We had a wonderful time, lots of hugs and talk, pretty toes and good food. We ended up getting Pad Thai at a noodle restaurant. When we got back to her house she walked me through all the wonderful improvements she has been making in her garden. It is already looking amazing and I can see that by next year, it will be stunning. It was a fun way to spend a few hours and to forget about all the things that are going on in our lives. That is what a friend is for, isn't it, to be there to lift you up when you are down. I chose a peachy orange color, those are my toes in the picture.
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@Juliaacv (48447)
• Canada
21 May 19
You're such a good and kind-hearted friend. I am sure that the day's fun and away time will have a lasting effect on her in her life. I like your colour, I've never gone that orange, but its nice.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 May 19
It looks a little more orange than it actually is, it is just a strong peachy color but it will only be on there for a few weeks. I wanted something I have never tried before lol
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 May 19
@Juliaacv I booked Al and I for pedicures and massages on our anniversary getaway so it will only be here three weeks. I think I will go with pink for summer but who knows, it could be blue lol
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@Juliaacv (48447)
• Canada
21 May 19
@BelleStarr I love getting colours that I've never had before too, that's the fun in it. I got such a light pink, that I am already regretting it. But it only lasts for so long, and then its time for a repaint.
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• United States
20 May 19
what a blessin' y'all fer each other. 't times i wish i'd such a connection myself, but alas, such aint meant to be. love the polish'n the shoes 're too cute! i've only 1 friend semi-close by (78miles) 'n he aint speakin' to me't the moment.... doubt he'd 'njoy such a 'date', lol. we used to go off'n look 't bulls/cows/trucks'n horses though :)
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
20 May 19
lol No I bet he wouldn't though I will tell you a secret, I have a reservation for pedicures for me and Al for our anniversary getaway. The sandals are Sketchers and I have 3 pairs in different colors.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
20 May 19
@crazyhorseladycx Zappos has them, the top is sort of cotton straps. We go away every year for our anniversary, this year is 51. My kids don't make a big deal out of it, to me it is our day. We are getting a massage too, He will get a Swedish massage and I will get hot stone and we get our hands waxed!! Something fun to do together and I am tired of cutting his toenails, if I can get him to enjoy the pedicure, I will be off the hook lol I am a sly one
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• United States
20 May 19
@BelleStarr i'm thinkin' a salty ol' rancher'd frown greatly 't e'en the mention 'f the thought, lol. sounds like a great plan fer ya both. oddly 'nough, the hubs'n i've ne'er gone 'way fer our anniversaries. most oft such's not e'en celebrated past a 'happy anniversary'. the young'uns don't recall the date neither. sigh... sketchers, eh? dang, if'n i thought such'd work fer me, i'd sure hunt me a pair. sadly with the swellin' most sandals're outta the question.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
21 May 19
What a good friend you are! That was so thoughtful to get her out for a while. By the way, I love your new pedi.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 May 19
Thank you, it is the little things that we do sometimes that make the most impact. She really needed to get out and I needed the pedi, a perfect combination,
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
25 May 19
@BelleStarr I wish I could get a pedi but with neuropathy in my feet, I couldn't stand for anyone to touch my toes at all.
@DianneN (246838)
• United States
21 May 19
Yes, that’s what friends are for. She has a true friend in you. I’m wearing blue on my toes right now, but do love orange!
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 May 19
I may opt for blue next time, I haven't decided yet, I usually go pink for summer!!
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@DianneN (246838)
• United States
21 May 19
@BelleStarr I will get lavender next, if my back ever heals up. I usually go for unusual colors for my pedicures.
@just4him (306266)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 May 19
Nice color. I like your sandals too. Yes, it is good to lift up your friends from the stress. I'm glad you had a good day.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 May 19
The sandals are Sketchers, I have three pairs of them in different colors, I love them.
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@just4him (306266)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 May 19
@BelleStarr Sketchers are comfortable sandals.
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
28 May 19
You and your friend are lucky to have one another. I hope you always have that friendship. I love the peachy color, and sandals.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 May 19
I have a few friends that are equally as close as Irene, but yes, I thank God for her daily. We have been friends now for 40 years, but my friend Kathy has been my best friend since we were 5, 64 years ago and Cindy and I have about 40 years as well. Jackie and I are the newest friends at about 25 years. I am lucky in my sister in laws as well.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
2 Jun 19
@BelleStarr oh wow. You are so lucky.
@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
22 May 19
It is nice to get out and enjoy time with friends. Glad she had you to get her out and about.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
23 May 19
Both of us really enjoyed the time together.
@rebelann (111187)
• El Paso, Texas
21 May 19
I'm glad your friend was able to find time to spend with you, I tried to get Linda to take some time away from her folks but she doesn't have anyone to watch over her mom so she can't take the chance. It's so hard to parent sit.
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@rebelann (111187)
• El Paso, Texas
21 May 19
I recently asked Linda why she doesn't find a nursing home for her parents but she said that she couldn't find one that would let her mom and dad stay together @BelleStarr Her mom has Alzheimer's too and her dad has COPD plus a weak heart. Her husband only sees her once a year, their home is in MI. I really feel sorry for him.
@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 May 19
Irene's parents are in a nursing home now so while she spends a lot of time with them she is not physically having to do everything. Her father had a stroke and her mother has Alzheimer's.
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• United States
29 May 19
I love to do my own pedicures I am afraid of salons with the fungus factor. Your toes look lovely Belle.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 May 19
You know you can bring your own things into a salon for them to use? One of my friends does that. I usually go to smaller more spa-like salons where I am convinced the danger is much smaller.
@Hate2Iron (15730)
• Canada
22 May 19
I'm sure that you brightened her day!! And, that is one gorgeous color you picked for your toes!!
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@LadyDuck (458212)
• Switzerland
21 May 19
This is a nice color, I am going to paint my toenails tomorrow.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 May 19
Thank you, it is one I don't usually choose but I like it,
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• United States
20 May 19
A fun way to spend time with a friend and boost their spirits. Your toes look really pretty with the orange!
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
20 May 19
Thank you, I am getting another pedicure in 3 weeks so it won't be on long and I will probably go with pink for the summer but it was fun for the meantime.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 May 19
Your are a good friend! Love the color.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
20 May 19
Thank you, I like to think I am a good friend and I have some very good friends. I never take friendship for granted, it is precious.
@Mulidi (1979)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
20 May 19
You're good friend indeed and I like your colour
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 May 19
Thank you, she has been a very good friend to me as well.
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@Mulidi (1979)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
21 May 19
@BelleStarr i wish to have friend like you and I'm happy for your friendships
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