It's hard to remain silent, on bad behavior

@Nevena83 (66063)
Serbia
August 30, 2019 6:17pm CST
Good evening friends It's 1:30 am, I tried to read as many discussions as possible before going to bed. My day was not great, because it was difficult for me to hear my father's behavior today. I don't know what he wants more from me. A man was coming in today to set up the laminate, saying he might be able to do it on Sunday. I sincerely hope so. Was your day better?
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@marguicha (230351)
• Chile
31 Aug 19
I had a wonderful day as my oncologist told me that my lymphoma was in complete remission.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
1 Sep 19
Marguicha this is the best news that I've heard, in a very long time! I feel like crying, I'm so happy about this wonderful report! @marguicha
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
31 Aug 19
Excellent news to celebrate! of the best you could receive in your life, congratulations.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
That's really great news. I hope you never have a health problem again.
@Moon24 (22394)
• Serbia
31 Aug 19
I am tired i am trying to earn more money here but also i need to sleep because i work tomorrow.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
I gave up trying, these days, because I felt exhausted. How is it at work?
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@Moon24 (22394)
• Serbia
2 Sep 19
@Nevena83 It's fine at work. I work 7 hours. My legs are painful a little but not much. I can't sit there.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
2 Sep 19
@Moon24 Hope the pay is good too.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
31 Aug 19
I'm sorry, I know you have a lot to deal with each day. =(
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• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I feel God put this song on my list this morning for you. I'm praying!
Watch the lyric video for "You're Gonna Be OK" from Brian and Jenn Johnson's album "After All These Years." "After All These Years" is a solo album from Bria...
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
@LovingMyBabies You always make me cry. Thank you for thinking of me and praying for me.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
Yes, I'm tired of fighting. I just want my peace, my freedom ...
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@LadyDuck (502392)
• Italy
31 Aug 19
What does your father want from you? Ask him, place you in front of him, look at him keeping your calm and ask "why are you always criticizing me? What do you want from me?". Say nothing else, look at him in his eyes and wait.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
All these years, I have been trying to do this, but there is no answer, in fact I cannot tell you what kind of answers I get, because I am ashamed to repeat. He always turns to me with ugly words and leaves.
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@LadyDuck (502392)
• Italy
2 Sep 19
@Nevena83 Your mother should stand for you and help, but I have the feeling she does nothing at all. I am so sorry.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
2 Sep 19
@LadyDuck No, she never helped me. She always tries to break me because it is easier for her to break me than to confront him, but for her son to have a problem with his father, I think she would be able to kill my father if she didn't touch her son.
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@moffittjc (128832)
• Gainesville, Florida
1 Sep 19
I am sorry to hear you are still having difficulties with your father. My day was spent preparing for a hurricane, although it now looks like the powerful storm will not hit us like it was originally forecast to do.
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@moffittjc (128832)
• Gainesville, Florida
1 Sep 19
@Nevena83 So far everything is okay. They keep telling us the hurricane is going to turn north and away from us, but it hasn't done so yet. They say it will slow down to a crawl today, and then make the northward turn tomorrow. But it's going to be a close call even when it does make its turn. We'll still feel some of the effects of the storm, but shouldn't sustain catastrophic damage.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
2 Sep 19
@moffittjc Sounds scary. I heard it slowing down today. Is that right?
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
Is everything OK? I heard on the news about that hurricane today and it sounds scary.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
31 Aug 19
A busy day here but good. So sorry about what you deal with.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
1 Sep 19
@Nevena83 You do not deserve this torment. It is not your fault. Keep you head up!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
@CarolDM Thanks for your unconditional support.
@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
Sometimes I think it's my punishment, but I still haven't realized if I really committed such a great sin that I deserve such a life.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
31 Aug 19
I had a good day
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
I'm glad you had a good day.
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@Juliaacv (56199)
• Canada
31 Aug 19
I'm sorry that your day was difficult, mine was super busy.
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@Juliaacv (56199)
• Canada
1 Sep 19
@Nevena83 No, I'm okay thanks.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
Are you tired?
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@birjudanak (14316)
• India
31 Aug 19
sorry to hear again of your dad behaviour and you have now only two options i think and they are live it or leave it.
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@birjudanak (14316)
• India
2 Sep 19
@Nevena83 i can understand your situation
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
I would love to leave this house as far as I can, but unfortunately I have no money for it.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
31 Aug 19
Maybe tomorrow will be better for you.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
Thank you but I often feel exhausted.
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@YuleimaVzla (1857)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
31 Aug 19
Your pare is something older? Sometimes older people gradually become increasingly intolerable every day because of old age, even in trivial and everyday things that are not worth discussing, be patient, in the end all parents love their children (in mostly, not all, but mostly) sometimes I argue with my mother for the same reason, she has become uncompromising over the years and she is the only one who is right about everything. I just let him talk since he is an older adult and talk and talk and I don't pay attention to him, then he calms down and acts as if nothing has happened.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
31 Aug 19
As much as we like to become quiet but there are instances we need to speak.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
1 Sep 19
@Nevena83 take time to rest
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
Yes, but I'm tired of the story, the daily struggle ...
@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
2 Sep 19
@ilocosboy It is impossible to rest in this house.
@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
31 Aug 19
Sorry to hear about your Dad. He sounds really tough to deal with. I had a good day yesterday. Today has just started. It is 8 AM.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
2 Sep 19
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
31 Aug 19
well why do you keep silent? if something bothers you, you should say it and try and talk about it and fix it. do something about it.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
@aureategloom That is impossible, he would never agree.
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
2 Sep 19
@Nevena83 well then tell him that you won't be taking care of him anymore. i don't know much about your situation, but i'm sure that it could be better.
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
1 Sep 19
@Nevena83 then why don't you get him some professional help or place him into some sort of institutions and group therapy, or something. i'm sorry that you keep silent, you shouldn't.
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@snowy22315 (208846)
• United States
31 Aug 19
My day was pretty good. You have to take the steps to get out, if you want your life to improve, even if it is two years from now.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
I'm glad you had a good day. Honestly, I don't know what to do anymore.
@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
31 Aug 19
I am sorry you have to deal with your father's behavior. My day has been nice. My husband and I spent the evening together and we had a nice dinner. Now it is late, but I am not tired yet.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
Sounds perfect. You must have enjoyed it.
@JudyEv (382019)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Aug 19
I'm sorry your father is so difficult. I've had a good day so far but it's only 8.30am. :)
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
I'm glad you had a good day. I hope you still have a good day today?
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
31 Aug 19
I had a very good day, it was quiet, peaceful, and enjoyable.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Sep 19
That sounds like the perfect day.